7 Things to Consider So You Can Have a Debut For Less
Turning 18 soon? Here are some tips to celebrate this milestone without going broke! All you need is a practical mindset, creativity, and a strong support system to help you carry out your ideas just fine.
- Airconditioned < Outdoor venue
More often than not, air-conditioned venues are more expensive and you can only use them for a limited amount of time. Save some bucks and book a venue that is mostly outdoor, with maybe an open tent or pavilion for the tables. Private pool resorts can be reserved for more than half the amount of money you have to pay for a grand hall. This will also give you that "night under the stars" feel. Or if you have a big enough yard, save even more and have your party there.
- DIY menu
Parties are usually done during lunch or dinner, but you can be unconventional and have a brunch or a tea party menu. Surf the net to find affordable caterers or food packages for a big group and ask them to not fully style your event because sometimes this adds on to the expense. If you have time and a small army of people to help, you can cook up a storm for your party, or maybe even set up a mini dessert table in a corner.
- Make your own décor
You know what exactly you want to see in your party, so it's satisfying to see your vision coming to life. Sketch a few ideas (or have a friend sketch a few for you) and start getting to work. Go to art supplies stores and party needs stores and you are sure to find a lot of cheap, pretty pieces that you can add to your setup. If you're having trouble with some of your ideas, get some family or friends to help you or try to find a supplier that can provide with the lowest price possible. Tip: Join Facebook groups with party suppliers and post what you are looking for. You are sure to find a one that can meet your needs!
- Get creative with the invites.
Gone are the days when you have to stick to board-type invites with envelopes. Depending on your theme, you can play around with your invites. A film-inspired party? Movie tickets, or a movie pass will do. A boho party by the beach? A dreamcatcher with a small tag for the details might look great. A dainty tea party? You can bake a small batch of cookies and wrap them in pretty paper with the details of your event. You can make whatever type of invite you want, even a digital one. This saves a lot, since you don't need a professional designer or a high-tech printer.
- Create your own photobooth setup.
This can just be a curtain of beads or some flowers or a wooden board. Add touches that tie in with your theme, and you're good to go! Set up a camera and have a family member (who is willing) take pictures of everyone who wants to try the booth. You can also have a printer nearby so that the shots can be developed and taken home.
- Ask a few favors.
It's going to be hard to cut back if you need an emcee and a makeup artist. You can ask a close friend or a funny tita to host the event, since they know you best and the audience can relate to them easily. You can be your own makeup artist, or if you're struggling with it, ask for some help (Maybe a contact of your mom's? Or a friend who is always kilay goals?). Ask them nicely, and make sure that their enjoyment of the party is never compromised.
- Customize your giveaways.
Your giveaways usually reflect the theme, but it's okay if it doesn't. It can be more related to who you are to your friends, or a trademark you have. If you like writing, it can be small jars of poetry. If you're more of a baker, you can bake mini-cupcakes for them to take home. Or if you're an artist, you can paint small postcards for them. Whatever you choose, make it memorable for them, even if it's small.
Do you have more ideas to add to the list? Feel free to share them in the comments below.
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5 Mystery-Thriller Novels to Read
If you’re stuck at home and out of Netflix shows to binge-watch, then you might want to try and read these mystery-thriller books to match your homemade Dalgona Coffee.
1. The Silent Patient by Alex Michaelides
The debut novel, and Goodreads Choice Awards Best Mystery & Thriller of 2019, follows Alicia Berenson, a well-known painter married to an esteemed fashion photographer. Life seemed perfect for Alicia, until one evening when she shot her husband five times, and… never spoke again.
2. Lock Every Door by Riley Sager
From the author of Final Girls comes this page turning novel about an infamous building in Manhattan called the Bartholomew. After stumbling upon an ad to become an apartment sitter, Jules Larsen has set out to look after apartment 12A under strict and somewhat odd conditions. Not long after stepping foot in the building, Jules has been met with unfriendly tenants, eerie noises in the apartment unit, and an abrupt departure of a fellow sitter named Ingrid.
3. The Sun Down Motel by Simone St. James
If you loved Alfred Hitchcock’s Psycho or David Lynch’s Twin Peaks, then this book is for you. After the disappearance of her Aunt Vivian while working as a night-shift clerk at the Sun Down Motel in 1982, Carly has set off to Fell NY, to work the same job at the same place as her Aunt had 35 years ago – with hopes of uncovering the truth lurking behind the Motel walls.
4. Verity by Colleen Hoover
While known for Young-Adult Novels such as Slammed and Maybe Someday, Colleen Hoover offers readers a romantic thriller about Lowen Ashleigh, a struggling author who was given the opportunity to finish the three remaining novels of a successful series after its original author, Verity Crawford, suffered an accident and has become immobile. After receiving an invite at the Crawford manor to sort through Verity’s notes, Lowen discovers an unpublished autobiography revealing the truth about Verity. With the eerie atmosphere of having Verity confined in her own home, and who is seemingly aware of her surroundings, Lowen is certain Verity is not what she appears to be.
5. Dark Matter by Blake Crouch
A mind-bending science fiction thriller from the best-selling author of Wayward Pines – Dark Matter is packed with the concept of the Multiverse and the philosophy of existentialism. The novel follows an ordinary Physics professor, Jason Dessen, who was looking forward to dinner with his family while walking the streets of Chicago. The next thing he knew, he was being held at gunpoint – by a man wearing a mask – and injected with an unknown drug and blacks out. When he regains consciousness, he learns that the world he woke up to was different from the world he knew.
Here's a poem I wrote a while back reflecting on what it's like over-rationalize a simple thing like crushing on a dude -- hence, the title "Scientific Method"
You were a phenomenon I cannot wrap my head around
When I first met you, my heart forgot to make its signature sound
And it's overwhelming, your presence;
And underwhelming, so science will be the only language I'll hide in-- For now.
At first glance, I notice your top button unbuttoned,
and your shirt fully cotton
Complete with a smile as nervous as me
And a swagger in your step only I can see
Further on, I find your wit to be at a pace
That doesn't leave any space for tension to rise
and it's all too nice
And ridiculous and a bit too suspicious
That this isn't another (well,) circus.
Now, let's take a wild guess,
Oh, but it has to be smart, yes,
That this could lead to something with potential
That this isn't another differential easily solved
With a formula, tried and tested but never evolved
For so long, we've both been independent of any dependent
Keeping our variables fixed and ourselves distracted
With anything, everything,
But not a single thing
Could stop me from pushing this blindly to find its threshold,
Hoping that it's a quantity my hands could still hold
Over hours, days, and weeks
Through minor revisions and tweaks
Then comes the analysis -- that these weren't accidents
So, now I find myself in a conundrum
With the anomaly in a blue shirt right in front of me,
That this had to be processed logically,
But the findings are as follows:
None of which were shallow, so I therefore conclude that it's true,
I therefore conclude that it's you.
Mi Luna: The Light in My Dark Soul Locked in… Alone…
Why do I feel comforted by darkness? Oh cause maybe because… I am a jolly and very enthusiast kid back then. All I know is to have fun, laugh and play. But as I grow older, everything has changed, a lot. I can feel the changes. I know the more I get older, I’m turning to something I’m not. You know what, I just realized I like it even more. And that’s how I turned a monster. A monster to my own self. Always questioning life and even God about the things that are happening with my life. “Do I deserve this?”. Every day was a struggle. “Which mask should I wear now?”. And every night is my judgement time. “Should I still continue with my miserable life?”. This certainly sum up my whole life. I have this mindset since I was young. I can say that my experiences made me like this. I always want to escape, but every time I tried to pick up myself up, there is always shits that pulls me down. And there, I get tired. Hoping that no one would ever see this. As I despise myself as well. What I can do now is to just embraced everything, I just embraced darkness- reflecting my own self.
“Look at the moon, it can shine alone and it can give us light at night.” A line I was keeping in my mind that a friend of mine helps me realize things and been there to fix my path. And there I started seeking for my moon but I do not know which part should I start. As days passed, I started to open up myself. I started to act as what truly inside me. It is very hard at first and there is this time that even the situation got worst. But as I continue exploring with my life, a question pop out on my head “Why did I still get this far?”, I can say that maybe I should do this, maybe I really can do this but it is myself who is holding me back because I’m afraid.
Now as far as I am trying to revive my soul, there I know that many people care. Yes, I learned to open up but not to all, on different situations there are people who can understand me because they have the same situation as I am. I learn to open up as long as they did not force me. I learned to navigate and open up for whom I trusted and at the same time when I am ready. The light that I am seeking is my own understanding and acceptance about myself. My light is myself and I am Mi Luna. So it is not too late to save myself. I have thought that, I should be a survivor and winner. That I should also be the ruler of my own mind and soul. Eliminate the room for darkness and let the light shine through you, that I can say how I earned myself again. Mi Luna’s darkness have turned to spotlight.
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