How To Say Goodbye—The Atenean Way
Goodbyes are indeed bittersweet and we feel this more during this time of the year: the season of togas and grad pics with dedications. Our beloved senior friends are probably out there celebrating the fact that they're not #gradwaiting anymore, but at the same time, are struggling to figure out how to let go of the place, which gave them a rollercoaster of emotions for the past few years.
For most universities, the opportunity for the seniors to hug their friends and wish them luck as they traverse their chosen paths happen during commencement exercises. After they throw their caps up in the air and have the obligatory photo ops, they'll go up to the people who mattered and reminisce about all the things they had gone through together—the all-nighters, the breakdowns, the thesis defenses, the spontaneous galas—realizing that they've come so far and a lot has changed since the first time they walked into the campus. A chapter of their lives had just ended and although another one had just opened, things would never be the same.
The seniors of Ateneo, however, are given another chance to bid adieu from the university before they set off and say hello to the #adulting life—introducing: the Blue Roast.
The Blue Roast is a yearly tradition for graduating seniors from the Ateneo de Manila University—think: a schoolwide despedida, their last chance to have fun and party as college students and to spend the night with the people who made their college life memorable.ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW
The traditional roasted calf and beer will be served for the seniors to enjoy while they watch performances from the university's very own talent pools like Company of Ateneo Dancers (CADs) and the Ateneo Musicians' Pool as well as other local bands and performers.
They also hold the annual Blue Roast Awards, which is actually very far from your traditional award-giving ceremony. Seniors are given the chance to nominate and vote for their fellow seniors who they feel should receive the, err, really unique awards. Why unique, you ask? Take for example two of this year's categories: The Perpetually Sawi award, for those who are, well, perpetually sawi and would never fail to make a #hugot out of almost everything and the Kim Kardashian award, for those who became viral on the internet and became Twitter and/or Facebook famous.
But the highlight of the Blue Roast lies in the tradition of giving the Blue Rose, which to most becomes the last chance to muster up the courage and let someone know that they're special to them. It doesn't have to necessarily be romantically special, although most do give it to their crushes or boyfriends/girlfriends, because you can give it to any person who holds a special place in your heart: it can be your best friend who stuck with you through hard times; a professor you really admire; a staff who you think deserves to be appreciated...it's up to you. A word of advice? Whoever you give it to, make sure it's worth it because you don't want to end the night and graduate with regrets, do you?
Now, the adventure begins! Go forth into the real world and show them what you can do. You're off to great places and it's time to embark on your journey to the dream you've been preparing yourself and working hard for all this time!
Congratulations and happy graduation, Batch 2017!
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I've been investing in arts, photography, and writing. I've also got back to reading the other day and I finished reading this amazing book entitled 300 Things I Hope by Iain S. Thomas. It is all about the things the author hopes his readers to do in all aspects of life. So, I decided to make a version of it with all of the things I'm hoping for.
I hope I get to see my friends be successful in life. I hope to make a big mural someday. I hope to be a well-known artist like the artists I look up to. I hope to marry the person I am in love with today. I hope to be a little kinder to myself. I hope to see happiness even in the smallest things. I hope to travel the world. I hope to be a good mother and a wife to my future family. I hope to have my artworks displayed in a gallery or an exhibit. I hope to learn more about creative writing. I hope I won't learn how to get tired and give up my passion. I hope I won't get too hard on myself whenever I don't get the results I've been wanting to see in my works. I hope to love myself more even on the days I hate it the most. I hope to lead and empower women; to be their voice and for them to believe in themselves that they can be the woman they look up to. And when I've reached my limit of these things, I hope I won't get tired of reminding myself that my emotions don't make me weak, hence, makes me stronger. These are some of the things I always hope for. What about you? What are you hoping for?
I started fixing myself this quarantine. I mean, I started trying makeup products. As a teen, I'm on my phone almost every hour of the day, scroll on my social media accounts, especially Instagram, and also Pinterest where you get to see nice and pleasing photography by bunch of amazing and beautiful people from different parts of the world. So I started taking my own as well. I did not know that taking your own photo and try to get an Instagramable one is sooooooooo hard, it's exhausting. I do not have alot of space in my room, and I would definitely not do it outside our house because of Corona Virus, and I don't want to be seen by our neighbors HAHA so I have no choice but to make tiis inside my room.
Out of atleast 25 shots, only 2 are a nice picture. While I'm all sweaty and tired, I am proud of what I could do beyond my comfort zone. And this definitely built my self confidence, (and I secret love the compliments I received from both people I know and don't know) It's not my first time visiting in here, Candy! But I'm new to writing my thoughts and experiences, so bare with me HAHA.
Until next time!
First. Pixie dust and paper cuts – these are the first things Wendy knew about Peter Pan. Aurora first met Prince Philip when she was sixteen. Learning how to ride a bike was also a first while I was growing up, but you are probably the first of too many. The first collection of dust and stars; maybe Luna will try to ask, who was your first? I might answer and tell her that it was you.
The first of too many stars in the sky. You are the first of too many fallen leaves during fall – and you will be the most anticipated snowflake as winter comes. A dark path that you can’t see without any light, hence, you were once the moon and there are the stars that shine so bright at night. Are we too early? Or we just really want to be ahead of time? Even in a glimpse, I would like to see the two of us connect as if we can reach the sky. There are other parts of the heavens you have never saw and other oceans you haven’t laid your feet onto – but the constellations will always wait for you. Close your eyes, love, close your eyes. Start counting backward: 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. Count backward until you see the twinkling lights that will guide you to the right path. To the right satellite; to the right person. A first.
There are many firsts – first love, first heartbreak, first sport you played, the first thing you do in the morning, the first thing you remember about the person in front of you. There are a lot. It’s actually up to us how we will consider something as a first. So, Primo, you are already a first of too many.