Is it Impossible to Completely Get Over Someone?
Can you really not get over someone? This was one of the questions we asked our Candy Cuties during their shoot. We've heard it from people and maybe, we've said it a few times too: for every new love, there's always someone we call The One That Got Away or our Great Love. These are people whom we still hold dear in our hearts even after they've left us or after we've left them, their shadows and memories looming over us even if we've already found someone new to be with us. We wonder, do guys think it's possible to not get over someone, too? Here are their thoughts:
|"Yes. Everyone has their 'the one that got away.'" —Diego Loyzaga|
|"Yes, because you shared so much with that person and it's impossible not to miss it even after a long time. But in the end, we all have to move on at some point and explore new things in life." —Neil Buenaventura|
|"A person can definitely get over someone, anyone, if she chooses to do so. Love, after all, is a choice. And I think that's something Candy Girls should know—there isn't any outside force that can bind you emotionally to a person you don't actually love." —Miguel Escobar|
|"Of course not, I believe time can heal any damages. It's just a matter of time." —Brian Gimenez|
|"Yes, because you have a lot of memories with that person. One person can't unlove someone. The treatment just becomes different but it stays." —Jovic Ventinilla|
|"It depends. I personally believe so. There's always a chance that a person will always feel something for you." —Joaquin Anareta|
|"Yes, especially when she's your first love. The memories will always stay there and give you sleepless nights." —Jairus Aquino|
|"No because I believe that time heals all heartbreaks." —Ching Santiago|
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Outdoors Danielle Flestado @artdkf | May 1, 2020 "I miss the outside world. The last time I went outside of our house was on my birthday. We just bought coffee across our village and went back home immediately. This painting made me feel that I'm in a field, just appreciating the beauty of God's creation. Can you imagine the green grass and pink flowers?"
When everything around you suddenly turns dark, the first thing we'd prolly do, as humans, is to find and grab anything that is closest and nearest to us. We'll hold onto them for as long as we can, trying to collect ourselves and gather courage to adjust our eyesights to the pitch black environment that's consuming us minute by minute. And then you'd hear nothing. Your sense of hearing would somehow go off after not seeing anything for quite awhile. You'll let loose. Cry. Panic. You'll be exhausted for fighting your way out. Then just when you're about to stop and give up, you're no longer afraid. There's only this deafening silence and pithole of darkness that's gonna eat you up alive. And surprisingly, you'll make a home out of it.
You'll make a home out of the darkness that when a ray of light suddenly hits you, you'll try to avoid it. You'll try to cover your eyes. You'll try to cover your ears from the voices trying to help you get out of it. You'll try to hide because your mind and body will go against your will to come out and live. Because the darkness that used to scare you, now comforts you in a way you thought has helped you survived life. And you'll try to live. Day by day. In the darkness. Not knowing where to go. Not knowing where to start. Not knowing who is with you. You will try to live until the darkness that once surrounds you is now within you. And everyday, it's gonna be a cycle of subtle torture. But let me tell you a secret. The darkness won't make you whole.
You'll be broken. And in those hair-like cracks, the light will stubbornly fight its way through until it warms you up. Until you realize to check the switch and turn it on. Until you allow other people to help you find your way back in the light. Until you realize you're ready to live in light again. There's a light at the end of this long and dreading tunnel. The only question that matters: will you let them in?
I always thought of life, like a bead where each piece makes it worth sewing together with other piece of beads to make a stronger bond and to create a beautiful result. Today, how do we bond well with different people especially this difficult time? As this day challenges us to a new normal, may we continue to bead along positively with our life.