Is it Impossible to Completely Get Over Someone?

by Ayessa De La Peña   |  Dec 15, 2015
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Can you really not get over someone?

Can you really not get over someone? This was one of the questions we asked our Candy Cuties during their shoot. We've heard it from people and maybe, we've said it a few times too: for every new love, there's always someone we call The One That Got Away or our Great Love. These are people whom we still hold dear in our hearts even after they've left us or after we've left them, their shadows and memories looming over us even if we've already found someone new to be with us. We wonder, do guys think it's possible to not get over someone, too? Here are their thoughts:

Diego Loyzaga "Yes. Everyone has their 'the one that got away.'" —Diego Loyzaga
Neil Buenaventura "Yes, because you shared so much with that person and it's impossible not to miss it even after a long time. But in the end, we all have to move on at some point and explore new things in life." —Neil Buenaventura
Miguel Escobar "A person can definitely get over someone, anyone, if she chooses to do so. Love, after all, is a choice. And I think that's something Candy Girls should know—there isn't any outside force that can bind you emotionally to a person you don't actually love." —Miguel Escobar
Brian Gimenez "Of course not, I believe time can heal any damages. It's just a matter of time." —Brian Gimenez
Jovic Ventinilla "Yes, because you have a lot of memories with that person. One person can't unlove someone. The treatment just becomes different but it stays." —Jovic Ventinilla
Joaquin Anareta "It depends. I personally believe so. There's always a chance that a person will always feel something for you." —Joaquin Anareta
Jairus Aquino "Yes, especially when she's your first love. The memories will always stay there and give you sleepless nights." —Jairus Aquino
Ching Santiago "No because I believe that time heals all heartbreaks." —Ching Santiago

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How about you, Candy Girls? Do you think it's possible to not get over someone completely? Let's talk in the comments. :)

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