The Things You Should Consider Before Breaking Up With Someone
Breaking up with someone is probably one of the hardest things to do when you're in a relationship. It is never easy to get out of a relationship you've worked on for a while, and break the news to someone you really care about. These are just two of the reasons why before breakups, people who want out in the relationship take a while to process their feelings and their reasons for wanting to leave things behind. So we got some help from our Candy Cuties to guide you a bit if you're in this phase right now. We asked them about the things we should consider before finally calling it quits with our partners. Read their thoughts below.
|"General pros and cons of staying together and breaking up." —Diego Loyzaga|
|"Your partner's feelings and your reason for breaking up with her." —Neil Buenaventura|
|"Ask yourself these questions: Can this relationship last for the long haul? Are you able to help each other become better? Will you be happy together?" —Miguel Escobar|
|"They should think about all the good times that they had and all the sacrifices that they have made for each other." —Brian Gimenez|
|"Before you split with your partner, first you must have a valid reason that explains why you want to split up. Second, do you think she's right for you? And third, does she only hurt you?" —Jovic Ventinilla|
|"If the reasons to leave outweigh the reasons to stay, the duration of your relationship, and if your family is involved." —Joaquin Anareta|
|"Make sure that you just both end in good terms and stay friends." —Jairus Aquino|
|"Factors like how is this relationship doing, where it's going, and the value of your feelings for each other." —Ching Santiago|
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When everything around you suddenly turns dark, the first thing we'd prolly do, as humans, is to find and grab anything that is closest and nearest to us. We'll hold onto them for as long as we can, trying to collect ourselves and gather courage to adjust our eyesights to the pitch black environment that's consuming us minute by minute. And then you'd hear nothing. Your sense of hearing would somehow go off after not seeing anything for quite awhile. You'll let loose. Cry. Panic. You'll be exhausted for fighting your way out. Then just when you're about to stop and give up, you're no longer afraid. There's only this deafening silence and pithole of darkness that's gonna eat you up alive. And surprisingly, you'll make a home out of it.
You'll make a home out of the darkness that when a ray of light suddenly hits you, you'll try to avoid it. You'll try to cover your eyes. You'll try to cover your ears from the voices trying to help you get out of it. You'll try to hide because your mind and body will go against your will to come out and live. Because the darkness that used to scare you, now comforts you in a way you thought has helped you survived life. And you'll try to live. Day by day. In the darkness. Not knowing where to go. Not knowing where to start. Not knowing who is with you. You will try to live until the darkness that once surrounds you is now within you. And everyday, it's gonna be a cycle of subtle torture. But let me tell you a secret. The darkness won't make you whole.
You'll be broken. And in those hair-like cracks, the light will stubbornly fight its way through until it warms you up. Until you realize to check the switch and turn it on. Until you allow other people to help you find your way back in the light. Until you realize you're ready to live in light again. There's a light at the end of this long and dreading tunnel. The only question that matters: will you let them in?
I always thought of life, like a bead where each piece makes it worth sewing together with other piece of beads to make a stronger bond and to create a beautiful result. Today, how do we bond well with different people especially this difficult time? As this day challenges us to a new normal, may we continue to bead along positively with our life.