I’m A College Senior And I Still Don’t Know What To Do With My Life
Senior year brings us inches closer to the real world. In a few months or so, we’ll be attempting our luck at adulting all while trying to make something of ourselves. But what if you still haven’t figured out what you want to do just yet? Well, we think it’s completely okay if you don’t have a definite game plan for the post-college life, but it wouldn’t hurt to actively start exploring your options.
Here’s why it’s okay if you don’t have life figured out yet, plus a few suggestions on how to find the best career path to take.
Reason #1: Balancing acads with org activities and your everyday social life barely gave you enough time to look at the big picture.
Just because you don’t know what job you really want to pursue yet doesn’t mean your life has no direction—it could be that you were just too focused on the present. And we don’t blame you—it’s easy to get caught up in trying to submit requirements and meet deadlines.
A little tip: Keeping a journal of what you like and don’t like doing, along with what you’re good at may help you identify your career goals and organize your thoughts.
Reason #2: Our interests have changed and so did we.
As we set out on our college journey, we meet new people, encounter novel worldviews, and learn about things we’ve never even heard of before. It’s possible that at some point, you realized that your interests may have shifted. You may find that you’re actually not cut out for medical or law school, or you may no longer be as passionate about your org’s advocacies as you once were, and that’s perfectly okay.
College will change you (it will be surprising if it didn’t!) and, consequently, your dreams and goals in life. At this point, how do you proceed, especially now that shifting is out of the picture?
Option #1: Take advantage of what your school can offer you.
Your school might be able to help you widen your horizons. Some universities hold career fairs for seniors, which can introduce you to a whole world of career options for life after college. Some even hold career talks and offer internship programs (that don’t have to be related to your current course) to help students iron out their career objectives. You may even take an elective about a field that you find interesting and use those credited units to your advantage when you start applying for jobs.
Option #2: Take a gap year.
Some people frown upon taking a gap year and think that it’s a waste of time. But taking a gap year (or two!) helps you get to know yourself more without the pressure of timelines and deadlines. You get to try new things and expose yourself to different options in life. Get a part-time job to learn about a particular industry or look for paid internships that accept fresh graduates. Growing and learning does not stop when you exit college, so don’t feel pressured if you haven’t figured your life out just yet.
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Outdoors Danielle Flestado @artdkf | May 1, 2020 "I miss the outside world. The last time I went outside of our house was on my birthday. We just bought coffee across our village and went back home immediately. This painting made me feel that I'm in a field, just appreciating the beauty of God's creation. Can you imagine the green grass and pink flowers?"
When everything around you suddenly turns dark, the first thing we'd prolly do, as humans, is to find and grab anything that is closest and nearest to us. We'll hold onto them for as long as we can, trying to collect ourselves and gather courage to adjust our eyesights to the pitch black environment that's consuming us minute by minute. And then you'd hear nothing. Your sense of hearing would somehow go off after not seeing anything for quite awhile. You'll let loose. Cry. Panic. You'll be exhausted for fighting your way out. Then just when you're about to stop and give up, you're no longer afraid. There's only this deafening silence and pithole of darkness that's gonna eat you up alive. And surprisingly, you'll make a home out of it.
You'll make a home out of the darkness that when a ray of light suddenly hits you, you'll try to avoid it. You'll try to cover your eyes. You'll try to cover your ears from the voices trying to help you get out of it. You'll try to hide because your mind and body will go against your will to come out and live. Because the darkness that used to scare you, now comforts you in a way you thought has helped you survived life. And you'll try to live. Day by day. In the darkness. Not knowing where to go. Not knowing where to start. Not knowing who is with you. You will try to live until the darkness that once surrounds you is now within you. And everyday, it's gonna be a cycle of subtle torture. But let me tell you a secret. The darkness won't make you whole.
You'll be broken. And in those hair-like cracks, the light will stubbornly fight its way through until it warms you up. Until you realize to check the switch and turn it on. Until you allow other people to help you find your way back in the light. Until you realize you're ready to live in light again. There's a light at the end of this long and dreading tunnel. The only question that matters: will you let them in?
I always thought of life, like a bead where each piece makes it worth sewing together with other piece of beads to make a stronger bond and to create a beautiful result. Today, how do we bond well with different people especially this difficult time? As this day challenges us to a new normal, may we continue to bead along positively with our life.