20 Questions with 20 Guys

1. Is it ok for a girl to date a younger guy?
   Yes, because age is not a big thing. It’s just a number. What’s important is that you’re comfortable with one another and enjoy each other’s company. —Liam
2. Quit playing games or let the games begin?
   While there’s always going to be a certain amount of game playing involved when it comes to relationships, I think that the direct approach is the way to go. This way, everything’s clear from the start, there’s no room for misinterpretation and nobody is falsely led on. Sitting back and doing nothing won’t get you anywhere (take it from me), but playing games won’t land you very far, either. —Fred
3. Is it ok if a girl tells you that she likes you?
   I guess it’s all right. I think she should play it out and see first if that’s a good move to do. It varies from guy to guy, situation to situation. It won’t freak me out or anything, although some guys may be taken aback. —Carlo
4. What should a girl do if you say, “I’ll call you tomorrow” and you don’t?
   The girl should wait a couple of more days if there’s no call. When a guy says he’ll call, what he means is he will or sometimes it’s just out of politeness. But, if she really likes the guy then she should pick up the phone herself. —Gene
5. What’s your biggest turn off?
   The biggest turn off would be a girl that has nothing to say… a girl without her own views and is unsure of herself. A girl can’t always agree with what I say or want to do. I am me and she is someone else who is unique. A girl shouldn’t be scared to speak up. —Martin
6. How can a girl catch your eye?
   Modesty with a hint of attitude tops off the perfect girl for me. In a group, the girl who charms and gets along with everyone will definitely stand out as well. Good looks or a nice smile could work too. —Dustin
7. What should a girl do if she likes you?
   She should be confident. She should make herself available for a conversation or to hang out, but at the same time, not be too obvious. It’s not nice when girls throw themselves at guys. Discreet flirting is okay. She shouldn’t be the one who actually chases the guy. A lot of guys still want to be the ones to make the move. —Chester
8. What does, “it’s not you, it’s me” really mean?
   It could mean a lot of things depending on who’s using it. I guess most of the time it means that he’s realized that he’s not ready for a commitment. It could also be a way for him to say that he wants out and that’s the “nicest” way he can think of to end things. —Richard
9. What are the signs that you are into a girl?
   It’s when I think of the girl more often than usual and I’m anxious for the next time I get the chance to see or speak to her. I go out of my way to get in touch with her and see her. I spend time with her so we can get to know each other better. —Anton
10. What should a girl do to impress you?
    She should just be herself. Being spontaneous is definitely a plus. I really get impressed with girls who know things from current events to sports to the stupidest and corniest things, too. If I can talk to a girl for hours about serious and funny things without getting bored, I’d have to bow down. Some girls just get too shy or scared and they shouldn’t. Guys actually look beyond the looks. Depth is vital. —Anton

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