Aries (March 21 to April 19).
You need to take a refresher course on love, sweets. Before your step loses its spark, you've got to add something new to your routine. If you've been pining for that guy for what seems like eternity, maybe it's time to consider a big rom-com Grand Gesture? You've got a 50-50 chance of things working out. If they do, you've got a brand new love to celebrate. If they don't work out, then you can clean that slate and start fresh. Win, win.
Taurus (April 20 to May 20).
Looks like you've got tons on your plate, Taurus. Between school work, hanging out with the girls, Sundays with the fam, and Saturdays with the boyfriend, you are booked to the brim. No wonder your mind's going on hyperdrive! If you're finding yourself getting a little paranoid about what your guy does when you're not around, you've got to make time to tackle the serious stuff. Dropping some obligations to sort a serious relationship out is tons better than going over imaginary scenarios in your head.
Gemini (May 21 to June 20).
You're in that fresh, happy honeymoon stage of your crush or your relationship. Everything's picture perfect—like the end of a Disney princess movie starring you. Your guy's quirks haven't turned into annoying little habits… yet. Enjoy the ride—the start of an infatuation or a serious commitment is one of its most thrilling parts. But just to give yourself a healthy dose of perspective, honeymoons don't last forever and getting more serious has its own rewards too.
Cancer (June 21 to July 22)
Feeling a little blue? It's super tempting to hold a girls' night and bemoan your lack of a guy or the fact that your dude isn't living up to your expectations (I mean, who does, really?). Before drowning in all those feels, Cancer, consider how taking some action can help better your situation. If you're in search of a guy for you, put yourself out there and make new connections. If your guy's leaving you underwhelmed all the time, consider a swift change. Sometimes, acting on impulse can pay off.
Leo (July 23 to August 22).
All the fairy tales, love stories, and movies would have us believe that being in love, staying in love is a cinch. Once you get your meet-cute, your first kiss, your inevitable admission of love, you can sit back, kick your feet up, and watch the end credits roll up the screen. Real life? Not so easy, Leo. You may live for the exciting, thrilling, airport-chase worthy moments, but real relationships means putting some blood, sweat, and tears into your relationship. That's how it works, Leo. Chuck it up.
Virgo (August 23 to September 22).
Here's an idea—can you cool your heels and relax on the relationship goals for a quick second? Sure, you want things to work out. Who doesn't? But when you're too caught up in get every tiny little detail perfect (planning a prom-posal months over half a year in advance is a little excessive), you miss out on what's happening right now. And the right now is kind of awesome, you know? Stop and smell the roses—you've got a great thing going for you love-wise.
Libra (September 23 to October 22).
What's great about you, Libra, is you want things to be just right—no gray areas, no blurred lines, everything communicated loud and clear. If you don't want to get into relationship trouble (ie, an are-we-or-aren’t-we best friend situation), you've got to DTR, girl. The wonderful, sometimes annoying thing about the world, though, is not everything can fit into tidy little boxes. Sometimes you have to bend the rules, make exceptions, and play around with the gray areas. Have some fun and live a little.
Scorpio (October 23 to November 21).
So, you've got issues. And in some really insane, kind of delicious way, they make you feel alive! Unrequited love gives you life. The so close yet so far away situation with your best guy friend is everything. Hold on, Hemingway—there's only so much heartbreak that a person can dish before it starts to get old. Maybe try looking at the bright side? You don't need to live and breathe heartache to live well. Snap out of it, girl!
Sagittarius (November 22 to December 21).
It may pay to be a stone-cold woman sometimes—keep your walls up, guard your heart, and you'll never have to deal with a stupid breakup for the rest of your life. Not really. An unaffected, unconcerned, untouchable front can only take you so far. Everyone's got a soft spot, and by everyone, we mean you. Try—just try—softening up a little, Sagittarius. Your heart is stronger than you think it is. Give heart over head a try this month—it may just be worth it.
Capricorn (December 22 to January 19).
So you made some bad decisions before—no big deal. You may be dying of shame, embarrassment and absolute horror at the way you threw yourself at that crush of yours in 8th grade. The good news is, the worst is over and that's no longer you. You're past it, over it, and you deserve to see yourself as a changed, brand new you. Don't be so hard on yourself, dear Capricorn. The more you love you, the more likely it is that others will too.
Aquarius (January 20 to February 18).
You've got a knack for talking theories, especially when it comes to love. You can analyze the What Ifs of any situation like it's nobody's business. Now you can talk all you want, but all that evaluation can lead you into a paralysis analysis love zone. You think about it so much that nothing ever happens anymore. You've got tons of potential as far as relationship goals go. Make your theories count and prove them right by giving love (and all its What Ifs) a fair shot.
Pisces (February 19 to March 20).
When was the last time you asked yourself what you really want in a relationship? Sometimes, we fall into the trap of convention—going for the Popular Guy because it "makes sense." Doing the standard dinner-and-a-movie on a Saturday night because it's what couples do. Back up a bit, Pisces, and figure out what you want. Zero apologies. So your Ideal Boyfriend is more Clark Kent than Superman. Who cares? Own what you want and dare yourself to go for it.
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