Dormer Ka Ba? Here’s How To Make Your Room Feel More Like Your Home
Every college student needs a good personal workspace; and for many, it’s their dorm room. With those four walls being the witness to our all-nighters, random breakdowns, and procrastination sessions, it makes sense that we’d want to add a bit of our personal aesthetic to these spaces through some décor. However, unlike with our bedrooms back home, we don’t always have the permission, the time, or the money to give our dorm rooms an Instagram-worthy revamp. But truth be told, you don’t always need expensive furniture or brightly-painted walls to give your workspace some extra pizazz. Sometimes, it only takes a few simple additions to brighten up your area and inspire you to stay productive.
Splurge on some succulents
What better way to give your dorm room a bit of life than through some indoor plants? Succulents are one of the simplest yet most purchased room decors, and the great thing about them is that they’re easily movable and super low-maintenance, while effortlessly brightening up your work desk.
The best part is that you can choose from a wide variety of succulents, from jade plants to flowering cacti.
It’s easy to get your hands on them too: you can find them at your nearest grocery store, in flower markets like Dangwa, or even through affordable online shops like Arts & Cactus and My Cactus and Plants on Facebook. Your wallet need not worry about these potted plants, as you can score a lot of them for less than a hundred pesos.
Play with your walls
Your dorm walls are blank canvasses ready to be decorated, and there are many simple and non-permanent decor options you can try out on them.
If you’re dorming far away from your hometown, you could try a photo wall, where you can stick with tack/hang on twine some pictures of your family and friends from back home to lift you up whenever you’re feeling lonely or homesick.
You could also try out tapestries, which instantly add color to your room after you put them up. Something cool I’ve tried was DIY buntings: I bought this cheap pack of pre-cut cardboard flaglets that came with string, then I pasted cutouts from my old magazines onto the flaglets. I connected them with the string then hung them above my bed, which turned out to be really pretty. You can also hang up other things on your wall like vintage maps and posters from shops like Biblio and Papemelroti, and if you’re a fine arts student, why not frame the plates you’re most proud of?
Get creative with a corkboard
The great thing about corkboards is that they can be both functional and decorative. You could stick a simple to-do list written on colored paper, then boom–instant color pop for your desk. Apart from the usual school memos or sticky note reminders, think about adding some personal memorabilia, like inspirational notes to yourself, cute quote posters that really speak to you, some acrylic pins, pictures you’ve taken with your blockmates, and even your nametags from all the org events you’ve volunteered for. This is a space where you can make chaos look creative.
If you want to be extra, you can slice up a thin corkboard into hexagons and stick them together on your wall for a more interesting take on the usual rectangular boards. On these hexagons you can paint or paste some printed paper on them to add variety, and you could even use push pins to hang some stuff that don’t usually go on corkboards like earrings, necklaces, and org lanyards.
Explore DIY Storage
Before really getting into decorating your room, it’s important to first keep your stuff neat and organized. Luckily, with DIY storage, you can achieve both. Think twice before throwing out all your cereal boxes, because they actually make cute organizers–from drawer dividers to containers for your books and loose papers. Even your canned goods post-dinner can serve as storage for your writing materials and other school supplies.
If you’re too short on time for DIY, you can opt to buy some affordable storage supplies from shops like Daiso or Miniso, and just buy multiples of the same design, since this uniformity can also serve a decorative purpose.
Experiment with lights
Lights are the simplest way you can literally brighten up your workspace. Sometimes one creative light source is enough to elevate your room from drab stress-zone to photoshoot-worthy study space.
A common décor choice is fairy lights, which would go nicely with the suggested photo wall earlier. You can choose from multiple colors, depending on the aesthetic you’re going for, and you can even opt to place them inside colored wine bottles you have lying around at home. You can also go for cute lamps, like the famous moon light, the cute silicone cat lamps, and the unique acrylic 3D lamps, which can easily take your desk décor to the next level.
The cool thing about creative light sources is how they can effortlessly set a calming mood and give your dorm room the homey vibe you’ll need after a stressful day at school.
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these sheets that exactly remind me of how I gushed in between my pillow and space you filled in the longing of my burned sorrow put smile to my sober face just like how a three year old receive her lollipop
i searched you everywhere and here you are laying down beside me in my imagination the walls that our screens built a boundary and an obvious message that says i can never have you because you wear clerical shirt and obviously you loved someone else before me
oh god, do I really want this forbidden love? that only exist in my imagination? that only exist through my words? would you, meine liebling, notice me and my art one second? because I am dying to say I love you.
A Simple Learner Who's a Great Pretender
Maybe I'm just a learner, not a weirdo. A learner that knows how to listen and pretend. A simple learner who's a great pretender. Pretending to be slightly dumb enough not to be judged and criticized by those who do not appreciate my existence. We surround ourselves with people who's levels are either beyond or below our intellectual behavior, because as for reality, people may use you either for their success or your downfall. Since then, people tend to judge someone who has an intellect with things they shouldn't be. Making them a criticizer, and most of all, calling them weird.
Honestly, I'm one of this "weirdo" who actually loves to learn things, and for the record, I'm bullied and stressed out for making myself not to learn more and go with the flow to dumbness I had. Have you ever feel being assigned to some task where you know every process to make it easier and faster to finish but turns out to hesitate to voice out because some of your mates put themselves in charge. There are times where I know what to do, what to say, or how to react, but kept myself silent and pretend not to know anything that may help us. Maybe it's a good thing to just go with their ideas and learn from their perspectives, but sometimes you can't control it and says something, and once again called to be a weirdo and let you finish the work by yourself.
It's annoying that you only know one process yet they gave you the whole work and let you finish it by yourself because they insist that "MAGALING KA DIBA?". It's not your fault being an intellectual person, knowing such things that may help you to pursue your dreams, and have the basic knowledge about something. You don't need to know everything, just the basics. And as for those people who do not appreciate your existence, let them be and continue what's the best for you. In some cases, you'll be annoyed by this but most of the time you'll be thankful for it. Not for now but maybe later. Just be yourself either a weirdo, a great pretender, or a simple learner, and always remember to lower your voice and behavior because no one loves that.
Just be a great pretender not to hear any runts and be a good learner that appreciates everything. It's out of nowhere thoughts of mine, but simply I leave you this my favorite life quotation; "Don't introduce yourself, Let your success introduce you"
Dear me in six years, I wonder how life will treat you when you’re already 26 years old. Will you be financially stable? Will you be working in an advertising agency while pursuing everything about the arts? Will you be doing freelancing and living in a condo by then? I don’t know since things are very uncertain. I hope by the time you graduate from college and face the real meaning of the world, you’ll know what the real purpose of doing and living in the art will be.
I know it’s been so tough ever since you turned 20 but that’s how life works, I guess. There will be a lot of hopes and trials, breakdowns, and breakthroughs but I have high hopes of you becoming the better version of yourself. You always do, though. You were never a quitter. Making decisions is getting harder and harder as you grow but I hope it doesn’t make you stop doing what you really love to do. You will face different people with different perspectives. You will feel like a stranger once again, it’s like you were back in your freshmen year. It’s going to be tougher than you’ve expected but you can do it. I believe you can.
Most of the time, people's perception of us as a strong person makes us feel that we are not entitled to be vulnerable because they might be disappointed for seeing our weak spots. And so when we are hurting, we are often scared of extreme emotions and so bury our feelings. We deny them, trying to avoid the pain we feel.
But by doing that, we are just allowing it to come back to us and haunt us. And when it comes back, it might be stronger and it will be harder for us to get over it than when we faced them first. I realized it just now that facing those emotions will scare them until they're gone. The saying 'Let it hurt until it hurts no more' goes true. Admitting your pain to yourself doesn't make you weak. It only proves that you are strong enough to acknowledge such extreme emotions without avoiding them. We are humans and it's okay if we hurt sometimes.
Before, sliding over the rainbows
Now, our hearts are bruised
Days once full of love and laughter
Became dawns of forfeited ever after
Smiles that bring ticklish sensations
Turned to cold question and answer
Figuring who would be the next instructor
The queen’s awake
Grappling to the happiness that the sorrow and sadness take
Going back to all the promises he couldn’t make
Poetry #2: YOUR VOICE
When you talk, your voice brightens my days. You provide me comfort in all the little things that you do. Your deep and mellow voice sends a tingling feeling inside me that makes me want to keep you in my life. I love talking to you every time, every day, every night and every minute if I could. You're someone just simply amazing.