5 Reminders for the Single Girls

by Ayessa De La Peña   |  Apr 18, 2016
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Going online can sometimes distract us, Candy Girls, and make us long for something we don't have—a.k.a. relationships. We get distracted by the countless people who post cheesy messages, photos, and videos online and we wonder where's our own relationship to give us the same kilig feeling other people are feeling.

There are times when we get consumed by the sadness and the longing, but if we continue letting them win over us, we'll just end up feeling heartbroken. This is why we're glad that there are a ton of things here on Candymag.com to bring us back to our cheerful selves. Here are a few reminders for all of you amazing single ladies out there while you're still at a phase in your life when you're supposed to give yourself the lovin' it really deserves.

  1. Being single rocks.

    This season in your life isn't a punishment, Candy Girls. As a matter of fact, it's a season when we all should learn more about ourselves and do whatever it is we want to do because we're given all the time we want and need in the world. 
  2. It's a time to learn from your couple friends.

    Admit it, you usually get pointers on how to live your life—including how you manage your relationships—from the people around you. Obseve your coupled up friends and learn lessons from their stories and on how they deal with each other. So that when the time comes, you know what to do with yours.

  3. Stop complaining about your relationship status.

    You are more than your relationship status, young ladies. Instead of saying a bunch of things that just makes us shake our heads in disagreement, focus on something else instead which brings us to the next item.

  4. Do the things on your bucket list.

    So you've been adding and adding and adding items on your to-do list or bucket list, but you never really got the chance to do them. Now's the perfect time to get out of your comfort zones, Candy Girls, and go out into the world, have fun, and learn a lot of new things. Who says single is boring?

  5. Alone time is good for you.

    We've said it so many times before, alone time is really good for you. Just because you're alone doesn't mean you're lonely. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, take this time to think about your dreams and your goals and everything you have to do to make them come true. Do whatever you want with your time, go crazy, and have fun! This phase isn't supposed to make you sad, it's supposed to make you love yourself more.

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Ayessa De La Peña
Candymag.com Assistant Section Editor
I am Candymag.com's resident fangirl and ~*feelings*~ girl. When I'm not busy researching about what to write next on the website, I sleep, read books, and re-watch episodes of Friends.
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