5 Reasons Why You Should Not Introduce Babe to Your Friends Yet

Check yourself first!
by Ayessa De La Peña   |  Jul 17, 2017
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Here's the thing: you got together with someone so amazing and you want everyone you hold so dear in your life to meet him and see how amazing he is. 

While there is no exact length of time you've been together to determine when the right time for you to introduce babe to your friends is, you have to trust your judgments and the current condition of your relationship and friendship first. For that, we've come up with a list to make you think twice about introducing your babe to your friends for now.

  1. You just want their approval.

Check your intentions, Candy Girl. Are you looking for their approval or their opinions on your partner? We know how important it is for your friends to love who you love, too, but ultimately, it's your decision if you're going to love him through and through.

  1. You have kept your relationship from them.


Before anything else, make sure you haven't kept your relationship with babe a secret. If you want to introduce him to your friends, at least let them know that you're with someone now and he's incredible.

  1. You haven't given babe an orientation on your friends.

It's the same thing with your babe, Candy Girl. Make sure you tell him about your friends—even about their pet peeves. We're not asking that you tell him about their life stories, but just give him enough details to let him know who they are in your life.

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  1. You haven't even asked babe about it yet.

We know that surprises are great, but there are some—like meeting your loved ones—that you need to talk about with babe first. Help him make a good impression to your friends and prepare him emotionally before this nerve-wracking event.

  1. You're not emotionally prepared for the outcome.


While you want it to happen, ask yourself whether you're ready to hear what your friends have to say about babe and your relationship. Sure, the ideal scenario is that they will like him, too. But what if it's the opposite? Are you ready for that?

It would be nice if you all agree and live happily ever after, but that's not always the case, Candy Girls. There are a lot of factors to be considered.

Got guy problems you want us to help you with? Leave a comment below or tweet us @candymagdotcom. We will try our very best to help you. :)

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Ayessa De La Peña
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I am Candymag.com's resident fangirl and ~*feelings*~ girl. When I'm not busy researching about what to write next on the website, I sleep, read books, and re-watch episodes of Friends.
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