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The Things You Should Consider Before Breaking Up With Someone

A few things you have to think about before finally letting go of your relationship.
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Breaking up with someone is probably one of the hardest things to do when you're in a relationship. It is never easy to get out of a relationship you've worked on for a while, and break the news to someone you really care about. These are just two of the reasons why before breakups, people who want out in the relationship take a while to process their feelings and their reasons for wanting to leave things behind. So we got some help from our Candy Cuties to guide you a bit if you're in this phase right now. We asked them about the things we should consider before finally calling it quits with our partners. Read their thoughts below.

Diego Loyzaga "General pros and cons of staying together and breaking up." —Diego Loyzaga
Neil Buenaventura "Your partner's feelings and your reason for breaking up with her." —Neil Buenaventura
Miguel Escobar "Ask yourself these questions: Can this relationship last for the long haul? Are you able to help each other become better? Will you be happy together?" —Miguel Escobar
Brian Gimenez "They should think about all the good times that they had and all the sacrifices that they have made for each other." —Brian Gimenez
Jovic Ventinilla "Before you split with your partner, first you must have a valid reason that explains why you want to split up. Second, do you think she's right for you? And third, does she only hurt you?" —Jovic Ventinilla
Joaquin Anareta "If the reasons to leave outweigh the reasons to stay, the duration of your relationship, and if your family is involved." —Joaquin Anareta
Jairus Aquino "Make sure that you just both end in good terms and stay friends." —Jairus Aquino
Ching Santiago "Factors like how is this relationship doing, where it's going, and the value of your feelings for each other." —Ching Santiago

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What about you, Candy Girls? What do you think are the factors that one should consider before ending a relationship? Let's talk in the comments. :)

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