Here's How to Keep Homesickness at Bay When You're Studying Away from Home
Students usually pick a school close to where they live but some are willing to study far from home in order to get the best quality of education or pursue a course. But when you study far from home and only get to go home once a week (or even once a month), you can't avoid being homesick. Here are six ways to get rid of the homesickness until it's time for you to go back home again.
- Keep yourself busy.
Distract yourself by doing all things school: study for a quiz, work on your projects, research, and make sure you do well in everything you do. That alone is enough to keep your homesickness at bay.
- Binge-watch movies or series.
If your schoolwork isn't demanding enough to keep you from missing home, watch movies or series. It will divert you from thinking about home and missing it especially during a slow week. Before you know it, it's the sem break and it's time for you to go back home again.
- Listen to music you usually play at home.
Listen to the songs you would usually play in your room to make you forget that you're a hundred miles away from home. For some people, it might make the homesickness worse, but for others, it could make them feel closer to home.
- Spend time with friends who share the same feeling as you.
Hang with friends who are also studying away from home and share the feeling of being homesick. You won't feel alone when you spend time with them because they become your family away from home.
- Eat at a restaurant that serves your local dish.
Have a meal at a diner that specializes on food from where you're from. By eating local dishes from your hometown, you'll have a sense of familiarity, a sense of home. You can also eat at a place that you and your family frequent during special occasions.
- Call your parents (or siblings).
Let's admit it, no matter how old we get, we'll always have those days when we just want to be around our parents even though, at times, they give us so much chores to do. And because you're studying away from them, you tend to miss mom and dad even more. Call them up and tell them you miss them, their voice, and their hugs. Just hearing them speak is enough to make you feel like you're all under the same roof.
- Look at your family photos.
Your parents can sometimes be busy and can't take your call. In cases like this, you can look at your vacation photos with the fam that you get to see their faces. It's not the same as getting to talk to them but at least you'll feel less homesick until you get to go back home and see them again.
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I've been investing in arts, photography, and writing. I've also got back to reading the other day and I finished reading this amazing book entitled 300 Things I Hope by Iain S. Thomas. It is all about the things the author hopes his readers to do in all aspects of life. So, I decided to make a version of it with all of the things I'm hoping for.
I hope I get to see my friends be successful in life. I hope to make a big mural someday. I hope to be a well-known artist like the artists I look up to. I hope to marry the person I am in love with today. I hope to be a little kinder to myself. I hope to see happiness even in the smallest things. I hope to travel the world. I hope to be a good mother and a wife to my future family. I hope to have my artworks displayed in a gallery or an exhibit. I hope to learn more about creative writing. I hope I won't learn how to get tired and give up my passion. I hope I won't get too hard on myself whenever I don't get the results I've been wanting to see in my works. I hope to love myself more even on the days I hate it the most. I hope to lead and empower women; to be their voice and for them to believe in themselves that they can be the woman they look up to. And when I've reached my limit of these things, I hope I won't get tired of reminding myself that my emotions don't make me weak, hence, makes me stronger. These are some of the things I always hope for. What about you? What are you hoping for?
I started fixing myself this quarantine. I mean, I started trying makeup products. As a teen, I'm on my phone almost every hour of the day, scroll on my social media accounts, especially Instagram, and also Pinterest where you get to see nice and pleasing photography by bunch of amazing and beautiful people from different parts of the world. So I started taking my own as well. I did not know that taking your own photo and try to get an Instagramable one is sooooooooo hard, it's exhausting. I do not have alot of space in my room, and I would definitely not do it outside our house because of Corona Virus, and I don't want to be seen by our neighbors HAHA so I have no choice but to make tiis inside my room.
Out of atleast 25 shots, only 2 are a nice picture. While I'm all sweaty and tired, I am proud of what I could do beyond my comfort zone. And this definitely built my self confidence, (and I secret love the compliments I received from both people I know and don't know) It's not my first time visiting in here, Candy! But I'm new to writing my thoughts and experiences, so bare with me HAHA.
Until next time!
First. Pixie dust and paper cuts – these are the first things Wendy knew about Peter Pan. Aurora first met Prince Philip when she was sixteen. Learning how to ride a bike was also a first while I was growing up, but you are probably the first of too many. The first collection of dust and stars; maybe Luna will try to ask, who was your first? I might answer and tell her that it was you.
The first of too many stars in the sky. You are the first of too many fallen leaves during fall – and you will be the most anticipated snowflake as winter comes. A dark path that you can’t see without any light, hence, you were once the moon and there are the stars that shine so bright at night. Are we too early? Or we just really want to be ahead of time? Even in a glimpse, I would like to see the two of us connect as if we can reach the sky. There are other parts of the heavens you have never saw and other oceans you haven’t laid your feet onto – but the constellations will always wait for you. Close your eyes, love, close your eyes. Start counting backward: 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. Count backward until you see the twinkling lights that will guide you to the right path. To the right satellite; to the right person. A first.
There are many firsts – first love, first heartbreak, first sport you played, the first thing you do in the morning, the first thing you remember about the person in front of you. There are a lot. It’s actually up to us how we will consider something as a first. So, Primo, you are already a first of too many.