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Ask a Guy: How Do I Know He's Not Interested After I Confessed That I Like Him?

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A few weeks back, we asked you, our dear Candy Girls, to tell us what love and guy questions or problems you have that you want us to help you with. Here's the question we picked for this week:

Ask a Guy

To help all of you girls who have this same question, we got Candy Cutie and model LA Aguinaldo to help you.

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Dear Keenai,

Thank you for your message. I understand that you're really into this guy and you would like to know if he feels the same way. I remember I was so into this girl. She was my seatmate at 9th grade. We would help each other in seatworks, share notes, and I would offer to carry her books for her on our way to the lockers. I would text her after school and we'd help each other with homework. We just really formed a cool friendship, but I found my self really liking her. I would text her some quotes I found encouraging or just plain sweet things. So one day, I confessed to her how I really feel. She was taken aback because she really just saw me as a friend. I was devastated. But at least I knew right away, and was able to recover. In your case, it's hard to tell if he's really into you. Perhaps he can be the shy type and maybe that's why he's holding back.

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Cute replies can sometimes be mistaken as a sign of adoration. Maybe he's just a genuinely nice guy.

My advice? Just take things slow. Enjoy each other's company and conversations. Maybe he's not ready. Maybe your feelings will change. Talking to each other consistently will definitely help you guys get to know to each other and have a beautiful friendship out of it. If waiting is not your game, at the end of the day, you can always ask him how he feels about all this.

Best,

LA

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PRIMO.

First. Pixie dust and paper cuts – these are the first things Wendy knew about Peter Pan. Aurora first met Prince Philip when she was sixteen. Learning how to ride a bike was also a first while I was growing up, but you are probably the first of too many. The first collection of dust and stars; maybe Luna will try to ask, who was your first? I might answer and tell her that it was you.

The first of too many stars in the sky. You are the first of too many fallen leaves during fall – and you will be the most anticipated snowflake as winter comes. A dark path that you can’t see without any light, hence, you were once the moon and there are the stars that shine so bright at night. Are we too early? Or we just really want to be ahead of time? Even in a glimpse, I would like to see the two of us connect as if we can reach the sky. There are other parts of the heavens you have never saw and other oceans you haven’t laid your feet onto – but the constellations will always wait for you. Close your eyes, love, close your eyes. Start counting backward: 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. Count backward until you see the twinkling lights that will guide you to the right path. To the right satellite; to the right person. A first.

There are many firsts – first love, first heartbreak, first sport you played, the first thing you do in the morning, the first thing you remember about the person in front of you. There are a lot. It’s actually up to us how we will consider something as a first. So, Primo, you are already a first of too many.

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