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The ~obsession~ is real!
Now that some of us have more time on our hands to just ~chill~, one activity that seems to be shared by most Pinoys is this: binge-watching on Netflix—specifically K-dramas. Whether you're a seasoned Hallyu fan or have recently jumped on the ...
 
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Happy watching!
Fans would agree that they turn to K-dramas for the shows’ light-hearted scenes na tamang pampakilig lang, which is why it’s not as appealing for people who aren’t exactly into romantic themes. Not to mention that there seems to be a misconception ...
 
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Did Jang Man Wol secretly visit Dan Bam?
Quarantine life has pretty much pushed my family and I to be overnight kitchen experts and K-drama marathoners. Whereas my workmate Nicole's household is hooked on Crash Landing On You, mine can't get over Itaewon Class. So for our second time to watch ...
 
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They played their hearts out!
It’s been weeks since Itaewon Class ended, and we already miss seeing the cast. So, when we found out that two of its stars—Ahn Bo Hyun and Lee Joo Young—have recently guested on popular K-variety show Running Man, we followed the drill ...
 
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Raise your hand if you also tried making Dalgona coffee and Parasite's ram-don at home!
With the Korean wave continuing to dominate the internet from K-pop to K-dramas, it's no surprise that the delicious meals often showcased in their hit TV shows and award-winning films have quickly opened the doors for social media's recent K-food obsession. Unless ...
 
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Cop her gorgeous complexion.
You might’ve initially disliked her character as Oh Soo Ah in Itaewon Class, but you can’t deny that actress Kwon Nara really nailed that K-beauty glow down to an art. In the K-drama, she usually wears minimal makeup—just a flawless base, the ...
 
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*heart eyes*
It looks like everyone has a new K-drama crush right now and it’s none other than Kim Dong Hee. You’ve seen him in shows like A-Teen (Ha Min), Sky Castle (Cha Seo Joon), and most recently, Itaewon Class (Jang Geun Soo). He also ...
 
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We can't wait for March 21!
The last time we saw Park Bo Gum on our small screens was in January 2019, when he starred in the series Encounter. We missed him *dearly*, but it looks like the long wait is FINALLY over!According to a report by Soompi, ...
 
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You can start streaming it on February 1!
Here's something we don't see very often: Jo Kwang Jin, the author of popular Korean webtoon Itaewon Class, is also the scriptwriter for the K-drama adaptation starring Park Seo Joon! In Itaewon Class, Seo Joon stars as a determined ~underdog~ who goes ...
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Serene Fae A day ago

"The paradoxical idea of attaining a happier life and how to withstand these beliefs."

The Revolting Truth About Happiness by Theserenefae

If people ask you about your vision of a happier life we automatically envision ourselves having more money, true love, a better job, Instagram-worthy vacations, etc. But let me break this to you this, According to Dr. Laurie Santos, Professor of Psychology at Yale University and the voice behind The Happiness Lab podcast, "Most of the goals we think would make us happy do not really make us happy." And why is that? Simple, being happy is all in our minds. The human mind ploys us with these lenses on how we envision ourselves and our lives to be happy. The perception of "having" or "gaining" is the exact opposite of what will truly make our lives better. So how can we really be "happy"?

• Seek happiness inside you. This is a quintessential reason for our vision of happiness: misconceptions about having a lot of money would make me happy; owning this and that would make me happy; entering a relationship would make me happy. This is not the case, if you want to be truly happy with your relationship, you have to be already happy on your own. If you want satisfaction from others, you have to be satisfied with yourself. And so on.

• Fill that hole righteously We all have that tiny hole inside our hearts, tampering it with temporary band-aids. Fill this hole with purpose. Have you ever heard about The Three "M's"— Master, Mission, and Mate? Define who will be your Master, is it God? If that's so, your Mission could be following his words and will. Mate would be the last for they will be the best companion to fulfill your mission. Now hear me out, it is important to do this accordingly. We often times jumble it or invert it which can lead to failures.

• Give gifts to others. The wonderful grace in giving. There’s nothing like the rush of pure joy when you get a chance to give. However, this may not be something that we're used to. But apparently, openhandedness is our soul's true shape. As Eugene Peterson put it, "Giving is what we do best. It is the air into which we were born." This doesn't necessarily mean we have to give away our stuff but we can also present love, kindness, gratefulness, etc. in our own simplest ways to anyone such as giving time, encouragement, helping hand, or even forgiveness. Try giving and you'll receive inconceivable gifts in return.

• Savor moments. Savoring deeply intensifies our positive emotions while doing something that we love the most by simply stepping outside of the experience to review and appreciate the moment. You can practice this by having a delicious meal, reading a good book, or any activity that you enjoy and love. It can also be enhanced by sharing these experiences with others, appreciating such amazing moments, or staying present the entire time.

• Choose to Love Deeper Today's society relentlessly pressures all of us to have this "perfect" lifestyle such as pursuing careers that drain you, finding value through virtual world and purchases, letting achievements become your whole identity, and yet after all that you still feel empty and failure inside. Consumption is just skin deep—a shallow perception of happiness. Deep life brings the best out of us and others. It is about nourishing what you already have, focusing on the relationships than material wealth, becoming vulnerable at times, and being self-aware.

• Understand that Sufferings and Pain are part of Human Being. Always remember that loneliness and sufferings are inevitable. That is completely how life goes. You may be happy for a moment or a month but sooner or later great tribulation will start to kick in. Combat despair with graciousness. Count all the blessings that you have (and will have in near future, claim it!) by writing it down on a piece of paper or typing on your phone. Viola! an instant boost for happiness. We all know the fact that this superficial happiness won't work, but why do I keep on wanting? I already have all this wisdom about how to be happy for ages, but why can't I apply it to my own life?

First, you have to understand that simply knowing doesn't change your behavior. Care to realize that all the tips that I have mentioned are all verbs? Because at the end of the day, it is all about how you choose to be happy and initiate actions towards success. Know, reflect, visualize, believe, and do something about it. All of these are Actions! This is the secret of all the happiest and most influential people in the world—actions. Furthermore, do know that some of these tips do not work instantly most of the time. It requires a lot of time, motivation, consistency, and effort. I do know it's easier said than done. Take each of them slowly, one step at a time.

If it wasn’t for pain, I wouldn’t be alive. It may sound contradictory, but it’s true. Pain reminds me that I can feel, along with other emotions. Pain reminds me that I can heal, just like how I did in the past. Pain reminds me that I am strong and I can do better. It reminds me that life can be bitter, and it is up to us to make it a little sweeter (or saltier, depending on what the person wants).

With this epiphany, I take pain in a positive light. It’s normal that it can break me and make me want to stay in bed all day, but having someone or something remind me that there is hope is enough. It’s normal that I cry my heart out, but it’s important to remember that there’s a calm after the storm. If it wasn’t for pain, I wouldn’t be who I am now. It has shaped me and how I look at things. It has changed the way I approach circumstances that can challenge me and my beliefs.

Pain, back then, made me cower in the dark. Pain used to be my biggest fear, and I used to do my best to avoid pain. However, I realized that avoiding pain is like avoiding life. Because of how I wanted to protect myself, I closed myself off to people and opportunities. I used to tell myself that “this will end badly”, or “this is going to hurt in the end”. I always focused on how much pain I might endure in the end that I forgot to enjoy the process.

It’s inevitable, you see? Endings, most of the time, may hurt. It’s natural for us to grow attached to someone or something, and their disappearance might bring us a lot of pain. However, one should always remember that the pain is a reminder of how close you became, how many memories you had. If it wasn’t for pain, life would be pointless. If it wasn’t for pain, we would be nothing.

margaux marie A day ago
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