Introverts: How To Ace An Internship Interview Without Changing Who You Are
You’re just a couple of steps away from landing that coveted internship, all you need now is to pass the interview stage. As the reserved, inward-looking introvert that you are, an interview is usually beyond your comfort zone—it requires you to talk and share your thoughts and it involves a bit of social interaction. Here are some ways to use your introversion to secure that internship spot.
Prepare a list of talking points based on possible interview questions.
As an introvert, it isn’t the easiest thing to be vocal about your thoughts. To make sure you won’t mess up your chance to land an internship, do some research on the possible questions your interview might entail and write down your answers in advance so you could rehearse (but not memorize!) them. When you already have a grasp of how you intend to respond to certain interview inquiries, it won’t be as hard for you to voice out the thoughts in your head.
Don’t close yourself off to the possibility of an impromptu conversation with your interviewer, however. Use your talking points as a mere guide for how you want to answer particular questions, but don’t obsess about delivering it verbatim during the interview proper.
Chill at a coffee shop before your interview to gather your Zen.
We know that introverts find it draining to be caught up in too much social interaction, and internship interviews are generally representative of such a situation. Head out for the interview a little earlier than the call time and instead, wait in a coffee shop near the location of your interview, put on some headphones or bury your head in a book, and save up some energy.
A coffee shop is often a safe haven for introverts—you’re surrounded by people without having to be consumed by the worry of social interaction (save for when you order, but that’s nothing you can’t handle!), because people just tend to leave you alone in such establishments. The coffee is simply an added bonus for caffeine-driven introverts.
Dress to express and impress.
Not all introverts might find fashion at the very top of their lists when it comes to things to prioritize during an interview, but you might want to consider being sartorially prepared, too. For many people, they draw confidence from liking how they look and knowing that they look good in the clothes they choose to wear.
Choose an outfit that expresses who you are, but also take into consideration the attire required for your prospective internship. It’s highly unlikely for you to regret showing up to the interview looking neat and presentable, anyway.
Don’t adjust your introversion just to impress your boss.
While it’s common to think that extroverts are preferred in the workplace because they can easily convey their ideas during pitch meetings, communicate effectively with their superiors, and just generally have a more outgoing disposition, don’t alter your being an introvert only because you think it’ll please your future boss. Introverts have just as much to offer in the workplace as extroverts and their qualities are just as ideal and useful. At the end of the day, actions will always speak louder than words.
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I've been investing in arts, photography, and writing. I've also got back to reading the other day and I finished reading this amazing book entitled 300 Things I Hope by Iain S. Thomas. It is all about the things the author hopes his readers to do in all aspects of life. So, I decided to make a version of it with all of the things I'm hoping for.
I hope I get to see my friends be successful in life. I hope to make a big mural someday. I hope to be a well-known artist like the artists I look up to. I hope to marry the person I am in love with today. I hope to be a little kinder to myself. I hope to see happiness even in the smallest things. I hope to travel the world. I hope to be a good mother and a wife to my future family. I hope to have my artworks displayed in a gallery or an exhibit. I hope to learn more about creative writing. I hope I won't learn how to get tired and give up my passion. I hope I won't get too hard on myself whenever I don't get the results I've been wanting to see in my works. I hope to love myself more even on the days I hate it the most. I hope to lead and empower women; to be their voice and for them to believe in themselves that they can be the woman they look up to. And when I've reached my limit of these things, I hope I won't get tired of reminding myself that my emotions don't make me weak, hence, makes me stronger. These are some of the things I always hope for. What about you? What are you hoping for?
I started fixing myself this quarantine. I mean, I started trying makeup products. As a teen, I'm on my phone almost every hour of the day, scroll on my social media accounts, especially Instagram, and also Pinterest where you get to see nice and pleasing photography by bunch of amazing and beautiful people from different parts of the world. So I started taking my own as well. I did not know that taking your own photo and try to get an Instagramable one is sooooooooo hard, it's exhausting. I do not have alot of space in my room, and I would definitely not do it outside our house because of Corona Virus, and I don't want to be seen by our neighbors HAHA so I have no choice but to make tiis inside my room.
Out of atleast 25 shots, only 2 are a nice picture. While I'm all sweaty and tired, I am proud of what I could do beyond my comfort zone. And this definitely built my self confidence, (and I secret love the compliments I received from both people I know and don't know) It's not my first time visiting in here, Candy! But I'm new to writing my thoughts and experiences, so bare with me HAHA.
Until next time!
First. Pixie dust and paper cuts – these are the first things Wendy knew about Peter Pan. Aurora first met Prince Philip when she was sixteen. Learning how to ride a bike was also a first while I was growing up, but you are probably the first of too many. The first collection of dust and stars; maybe Luna will try to ask, who was your first? I might answer and tell her that it was you.
The first of too many stars in the sky. You are the first of too many fallen leaves during fall – and you will be the most anticipated snowflake as winter comes. A dark path that you can’t see without any light, hence, you were once the moon and there are the stars that shine so bright at night. Are we too early? Or we just really want to be ahead of time? Even in a glimpse, I would like to see the two of us connect as if we can reach the sky. There are other parts of the heavens you have never saw and other oceans you haven’t laid your feet onto – but the constellations will always wait for you. Close your eyes, love, close your eyes. Start counting backward: 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. Count backward until you see the twinkling lights that will guide you to the right path. To the right satellite; to the right person. A first.
There are many firsts – first love, first heartbreak, first sport you played, the first thing you do in the morning, the first thing you remember about the person in front of you. There are a lot. It’s actually up to us how we will consider something as a first. So, Primo, you are already a first of too many.