Your March Love Horoscopes Are Here!
(March 21 to April 19)
If you've been feeling like you're on the losing end of the love spectrum, then maybe you're not looking in the right places. You can crave a relationship all you want, but if you don't put yourself out there and make yourself available to the possibility of love, then you can bet your horses that you're going to be single for a while. There's an outgoing, ready-for-anything, attractive person hiding beneath all that negativity. Can you let her off her leash this summer?
(April 20 to May 20)
You've got a deep desire to come out of your shell. Independence is great and all, but if you're in a serious commitment with someone, it may strain on your relationship. In an ideal world, you can be as autonomous as you want to be and get the full blessing of your partner. Reality tells us, though, that your wanting to go off solo may cause some insecurity. Do you want to be free and on your own, or free of your relationship?
(May 21 to June 20)
Make some room for love this month because fate may throw you into a whirlwind fling. The most exciting relationships can be born out of a cats-and-dogs, love-and-hate scenario. If you've got someone in your sphere who may be pissing you off big time, maybe reconsider (albeit against your will) if you could actually be attracted to each other. Watch out for someone with an ego that seems larger than life—that pride may just be masking some serious butterflies and legit feelings for you.
(June 21 to July 22)
Do you have a non-negotiables list for your ideal partner? Coming up with the relationship with your dreams is always fun. It does away with reality and allows you to cut and collage the perfect partner for you (Ryan Gosling's eyes, check! Zayn Malik's voice, yes please!). Just make sure you don't get carry away with your hypothetical boyfriend because, surprise surprise, he doesn't actually exist. Balance out your shoulds, woulds, and coulds with a healthy dose of reality, and the universe may just surprise you.
(July 23 to August 22)
A lot's happened, Leo, and we're only in the first quarter of the year. Before soldiering on with your love agenda, pause to take stock of your romantic history. There's been a lot of drama in your life and instead of pretending it's not there, it's healthy to figure out what hasn't worked out romantically for you. What fears do you have when it comes to commitment? The only way to move forward effectively is to tie those loose strings early on.
(August 23 to September 22)
March is looking good for you as far as romance is concerned, Virgo! Be willing to submit yourself to serendipity and synchronicity. Sure, our love lives are governed by the choices we make, but sometimes, the universe throws us a bone and we land ourselves in the right place at the right time to meet exactly the right person. Keep your eyes open, be willing to play along whatever is thrown your way and resist the urge to say "no" to the first cute guy that comes along. It's about time you had some fun.
(September 23 to October 22)
When the heat of summer starts getting to you, it's time to take a chill pill, Libra. If your relationship is starting to get into a lot of heated brawls, and the two of you are no longer seeing eye to eye, don't jump ship right away and call it quits out of frustration. If you're single and can't stand how long this flirtation you have is taking, battle the urge to call him out and give up. Good things happen when we've got patience on our side. Don't let your temper get the better of you.
(October 23 to November 21)
After a tumultuous February, things will ease up on the love front this month. You don't have to stay suspicious of new people who come in and seem to say the right words at the right time. Your instinctive self-protection may tend to jump in and ask, "Is this guy for real?" Maybe he is. Not everyone who pays you a compliment is pulling your leg and hey, you do deserve all the praises—don't forget that! You may find courtship antiquated but it can be pretty fun too. Enjoy the attention.
(November 22 to December 21)
You may be hitting a wall when it comes to dating this month Sagittarius. It looks like the parentals are laying it on thick when it comes to the do's and don'ts, rules and protocol. You can protest and whine all you want against what you find are unfair measures, but truthfully, waging a war against authority isn't going to put you or your relationship in a good position. Instead of being the bitter brat, follow the rules then renegotiate. Show them you're mature enough to handle it all.
(December 22 to January 19)
Well hello there, Miss Independent. You may have finally settled into that steady, secure and stable phase in your relationship, or you may have actually acknowledged that you enjoy being single over being with someone. Whatever the case may be, this month is all about being happy with yourself, in and outside of a relationship. Giving yourself some precious alone time is always a good act of self-love. Own it.
(January 20 to February 18)
It's time to watch the competition, Aquarius. Make no mistake, you've fallen for the right guy because he's awesome...the only thing is, that every other person around you seems to know it too! Be wary of when others' claws start coming out, you’re going to want to make sure you guard the fort. Trust plays a super important role between you two this month—any slip-ups will not and should not be overlooked!
(February 19 to March 20)
If love hasn't been too kind to you these past few weeks, it's time to stop fighting it and surrender, even for just a moment. When you're fighting a losing battle and you see that things just aren't going to work out, it's important to know when to take a break. There's so much optimism and positivity waiting for you, Pisces. Reconsider the road you’re on romantically. Your circumstances can change the minute you move on.
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It's not making sense. Maybe, it is. Everything is so blurry and vague. You can't seem to fathom what's happening. You're lost and searching- searching for the meaning behind what ifs and what could have beens. But life, we give meaning to life as if it's a beautiful paradise. Indeed it is.
But why we feel so gloomy, so empty? It seems like no light is passing through our soul. We're wounded. Hoping for healing. That's because, we're living. We celebrate life but we also fight for it. You feel all the pain, because you're living. You're not just alive, you're living. You can make it through all the storm and darkness. Wishing you well, Marj.
I was, but I am not. Desperately, I am trying to reach you – my hope. I am in this particular space in my own constructed world where doubts and frustrations recur. Emphasizing how scared I am being here, I never explored this area before. I was always in those places filled with benevolence, hope shining like the light the sun and the moon possess. And I didn’t have any plans to visit a ‘dark’ place, as how I described it then. But, as funny as how my world suddenly flipped, I am now here, completely lost with monsters persuading me to go insane.
How did I end up here? I can’t logically tell you the answer for that, but I guess, I know when. It started when I had to consider what college course do I want to pursue. Well, if you want to ask what ambition had occurred in my mind when I was young – which is usually the case in terms of life when you were like 7-year-old young - it was definitely being a doctor. I’d thought about wearing a medical coat with a stethoscope around my neck, ready to cure people from their illnesses. It was actually stuck in my mind for so long I almost thought that I was sure of it, yet, as a particular song yields, almost was never really enough and still, it is and will never be.
When I realized that such a perspective was slowly draining me, I tried my best to stand tough. I convinced myself that this was just temporary, that I could think of a way out of this. “There’s still plenty of time,” I once convinced myself. However, my environment demonstrated the contrary: I felt like I was completely out of time.
I was there when my classmates were happily talking about that ‘dream course’ they wish to take in their ‘dream university.’ I was there when my family was suggesting the thought of using my ‘suitable’ speaking voice for broadcasting and voice acting purposes. I was there when my teacher was convincing me that Education suited me the best. That ‘Stand tough!’ aura I used to own back then, suddenly transformed into ‘I give up!’ state, slowly destroying my being. And now, I am here in this space where doubts and frustrations are filling my former enthusiastic self. I need help.
I know, at this point, some of you may never consider me ‘fatal’ because, as you’re reading this, you may judge that I still have the ability to transform my thoughts into words that can be read, so that ‘automatically’ falls into the aspect of complete sanity. No, because I will never tell everything to you in the first place if I still have the urge to stand like I used to, relative to my belief that speaking up through writing is the best way to attract help.
When you look at the photo of mine above, you may say that I was okay. That I was successful. That I was never losing myself. Yes, I was. But, think about what happened days after that was taken and the message of this passage you started reading minutes before, do you think I am still the same girl smiling in the photo? I hope I will be or better yet, improve if the world will permit me. But, now I’m sure – I’m not the same.
LIFE ADVICE YOU NEED TO HEAR WHILE YOURE STILL YOUNG
This blog is dedicated to all teens out there struggling in determining what they really want in their life or if you simply want a glow up. And since were still facing a pandemic, I think this is also a season where everyone is re-thinking about their lives. So, I hope these advices might help you.
Tip #1. TAKE RISK - since most of you are still young, I advice you to take your biggest risk. Whether it may be taking the course you want, a skill you want to acquire or just simply taking the risk to throw away your emotional baggage from your childhood. While you're still young, you have very little to lose. You dont have that much commitments and responsibilities. Because the older you get, the more responsibilities and obligations came. So when they are still not piling up, take the risk! As for me, the biggest risk I took when I was still a teenager is to CUT OFF TOXIC FAMILY TIES.
I may sound rude here but, yeah. I decided to throw away my emotional baggage from my traumatic childhood and cut off some of my family ties and it is completely okay! You dont have to be bothered by whatever they will say. Because at your age, you are already investing on your growth as a person. If you really want to grow, THERE IS NO PERFECT TIME FOR YOU TO TAKE RISK BUT NOW. Because in taking risk you are actually giving yourself a reward of getting something amazing or beyond what you expect you can have. As they say, the bigger the risk, the bigger the reward. Keep in mind that the bigger the risk, the bigger possibility of FAILURE. But that is completely OKAY. Because just like what I said earlier, you are still young. You dont have so much to lose so, dont be afraid to take the risk and then fail. But after failing, learn from it and the more courage you have to take risk the greater the learning, reward or happiness. Ito na nga, how to take risk nga ba? And what are the risk that would actually help me to grow? #
2: VOICE LESSON - dont get me wrong, hindi ito vocalization para sa pagkanta. What I mean is, learn to listen to that VOICE INSIDE YOU. Listen to your heart, to your intuition and to your visions because it will be your GUIDE. Because I realize that as you go along your journey of your life and if you really want to be YOURSELF and be successful in achieving your goals, the only GUIDE that you should follow is your OWN VOICE.
It is okay to take and consider other people's advices but at the end of the day,you should never forget to listen to your own voice. Because that voice is what tells you what you truly want. How would you know that if it is your 'own' voice? Your own voice always comes from your HEART. The voice where YOU and GOD'S voice are one. Because I firmly believe that God knows your heart and that is where he reside. I like journaling because whenever I journal my thought every night and every morning, I feel a dual voice inside my head. Like, it contradicts what the other voice is telling. For example: If we have dreams or goals that puts us so much weight and pressure to the point that it makes you exhausted, STOP. Because it might be a dream or goal of someone else. I believe that your own dreams and goals may be frustrating most of the time, but that frustration has fueling feeling that will always tell you that 'This is the hard way to better so keep going'. Frustration in your own dreams will not make you feel exhausted because achieving a dream itself is a fulfilling feeling.
#3. TAKE ACTION - if you really want something to happen, take action. Dont just sit there and wait things to come your way. Make action or decisions that will take you to where you want to go in your life. Just like what I said in one of my novels that I am writing in wattpad, "There is no such thing as destiny or fate. Because YOU make your OWN life choices." For example, I cannot expect to be a published author if I dont write any novels right? The bottomline here is, if you are not moving forward you are actually moving backward. And it is a sad thing. Life is full of situations where you will be put in the line whether you take courage or just stay where you are. Because GROWING needs consistency in moving forward. So if you dont have to enough courage to take action, your life will always stay the same or worse you will continuously shrink down.
#4. EXPAND YOUR HORIZONS - this means stretching your comfort zone. I watched an anime entitled "Black Clover" there is a captain there where he always tell his subordinates to surpass their limits right, here right now. Going out of our comfort zones are surely scary and uncomfortable. But you have to accept the fact that you cannot stay on the coast forever. You have to change, because the only thing that is constant in this world is change right? Go out of your comfort zones because LIMITS are just in the MIND. There are disabled people who are successful in their own careers. Because the lesson here is, if you hold back there will be no growth. Because GROWTH blooms in DISCOMFORT.
Last, #5. INVEST IN YOURSELF - especially now that you are still young, you should focus on investing on yourself more. Time is your bestfriend at this point of your life. You have so much time to discover things about yourself. I never regret buying and reading books that I never knew will help me later on in dealing life's challenges. You can use that time to read books, gain wisdom, or pick a new skill, improve your talent and learn from your experiences. Keep learning outside your home or your school. Because the real battlefield is OUTSIDE. What you learn in school will only help you in your career but your wisdom and experiences will help you in life or as a person. People who doesnt embrace growth will never succeed in their life. (This is a reflection blog from my 21st birthday last week. I hope you can feature this on your page and I hope it can help others as well. )
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Hello candy-peeps! I just wanted to share what i've been doing this long quarantine period. My father is from Pangasinan and so I grew up going there every year (usually during special occasions like Christmas, New Year, All Saints Day, etc). I've always loved their specialties yet I only get to taste it once or twice.
My father runs a GRAB business in which we have several drivers for it. Yet during this pandemic, our business experienced a big loss and our drivers feared that they won't get to earn enough for their families who are also suffering during these troubling times.
By starting this frozen food business, we were able to earn and also give our drivers a source of income. They accompany my father in going to Pangasinan every week to be able to restock and they also re-sell our products. Its a win-win situation for both of us. I do hope that we'd overcome the problems that our country as a whole and every struggling individual is facing soon and that we'd come out of this better than we were before. #SupportLocal #PilipinasMuna
Hi everyone! I just want to share my first collaboration with my father. I converted two of my digital arts, Oneness and We Got Each Other's Back, into a vase and a bookend. I designed it and he made it into a reality. The Oneness Metal Vase is perfect for dried flowers and or artificial flowers. The We Got Each Other's Back Bookend is made from solid metal in which the cubes can be arranged to the user's liking. Both metal sculptures work as an accent piece that can liven up one's space. In case you guys are interested, you can reach me through Facebook/Instagram: @artdkf.ph