36 Books You Need to Read Before You Turn 20
Turning twenty is a milestone in any person's life. You may dread not being a "teen" anymore ("twen-teen" is not happening, sorry), and maybe you are feeling excited about finally being a full-pledged adult; we bet our lives you are feeling a crazy mix of both. Hear this, brace yourself for the years to come for they will be the best years of your life; they will also be the most difficult.
That is why we have listed down the books you need to read before you turn 20. These titles helped us cope in the most trying times; we're honestly hoping they do the same for you.
- The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
This is just one of those books you come back to from time to time because we're all children in adult bodies after all. The charm of this poignant tale will remain no matter how old we get and for us that is pure magic.
- Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom
The life lessons you will earn from this book will be of great help as you trudge on to your most difficult years—your twenties. We promise you, you will never be the same person after finishing this book BUT we can't promise that you'll finish it with an unscathed heart.
- The Handmaid's Tale by Margaret Atwood
We know you'll love a dystopian read but there is another reason to get fully committed to this book: it tells the story of one woman's struggle for self-determination against all odds and all throughout the book you will feel as if you are fighting alongside her. This book is an experience you cannot miss.
- The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion
This book shows you grief in the most honest way possible. Some parts will leave your heart heavy and your tear ducts ready to give out but we hope you come through. We will all experience loss at some point; introduce yourself to it through this book.
- The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky
You may have seen this on the big screen already (who could ever forget Logan Lerman's stellar performance?) but the book will take you to an even more special place. We're pretty sure you will identify with Charlie as he tries to navigate uncharted territory a.k.a growing up. This book is also loaded with quotes you'll end up scribbling on your journals, they are that beautiful!
- Love in the Time of Cholera by Gabriel García Márquez
This book has been published years ago but it only proves that love stories never really get old. In the time of modern dating where everything moves at a dizzying speed, it warms the heart to witness a story of love that endures no matter the circumstance.
- Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life by Anne Lamott
This book is worth your time even when you're not a writer because it will teach you so much more than stringing words together. It did not take us long to fall in love with Anne Lamott's wit and humor that is why this is probably our favorite nonfiction read EVER.
- The Solitude of Prime Numbers by Paolo Giordano
This book is not your mathematics textbook pretending to be a novel so you’ll pick it up, trust us. If you ever felt like you're destined to be alone and you can't seem to find your "people," this is the book for you.
- Quiet: The Power of Introverts by Susan Cain
Finally a book that celebrates introverts (it's about time, right?).This book affirms that "There's zero correlation between being the best talker and having the best ideas." and this is something every introvert is trying to fight for. You go introverts of the world; stay golden!
- The Hiding Place by Corrie Ten Boom
This memoir is a true account of Corrie Ten Boom's experiences in German-occupied Holland during World War II. It's a story of pain, suffering and also of faith, strength, kindness and perseverance.This book will make you feel the pain that is not yours but you will carry it anyway because you are human. It's an eye-opening experience.
- Oh, the Places You'll Go! by Dr. Seuss
Absolutely no one is ever too old for Dr. Seuss. Whether you're five, 25, or 50, this book will resonate with you in some way. It's amazing how even in the face of our most "adult" and complicated problems, we can still go back to this book we all grew up with.
- The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath
It's impossible to read this book without getting affected; this book is meant to get to you for it is dealing with a serious problem all of us can fall prey to. It can happen to your best friend, your sister, to you; and that gives us all the more reason to talk about it out in the open.
- The Girls' Guide to Hunting and Fishing by Melissa Bank
Sometimes you read the right book at the right time in your life and it just clicks. If you're about to face the adult world and you are a strong, independent woman (who still has nothing figured out, though), you and this book is a match made in heaven.
- #NoFilter by The Sandbox Collective
No Filter is a collection of monologues written by millennials for millennials. If you're part of generation Y, and you are tired of hearing about how "self-absorbed" and "lazy" millennials have become, and if you're bummed of how Tinder oversimplified love to mere swiping on our phone screens, this book will definitely speak volumes to you.
- This Side of Paradise by F. Scott Fitzgerald
F. Scott Fitzgerald wrote this coming of age read when he was only twenty-three years old and eighteen years later, this book still speaks to every young person who flips through its pages. There are many amazing lines from the book but this one perfectly sums up young love: "There is a moment—Oh, just before the first kiss, a whispered word—something that makes it worthwhile."
- Norwegian Wood by Haruki Murakami
This is probably the Murakami book that "everyone" has read but we're telling you, joining the Murakami party is the best decision you will ever make. Norwegian Wood will leave you a feelsy mess but it will be worth it because the ending is utterly beautiful. We can't wait for you to finish it already.
- To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee
We're sure your English teacher may have asked you to read this for class before. You might have hated you loathed everything that was "required" or you did not know any better so you didn't really bother to read it but believe us, going back to it as an adult is an entirely different experience. To Kill a Mockingbird is an undisputed classic for a reason, it truly is a masterpiece and you are sure to regret not reading it sooner.
- The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg
Your twenties is the perfect time to build good habits that you will carry with you for the rest of your life and it is also the time to banish the bad ones. This book will guide you on how to do just that. The best thing about it is that everything's backed with years of research so you know that it’s no bogus.
- The Diary of a Young Girl by Anne Frank
This book is a powerful classic about Anne Frank and her family's life in hiding during WWII in the Netherlands. Her outlook that there is beauty in everything and that there is always goodness in other people will change the way you see the world.
- The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams
This is not only a must-read for big fans of the sci-fi genre but also for anyone who is in for an intergalactic adventure. This book is out of this world (literally) and the absurdity of it all will challenge your imagination. Its pages is also home to timeless, "will forever be relevant" quotes like this one: "And so the problem remained; lots of people were mean, and most were miserable, even the ones with digital watches."
- Alice in Wonderland by Lewis Carroll
There will always be a part of us that will make us think "I am a little mad." Or "I don't want to grow up" and that is why Alice in Wonderland will forever be a joy to read. We love Alice to bits because she’s the poster girl for anyone who finds themselves in getting lost.
- Girls in White Dresses by Jennifer Close
This book tells the story of three women as they navigate through treacherous waters of heartbreak and career change, family pressure and new love. There are LOTS of relatable moments and it will feel like the characters are people you actually know. This is also you transitioning to more mature chick-lits!
- The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein
This book will rip you heart out in less than seven hundred words (we didn't think that it was possible too, but IT IS.) The Giving Tree teaches us about unconditional love, the kind that does not ask for anything in return, the love we all strive to give and receive.
- And Then There Was None by Agatha Christie
Agatha Christie has written some fantastic murder mysteries but this will always be our number one pick. If you grew up reading Nancy Drew (with a flashlight because you had to have your lights off by 9 PM), this book will remind you of your love for gripping mystery novels.
- One Day by David Nicholls
This book is a love letter to all the love we will find and lose along the way as we grow older. It reveals how life can sometimes make love difficult and that that is a reality we can't run away from. Watch the movie too (it stars Anne Hathaway and Jim Sturgess), it's just as beautiful.
- The Joy Luck Club by Amy Tan
It tells the stories of four women who were born in China but were forced to leave due to tragic circumstances, and their four daughters who were all born in America. The novel explores the cultural divide between the two generations of women and explores how national identity influences people's lives. Stories of women who come through amidst adversity should always be celebrated.
- To the Lighthouse by Virginia Woolf
Reading this book feels like watching a film because of Virginia Woolf's remarkable imagery and no other writer from this century can do it like she does. This is one of those books that will make you dig deep and think about the things that actually matter.
- The Goldfinch by Donna Tartt
This novel is part coming-of-age story, part mystery, and part rumination on the value of a human life versus the value of art. Rick Riordan (author of the Percy Jackson and the Olympians series we all adore) gave this book 5 stars on Goodreads so we’re sure it is a good one.
- milk and honey by Rupi Kaur
milk and honey is a collection of poetry and prose about violence, abuse, love, loss and survival from the perspective of a headstrong woman. This book is confronting and shocking, and it will pull you out of the comforts of your own mind but sometimes, that is exactly what you need. We have nothing but love for this piece of art.
- The Unbearable Lightness of Being by Milan Kundera
You know those books that you finish and then immediately begin again because they were just that good? The Unbearable Lightness of Being might just be that book for you.
- The Portable Dorothy Parker by Dorothy Parker
Reading this book will make you want to have lunch with Dorothy Parker and just listen as she rambles on and on about everything under the sun. We strongly suggest you read the short story Big Blonde, it's the best in the book!
- Coming of Age by Summit Books
If you are about to turn 18 then this is the perfect book for you! It has 18 stories about turning 18 written by 18 different voices. This book will prove that these 18 people have survived adult-ing so far and so will you.
- The Lovely Bones by Alice Sebold
This book will teach you all about life and what remains after it is taken away. Susie Salmon's death will break your heart to pieces, and reading the book will feel like sharing the grief of her whole family. It's been years since we've read this book but it is still on our minds.
- Make Good Art by Neil Gaiman
If ever find yourself uninspired and unmotivated, give this book a read for an instant pick me-up. Our favorite quote from the book will definitely be this one: "Go and make interesting mistakes, make amazing mistakes, make glorious and fantastic mistakes. Break rules. Leave the world more interesting for your being here."
- The Secret Garden by Frances Hodgson Burnett
Remember A Little Princess, the book you can't put down when you were twelve, maybe thirteen? The Secret Garden is from the same author so you can be confident that you are in good hands. Our favorite line is this one: "If you look the right way, you can see that the whole world is a garden." The perfect reminder to always look for the silver linings.
- Lord of the Flies by William Golding
William Golding very realistically portrays human behavior in an environment where civilization no longer has meaning. This book will disturb your existing beliefs about humanity and it will keep on haunting you long after you’ve finished it. Did you know that The Hunger Games can be traced back to this 60-year old classic?
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This is a drawing and a poem I’ve made for a summer love. Our time together was short-lived but the feelings were not.
On a platform we stand
Faces seen all in a blur
Relentless searching led by a spur
To find someone, to feel something
Aren’t we fools to waste away time?
To look for one man’s treasure
Somewhere as ephemeral, as fragile
As a bond built in crime
But aren’t we just like every weary heart?
Hoping for an oasis
In the midst of the desert
Wanting to quench our thirst
Aren’t we all like frosted windows
Of old and battered houses on winter?
Wishing for the sun to give us warmth
To melt the facade so we can show what the inside is made
Aren’t we maven pretenders?
A Casanova? A Temptress? Who made us this way?
A sly fox? A ruthless hunter?
Let down the walls, It’ll be okay
Rushed for a hug, now no hesitating
Engulfed by a sense of bliss or was it longing? Eyes wide-open,
Stepping on a quicksand I embraced the fall into the deep end
Gazed at you lying there unaware With you, found something rare I swear
Realization dawning as loud as a thunder
As the Beating of your heart put me into a deep slumber
Waking up from this reverie
Truth slapped me back to reality
Two worlds so different, now I see If only I could I’d be anything and anyone you need me to be I’m the ludicrous clown, you see
Thought if I ruin it first I’d be free
From the doubts brought by my own insecurity I was so wrong,
What a tragicomedy Brought by the month of April
We rushed the ticking of clock to May Hands interlocked
Weaved skin to skin on a rainy day But when June came to say hello, all went dark grey
What was once there ceases to exist Like the wilting of a flower
Once so beautiful, so full of life Now turned into dust by death’s kiss
Unbounded joy brought by your presence
Paralleled with the perennial ache of your absence Yearned for and offered seventh heaven
Now the heart weeps for evanescence
A mirage, to be the fair maiden The sorrow to find out I’d end up our own villain
But all’s well for you are but a distant dream Gamaliel, You are, I knew it from the very beginning .
Written by me, the one-shot story
Coffee is about a girl who used to cherish moments with someone in a cafe. Sometimes, a simple drink can leave an imprint on someone's mind. ____________________________________________
It's been a year since my boyfriend and I broke up. I love him and he loves me too but things just didn't worked the way it should be. Now I'm heading at the cafe where we started and ended. I have no choice but to go there after all it was made up of both happy and sad memories. But that's life , right? We can't be happy all the time. Challenges come and hearts can break. But it doesn't just end there.
"One signature coffee , please." I said as I ordered from the cashier.
"What size?" she asked.
"Small." I said.
Then she took my payment and I headed towards the seat near the window. A window seat.... for two. The cafe was surprisingly full tonight unlike the past few days.
Again, I have no choice but to sit on that window seat. It is where we sit often. It is our seat. Our place. There are a lot of couples at the cafe and wow I'm alone. There's a part of me which says you should be happy because he's not the only guy in this world. Another part of me says you're still hurt so don't pretend to be happy. The truth is , I am both happy and sad. I'm happy because we're both free and we can focus more in our careers. But I'm sad because I'm not the other half of his heart anymore. I'm sad because I let him go even though I still love him. I'm sad because I can't see him. I'm sad because I can't share this relaxing coffee shop where we can chill with the aromatic smell of the coffee.
"Small signature coffee?" the waitress said as she serves my coffee.
"Yes. Thank you." I said.
"Since you're a regular customer here, we would like to give you this item for free." the waitress said. She handed me a purple journal with the name of the cafe on it and a pen.
"Oh thanks." I said .
"Enjoy your coffee!" she said.
I took advantage of using the freebies from the cafe. A window seat is also a bonus in inspiring me to write something. While sipping my coffee my brain and my heart began to function smoothly.
And so I wrote: My coffee has been cold lately, I can't feel anything after taking a sip and there's no heat to leave a pain on my lips. And it was a relief. But then, I remember one thing about sipping a cold coffee instead of a hot one: cold coffee doesn't leave you any marks when you sipped it, just like a blunt feeling. But a hot coffee will leave you a remarkable pain from the heat which reminds you that you are alive to feel....
I closed the journal and stared at the window. He was the coffee. The hot coffee. No matter how our breakup hurt me, he left me a mark and a lesson to learn. A hot coffee can be a challenge too or an obstacle. They all made you feel that you are alive. That you can go on with your life. You can still stand up. Love taught me to move forward. He taught me to be stronger. He is love.
WHAT IT'S LIKE TO BE A BROKE FANGIRL/FANBOY
One of the proudest things as a fan is the feeling that you are part of their growing fandom and stardom. From streaming their songs online, watching their music videos, TV guestings, collecting photocards, albums, lightsticks, attending to their concert and fan meetings surely, you're a fan! But there's a problem, MONEY.
It's really heartbreaking when you hear that members of your favorite band are coming and their concert is just around the corner but here you are thinking of how to sell one of your kidneys just to go to their concert (kidding).That no matter how much you try to save, it will never be enough for a ticket because you are only a student who has limited resources or if you're an adult, you have bills to pay. So joining a "team bahay" livestream is your last resort, but sometimes even those links don't work!
Of course if there's team bahay there's also "team airport/ team labas", fans who waits at the airport hoping to see their idols upon their arrival. How we wish we could also attend and be part of it, something like shouting their names, fanchants then cry out of happiness while waving their lightsticks or banners. What a concept isn't?
Hey, cheer up! being broke doesn't make you any less of a fan. Know that there are other ways to support and love them. For sure our idols have the same and equal love to us no matter what "team" we belong (team concert, team airport/labas and team bahay).Maybe for some people, they might think we are being overly dramatic without knowing that for us fans, their existence itself and music saved us and made us happy once in our lives. -Gwy June 16,2020