A Candy Girl's Survival Guide To Unrequited Love

Moving on from an unrequited love might be tough but we've got some tips to speed up the process. Read on to find out what you can do to survive and come out stronger!
by Sheena Concepcion   |  Nov 17, 2014
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1. Quit playing the blame game.

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Keep in mind that you cannot control the decisions of other people. You are only in control of yourself. So before you sulk in a corner asking, "Is there something wrong with me? Why doesn't he love me back?" Just remember that you are beautiful and you are more than enough. No boy can ever change that.

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2. Throw out the things that remind you of him.

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There's nothing wrong with being sentimental, but if these mementos have been slowing down your process of moving on, then it's time to say goodbye. 

3. Redirect your focus

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You are young and wonderful things are only beginning for you. So instead of waiting for a boy who doesn’t even show the slightest hint of interest, just find something new to do or get interested in. Start a new hobby. Read the books you've been wanting to read for so long. Go on an adventure. This is your time to start anew. Embrace this opportunity!

4. Spend more time with your family and friends.

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Surround yourself with the people that love you. It might be a different kind of love but it’s still the best possible love out there. No one can ever replace the unconditional love and affection given by your family and friends. 

5. Love yourself.

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You've probably heard this advice for a hundred times already buy when you learn how to truly love yourself, you'll find inner peace and happiness—the two things you need to mend a broken heart. 

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6. Don’t be afraid to love again.

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Unrequited love hurts a lot but this doesn’t mean that you should just give up on love because reality is that things won’t always go your way. There will always be trials to overcome and battles to be conquered. But trust us when we say that love is worth it. Don’t let one heartache change your view on love. Make it a lesson to move on not a reason to give up.  

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Got feelings? Let us know in the coments or tweet us @candymagdotcom. We always love hearing from you. :)

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