The Different Ways You Can Tell That a Guy Is Nothing But a Player
Wondering if your guy or the guy you're dating is a player? Sometimes, we just highly rely on our gut feel or our instinct. Most of the time, we're right. But there are just days when we get all paranoid about our guy or just a little jealous of his friends. So how do you spot a player? We asked our Candy Cuties this year to help us with this relationship and dating dilemma during their shoot. Check out the signs they've given us to help us spot a player.
|"Through his friends. And when he always keeps his mobile phone close to him and never out of his sight." —Diego Loyzaga|
|"When he has different girls every time, when he doesn't show you the messages and photos in his phone, and doesn't reply to you whenever he's out." —Neil Buenaventura|
|"When he has lack of commitment; has inability to make time for you; and when doesn't include you when hanging out with other friends." —Miguel Escobar|
|"He likes to give his attention to every girl that interests him, and wants to impress and show off to them." —Brian Gimenez|
|"If the guy chats with girls and can't seem to stop staying on his phone. Also, if he keeps going out and parties with random people." —Jovic Ventinilla|
|"He spends too much time in clubs and bars, texts a lot of girls, and talks to you when he isn't occupied by anyone else." —Joaquin Anareta|
|"If he doesn't let you see his phone, doesn't give you time so you can spend the day together, and normally always texts a lot of girls." —Jairus Aquino|
|"If he's a party boy. If he's not letting you check his phone and spends more time with his friends rather than with you." —Ching Santiago|
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Outdoors Danielle Flestado @artdkf | May 1, 2020 "I miss the outside world. The last time I went outside of our house was on my birthday. We just bought coffee across our village and went back home immediately. This painting made me feel that I'm in a field, just appreciating the beauty of God's creation. Can you imagine the green grass and pink flowers?"
When everything around you suddenly turns dark, the first thing we'd prolly do, as humans, is to find and grab anything that is closest and nearest to us. We'll hold onto them for as long as we can, trying to collect ourselves and gather courage to adjust our eyesights to the pitch black environment that's consuming us minute by minute. And then you'd hear nothing. Your sense of hearing would somehow go off after not seeing anything for quite awhile. You'll let loose. Cry. Panic. You'll be exhausted for fighting your way out. Then just when you're about to stop and give up, you're no longer afraid. There's only this deafening silence and pithole of darkness that's gonna eat you up alive. And surprisingly, you'll make a home out of it.
You'll make a home out of the darkness that when a ray of light suddenly hits you, you'll try to avoid it. You'll try to cover your eyes. You'll try to cover your ears from the voices trying to help you get out of it. You'll try to hide because your mind and body will go against your will to come out and live. Because the darkness that used to scare you, now comforts you in a way you thought has helped you survived life. And you'll try to live. Day by day. In the darkness. Not knowing where to go. Not knowing where to start. Not knowing who is with you. You will try to live until the darkness that once surrounds you is now within you. And everyday, it's gonna be a cycle of subtle torture. But let me tell you a secret. The darkness won't make you whole.
You'll be broken. And in those hair-like cracks, the light will stubbornly fight its way through until it warms you up. Until you realize to check the switch and turn it on. Until you allow other people to help you find your way back in the light. Until you realize you're ready to live in light again. There's a light at the end of this long and dreading tunnel. The only question that matters: will you let them in?
I always thought of life, like a bead where each piece makes it worth sewing together with other piece of beads to make a stronger bond and to create a beautiful result. Today, how do we bond well with different people especially this difficult time? As this day challenges us to a new normal, may we continue to bead along positively with our life.