12 Things You Don’t Want to Hear When You Get Cheated On
You finally caught that lying d-bag red-handed. Has he been cheating on you for months? Yes. Did he try to deny it? Naturally. However, now that everything's out in the open, you're not sure whether you should feel gratified or not. On one hand, you know that you're not just being paranoid as your then-boyfriend-and-now-ex kept telling you before, but on the other, you just got cheated on and that really, really sucks. One thing's for sure though, these are the last words you want to hear.
From the guy:
1 "It's not you, it's me."
Yeah, it's most definitely you! Obviously!
2 "You deserve someone better than me."
There's nothing in this world you could say that would make this better.
3 "There's someone better out there."
At this point, anyone is.
4 "I love you, but..."
Really? You're really going to try to blame your cheating on me?
5 "It was just a one-time thing."
Once was all it takes to break my trust.
6 "I was lost…"
Lost mo mukha mo.
From your friends:
7 "I didn't tell you, but I had a hunch na he's a cheater."
Why couldn't you have shared this with me before?
8 "You do know about his past naman diba?"
Why do I feel like you’re saying that this is all my fault?
9 "Lagi ka kasing busy, ayan tuloy naghanap s'ya ng iba."
So you're saying I brought this upon myself.
10 "O ngayon iiyak-iyak ka? Pinagsabihan na nga kita, e."
You think I don't know that? What I don't get is how you think that's helping me right now.
11 "Ginawa mo rin naman sa kanya dati yun, e. Binawian ka lang siguro."
Friends ba talaga tayo?
12 "I'm sorry. He didn't just cheat on you with XX, he also cheated on you with me."
This article was originally published on Female Network. Minor edits have been done by the Candymag.com editors.