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Disney has been creating fantastic tales that truly make a mark in one's childhood. From simple fantasy stories to adventure stories that rattle the imagination of whoever is attached to the magical world of Disney, the company has been successful at churning out classic and modern epics, whether in animation or live action. This magical universe challenges one's train of thoughts as every story explores the deep imagery of every line delivered by exceptional characters.

Furthermore, one of the remarkable things about Disney is its capacity to come out with remarkable remakes of fairytales that have touched even the deepest dreams of children. That said, behind the magical world of Disney is a hidden sacred feminism, an empowerment of women concealed behind the lines and the fairy tales while debunking the gender norms in society.

As a typical girl growing up with the dream of being one of the enchanting Disney Princesses, I am looking forward to being the star of my own fairytale-like story someday. You know, a story full of adventures and stuff that a real Disney princess gets blessed with. Add in some sorcery, talking things, and fairies to the concoction, and it would be complete. These are just some of the typical items in the wish list of a child who has grown up in the magical universe of Disney. From Cinderella and her fabulous glass shoes, Sleeping Beauty and her supportive fairies, Snow White and her seven little companions, these are just some of the well-known fairytales all around the globe made possible by the wondrous technology and brilliance that is exclusively Disney’s. However, if you look closer at those magical stories of the various Disney damsels in distress, there is a hidden women empowerment theme just waiting to unfold.

Almost all of the leading characters in a typical Disney fairytale are women. It may be a princess trapped in a tower for so long, a normal provincial girl, a magical creature, a warrior. However, that character is always a headstrong girl. From the different roles the heroines in every Disney story portray, it just goes to show how women, by all means available to the fairer gender, are as equally skilled as men.

Take the story of Mulan, for instance. Mulan is the first born in a Chinese family. In the story, Mulan made the radical decision to disguise herself as a man and join the army fighting the Huns. She didn’t want her partially crippled father, who used to be a famous army general, to rejoin the troops battling the marauders and protecting China and the Emperor. Her deception of her commanding officer and her comrades was considered an act of treason, but she was able to show she had the courage to match – or even exceed – that of a man.

In the animated movie "Brave", the heroine Merida proved that women could lead an entire clan by themselves. The movie also showed that it is not necessary to have a man behind every successful woman. The movie proved that women and men are equally strong and independent from each other.

Then there’s Moana, which is about a girl who succeeded in saving her village from the dilemma its people were facing, resulting in the unfolding of the great history of their civilization.

These are just some of the stories of exceptional ladies raising the colors of women while hidden in their own enchanted tales. Those tales prove that women can become the knight in shining armor who will save the world and those they love, in the process. Behind the fancy jewelry and incredible wardrobe are the hidden vigor, vitality and determination of a seemingly typical girl.

The stories demonstrate that women could be the greatest individuals that history writers could ever chronicle, and that all women, in all types of standards on beauty, are masterpieces of grace under pressure while dressed in fancy garments. Behind every Disney tale lies a story emphasizing the value of women in our society, proving that every maiden in need is not always a damsel in distress, but a hero in heels.

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I was, but I am not. Desperately, I am trying to reach you – my hope. I am in this particular space in my own constructed world where doubts and frustrations recur. Emphasizing how scared I am being here, I never explored this area before. I was always in those places filled with benevolence, hope shining like the light the sun and the moon possess. And I didn’t have any plans to visit a ‘dark’ place, as how I described it then. But, as funny as how my world suddenly flipped, I am now here, completely lost with monsters persuading me to go insane.

How did I end up here? I can’t logically tell you the answer for that, but I guess, I know when. It started when I had to consider what college course do I want to pursue. Well, if you want to ask what ambition had occurred in my mind when I was young – which is usually the case in terms of life when you were like 7-year-old young - it was definitely being a doctor. I’d thought about wearing a medical coat with a stethoscope around my neck, ready to cure people from their illnesses. It was actually stuck in my mind for so long I almost thought that I was sure of it, yet, as a particular song yields, almost was never really enough and still, it is and will never be.

When I realized that such a perspective was slowly draining me, I tried my best to stand tough. I convinced myself that this was just temporary, that I could think of a way out of this. “There’s still plenty of time,” I once convinced myself. However, my environment demonstrated the contrary: I felt like I was completely out of time.

I was there when my classmates were happily talking about that ‘dream course’ they wish to take in their ‘dream university.’ I was there when my family was suggesting the thought of using my ‘suitable’ speaking voice for broadcasting and voice acting purposes. I was there when my teacher was convincing me that Education suited me the best. That ‘Stand tough!’ aura I used to own back then, suddenly transformed into ‘I give up!’ state, slowly destroying my being. And now, I am here in this space where doubts and frustrations are filling my former enthusiastic self. I need help.

I know, at this point, some of you may never consider me ‘fatal’ because, as you’re reading this, you may judge that I still have the ability to transform my thoughts into words that can be read, so that ‘automatically’ falls into the aspect of complete sanity. No, because I will never tell everything to you in the first place if I still have the urge to stand like I used to, relative to my belief that speaking up through writing is the best way to attract help.

When you look at the photo of mine above, you may say that I was okay. That I was successful. That I was never losing myself. Yes, I was. But, think about what happened days after that was taken and the message of this passage you started reading minutes before, do you think I am still the same girl smiling in the photo? I hope I will be or better yet, improve if the world will permit me. But, now I’m sure – I’m not the same.


This blog is dedicated to all teens out there struggling in determining what they really want in their life or if you simply want a glow up. And since were still facing a pandemic, I think this is also a season where everyone is re-thinking about their lives. So, I hope these advices might help you.

Tip #1. TAKE RISK - since most of you are still young, I advice you to take your biggest risk. Whether it may be taking the course you want, a skill you want to acquire or just simply taking the risk to throw away your emotional baggage from your childhood. While you're still young, you have very little to lose. You dont have that much commitments and responsibilities. Because the older you get, the more responsibilities and obligations came. So when they are still not piling up, take the risk! As for me, the biggest risk I took when I was still a teenager is to CUT OFF TOXIC FAMILY TIES.

I may sound rude here but, yeah. I decided to throw away my emotional baggage from my traumatic childhood and cut off some of my family ties and it is completely okay! You dont have to be bothered by whatever they will say. Because at your age, you are already investing on your growth as a person. If you really want to grow, THERE IS NO PERFECT TIME FOR YOU TO TAKE RISK BUT NOW. Because in taking risk you are actually giving yourself a reward of getting something amazing or beyond what you expect you can have. As they say, the bigger the risk, the bigger the reward. Keep in mind that the bigger the risk, the bigger possibility of FAILURE. But that is completely OKAY. Because just like what I said earlier, you are still young. You dont have so much to lose so, dont be afraid to take the risk and then fail. But after failing, learn from it and the more courage you have to take risk the greater the learning, reward or happiness. Ito na nga, how to take risk nga ba? And what are the risk that would actually help me to grow? #

2: VOICE LESSON - dont get me wrong, hindi ito vocalization para sa pagkanta. What I mean is, learn to listen to that VOICE INSIDE YOU. Listen to your heart, to your intuition and to your visions because it will be your GUIDE. Because I realize that as you go along your journey of your life and if you really want to be YOURSELF and be successful in achieving your goals, the only GUIDE that you should follow is your OWN VOICE.

It is okay to take and consider other people's advices but at the end of the day,you should never forget to listen to your own voice. Because that voice is what tells you what you truly want. How would you know that if it is your 'own' voice? Your own voice always comes from your HEART. The voice where YOU and GOD'S voice are one. Because I firmly believe that God knows your heart and that is where he reside. I like journaling because whenever I journal my thought every night and every morning, I feel a dual voice inside my head. Like, it contradicts what the other voice is telling. For example: If we have dreams or goals that puts us so much weight and pressure to the point that it makes you exhausted, STOP. Because it might be a dream or goal of someone else. I believe that your own dreams and goals may be frustrating most of the time, but that frustration has fueling feeling that will always tell you that 'This is the hard way to better so keep going'. Frustration in your own dreams will not make you feel exhausted because achieving a dream itself is a fulfilling feeling.

#3. TAKE ACTION - if you really want something to happen, take action. Dont just sit there and wait things to come your way. Make action or decisions that will take you to where you want to go in your life. Just like what I said in one of my novels that I am writing in wattpad, "There is no such thing as destiny or fate. Because YOU make your OWN life choices." For example, I cannot expect to be a published author if I dont write any novels right? The bottomline here is, if you are not moving forward you are actually moving backward. And it is a sad thing. Life is full of situations where you will be put in the line whether you take courage or just stay where you are. Because GROWING needs consistency in moving forward. So if you dont have to enough courage to take action, your life will always stay the same or worse you will continuously shrink down.

#4. EXPAND YOUR HORIZONS - this means stretching your comfort zone. I watched an anime entitled "Black Clover" there is a captain there where he always tell his subordinates to surpass their limits right, here right now. Going out of our comfort zones are surely scary and uncomfortable. But you have to accept the fact that you cannot stay on the coast forever. You have to change, because the only thing that is constant in this world is change right? Go out of your comfort zones because LIMITS are just in the MIND. There are disabled people who are successful in their own careers. Because the lesson here is, if you hold back there will be no growth. Because GROWTH blooms in DISCOMFORT.

Last, #5. INVEST IN YOURSELF - especially now that you are still young, you should focus on investing on yourself more. Time is your bestfriend at this point of your life. You have so much time to discover things about yourself. I never regret buying and reading books that I never knew will help me later on in dealing life's challenges. You can use that time to read books, gain wisdom, or pick a new skill, improve your talent and learn from your experiences. Keep learning outside your home or your school. Because the real battlefield is OUTSIDE. What you learn in school will only help you in your career but your wisdom and experiences will help you in life or as a person. People who doesnt embrace growth will never succeed in their life. (This is a reflection blog from my 21st birthday last week. I hope you can feature this on your page and I hope it can help others as well. )

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