6 Signs He Could Be Your Soul Mate
Whether you believe it's because of fate or through a perfectly-timed coincidence, no one but you can determine if you've found your soul mate or not. But there's no harm in checking to see if you're right, right? The one you're with now might finally be your soul mate, but then again maybe he isn't. Here are a few tell-tale signs if you're not sure:
1. There’s a powerful attraction between you two.
…and you don’t even know how to explain it. It was almost natural to gravitate towards each other in the beginning. When you’re together, everything just seems so perfect and balanced, and when you’re not in good terms, you do your best to make amends.
2. You understand each other on a deeper level.
It’s not just the usual, “Yeah I get what you like and not like” kind of compatibility. You both understand who the other person really is and where they come from. It’s about building a bond that goes way beyond the physical attraction. He is someone who continues to care for you as he gets to know you.
3. Your bad days aren't so bad.
It's how you fight that matters. If your big disagreements and misunderstandings don't leave you emotionally scarred, and if you often reach amicable conclusions after, then it looks like you've found your ride-or-die.
4. They've changed you for the better.
If you're going to be with your special someone for the rest of your life, wouldn't it be better if both of you brought out the best in each other? Love and relationships are not a walk in the park but if you decide together to make things work, nothing can separate you.
5. You're mentally and physically in sync.
Whether that's texting each other at the same time or having a comfortable sleeping position, soul mates are usually in sync in mind and body. Dr. Carmen Harra, a best-selling author, clinical psychologist, and relationship expert says “your minds will always be in tune if you are soul mates” no matter how life brings you two apart.
6. You feel safe and secure.
Everyone has insecurities and instead of pointing them out to you, your soul mate will help you get through those insecurities and make you feel safe. Whether you're a man or a woman, you should feel protected and comfortable with whom you’re with. "Your perfect match will make you feel like you have a guardian angel by your side, regardless of your gender," Harra explains.
This story originally appeared on Femalenetwork.com.
* Minor edits have been made by the Candymag.com editors.
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Hi! It's been so long since I planned to post my story in another platform aside from wattpad and now here I am, hoping that my story can be featured here.
My story is entitle "Who Are You," it's a tagalog-english teen fiction story so I hope, those filipinos who visit here can read my story!
WHO ARE YOU: PRELUDE
Sinungaling na ba ako kung sasabihin ko sa inyo ang pangalan ko? Hindi ako sure kung anong sasabihin kong pangalan ko pero may nagsasabi sa aking wag nalang magpakilala sa inyo.
May gusto lang naman akong itanong... Paano kung may makilala ka sa kasalukuyan na nagpapaalala sayo sa nakaraan? Anong gagawin mo kung ang nakilala mo sa kasalukuyan ay may tinatago pa lang sikreto na kahit siya mismo ay walang alam pero may kinalaman sa iyong nakaraan? Anong gagawin mo kung ang dalawang ito ay may koneksyon? Anong pipiliin mo? Ang nakilala mo sa nakaraan? O ang nagpakilala bilang ibang tao sa kasalukuyan? Past? Or Present?
There was this guy I dated for a while but things didn't turn out well. I was so into him that one night I can't stop thinking about him, I've decided to send his MOM a message on facebook confessing how much I like her son. I wish it ended there but no. I had to make it so emotional, lengthy and detailed like the drama queen I am. Luckily, it went to message request so I'm hoping she hasn't really read it yet. Up until this day it makes me cringe whenever I think about it but hey, whenever it pops in my mind I make myself laugh too so thank you self for being unbelievably shameless and brave when it comes to love. I may age faster because I have made a lot of cringe-worthy moments that I constantly make faces out of embarrassment just reflecting on my antics but I know I've made more hilarious memories than what ifs and somehow that makes the disappointments feel more like assurances that I have gave it my all and I have lived as honest (maybe a little to honest) as I could. #ItsOnlyNatural #CanBnatural
I've been investing in arts, photography, and writing. I've also got back to reading the other day and I finished reading this amazing book entitled 300 Things I Hope by Iain S. Thomas. It is all about the things the author hopes his readers to do in all aspects of life. So, I decided to make a version of it with all of the things I'm hoping for.
I hope I get to see my friends be successful in life. I hope to make a big mural someday. I hope to be a well-known artist like the artists I look up to. I hope to marry the person I am in love with today. I hope to be a little kinder to myself. I hope to see happiness even in the smallest things. I hope to travel the world. I hope to be a good mother and a wife to my future family. I hope to have my artworks displayed in a gallery or an exhibit. I hope to learn more about creative writing. I hope I won't learn how to get tired and give up my passion. I hope I won't get too hard on myself whenever I don't get the results I've been wanting to see in my works. I hope to love myself more even on the days I hate it the most. I hope to lead and empower women; to be their voice and for them to believe in themselves that they can be the woman they look up to. And when I've reached my limit of these things, I hope I won't get tired of reminding myself that my emotions don't make me weak, hence, makes me stronger. These are some of the things I always hope for. What about you? What are you hoping for?
I started fixing myself this quarantine. I mean, I started trying makeup products. As a teen, I'm on my phone almost every hour of the day, scroll on my social media accounts, especially Instagram, and also Pinterest where you get to see nice and pleasing photography by bunch of amazing and beautiful people from different parts of the world. So I started taking my own as well. I did not know that taking your own photo and try to get an Instagramable one is sooooooooo hard, it's exhausting. I do not have alot of space in my room, and I would definitely not do it outside our house because of Corona Virus, and I don't want to be seen by our neighbors HAHA so I have no choice but to make tiis inside my room.
Out of atleast 25 shots, only 2 are a nice picture. While I'm all sweaty and tired, I am proud of what I could do beyond my comfort zone. And this definitely built my self confidence, (and I secret love the compliments I received from both people I know and don't know) It's not my first time visiting in here, Candy! But I'm new to writing my thoughts and experiences, so bare with me HAHA.
Until next time!