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An Open Letter to Yourself When You Can't Get Up in the Morning Because Your Heart is Breaking

When you feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulder, the only voice you need to hear is your own.
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Before you can even try to get up in the morning, it just hits you—he is gone, and this time, it's for good. You can actually feel yourself falling apart and it's a kind of pain like no other. You beg, you weep, and before you know it, you're already on your knees wondering what you could have done to stop it. You're trying to relive the moments you'd give anything to feel twice.

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If there is one thing you don't tell a person who's hurting, it's what they can and can't feel. I'm not going to add to the long list of you-deserve-betters and it-will-get-betters you are going to hear from your friends and family because right now, at this very moment, it doesn't feel like it's going to get better any time soon. I'm not going to try to tell you how and when you should move on because I know you're going to, in time. For now, you have every right to cry, to feel hurt, and to feel the way you're feeling. Don't listen to people trying to tell you to simply just "get over it," as if it was really that easy. When you really love someone that much, there's no such thing as a quick fix. There is no one-step how-to on how to not love someone.

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