Ask Candy: What Would You Want to Hear From a Friend When You're Going Through a Rough Time?

Allow yourself to feel the way you're feeling. Let it all out then keep going. —Sam, Editor In Chief

If you live long enough, you'll make mistakes. But if you learn from them, you'll be a better person. It's how you handle adversity, not how it affects you. The main thing is never quit, never quit, never quit. —William J. Clinton —Steph, Art Director

Let me share what my friend Hannah told me when a boy I liked made me feel like poop. “No, I will not use the ‘his loss’ speech on you. Just please remember that the way he treated you does not define your worth—it defines his.” —Dyan, Entertainment and Features Editor

"The best way out is always through." —Robert Frost —Ning, Fashion and Beauty Assistant

When you wake up tomorrow, the sun will shine a little brighter and you’ll realize that it's not the end of the world just yet. —Macy, Web Managing Editor

This too shall pass.—Trixie, Web Art Director

Things may hurt right now, but everything will make sense in the end. They have to. :) —Ayessa, Web Editorial Assistant