25 Ways to Love Your Body
- Make it a habit to stand in front of the mirror.
And find something new to like about your body every day.
- Do nice things for your body once in a while.
Nothing beats a hot bath or a long nap during the day. You can also get your nails done and have a nice massage all at once!
Whether it's running, dancing, yoga, or any other sport, a regular workout will leave you looking good and feeling better.
- Laugh out loud.
It feels great and boosts your health.
- Read books that help improve your self-image.
Such as Rebecca Odes' The Looks Book or Kimberly Kirberger's No Body's Perfect.
- Listen to positive music.
Start your day on a high note by singing along to tunes that convey a positive message.
- Throw an "indulgence party."
Invite your friends to wear their coziest clothes, bring all their favorite snacks, and talk the night away. And forget the guilt! Good company can feel much more amazing than tiny skirts and mile-high heels.
- Campaign for self-esteem!
A lot of sites online are dedicated to helping women of all ages learn to love themselves.
- Be generous with your compliments.
Whether to a friend or a stranger, sincere praise can go a long way to making someone—including you!—feel awesome.
- RESPECT YOUR BODY.
Sleep well, eat right, and drink lots of water! Your body will love you for it.
- Take care of your hair.
All of it, from head to toe, because a healthy body includes healthy hair, too!
- Spend quality time with YOU.
Nothing says "I Love Me" better than a date with yourself. Watch a movie, take a quiet walk, or travel if you can. Learning to be happy without other people can lead you to discover new things about yourself.
- Make eating an adventure.
Grab your friends and scour the Metro for restaurants you've never tried. You can even make a game out of it: a free meal goes to the person who finds the best salad place, the cheapest health food, the best service, and more. Be creative with your themes! A regular helping of food, friends, and fun can do wonders for the body.
- Don't compare yourself to others.
"To me, all women are beautiful. Every woman is a queen. We all have different things to offer." —Queen
- Wear clothes that suit your body type.
Never force yourself to conform to a trend. Work with your body, and take time to find pieces you feel comfortable in and flatter your shape and size.
- Remember what's real.
Hollywood isn't real, and neither are most advertisements—don't let them bring you down! Celebrities and models have dozens of people working on their makeup, clothes, diet, exercise routines, lighting, and photo enhancements before we see them on billboards and the big screen. Instead of poring over pictures of skinny, fair-skinned actresses, spend your time on real, positive interests like art, music, travel, or sports.
- Pick your products with care.
From facial wash to body lotions, shampoo to mascara, make sure you use tried-and-tested goods. Don't let a nice ad sway you! Cosmetic companies don't have to submit proof of their claims to call a product "hypoallergenic." Instead, look for labels like "Fair Trade Certified," "acnegenic" (oil-free and won't cause pimples), "non-comedogenic" (won't clog pores), and "allergy-tested." Take time to read labels; your body deserves the attention.
- Befriend your doctor.
And your dentist, too! Regular check-ups are a must, no matter how old (or young) you are. Being on good terms with a great doctor can help make that next appointment less torturous.
- Put the "inside you" before the "outside" one.
The best kind of glow comes from who you are, not what you look like. Learn to love the person within your skin! As Lebanese-American poet Khalil Gibran said, "Beauty is not in the face. Beauty is a light in the heart."
- Befriend your body.
Remind yourself that life is too short for you to spend it hating your body.
- Cut size labels off your clothes.
Dress size should never dictate your mood or your confidence!
- Never allow other people to put you down.
"I refuse to become part of this perfect-body syndrome. I like my body. One guy I dated said, 'You're beautiful, but you're soft. You can't compete with other actresses in Hollywood because everyone's in shape and working out.' I said, 'Very nice to meet you. Goodbye!'" —Salma Hayek
- Take pleasure in learning.
Read up on topics that interest you, and don't be afraid to try the classics. Start with F. Scott Fitzgerald's The Great Gatsby and Robert Louis Stevenson's Treasure Island. Or take a class on something you've always wanted to learn, like cooking, poetry, even film. Remember: a strong mind makes a strong body.
- Write it out.
Sometimes, saying it out loud isn't enough, so why not commit it to paper or the Net? Start a journal or blog that focuses on positive things about yourself, the people around you, and life in general. You'll be smiling more, we promise!
- Step off the scale!
Don't ever let your happiness depend on how much weight you've gained or lost today.
This article originally appeared in Candy Magazine's March 2011 issue.
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This is a drawing and a poem I’ve made for a summer love. Our time together was short-lived but the feelings were not.
On a platform we stand
Faces seen all in a blur
Relentless searching led by a spur
To find someone, to feel something
Aren’t we fools to waste away time?
To look for one man’s treasure
Somewhere as ephemeral, as fragile
As a bond built in crime
But aren’t we just like every weary heart?
Hoping for an oasis
In the midst of the desert
Wanting to quench our thirst
Aren’t we all like frosted windows
Of old and battered houses on winter?
Wishing for the sun to give us warmth
To melt the facade so we can show what the inside is made
Aren’t we maven pretenders?
A Casanova? A Temptress? Who made us this way?
A sly fox? A ruthless hunter?
Let down the walls, It’ll be okay
Rushed for a hug, now no hesitating
Engulfed by a sense of bliss or was it longing? Eyes wide-open,
Stepping on a quicksand I embraced the fall into the deep end
Gazed at you lying there unaware With you, found something rare I swear
Realization dawning as loud as a thunder
As the Beating of your heart put me into a deep slumber
Waking up from this reverie
Truth slapped me back to reality
Two worlds so different, now I see If only I could I’d be anything and anyone you need me to be I’m the ludicrous clown, you see
Thought if I ruin it first I’d be free
From the doubts brought by my own insecurity I was so wrong,
What a tragicomedy Brought by the month of April
We rushed the ticking of clock to May Hands interlocked
Weaved skin to skin on a rainy day But when June came to say hello, all went dark grey
What was once there ceases to exist Like the wilting of a flower
Once so beautiful, so full of life Now turned into dust by death’s kiss
Unbounded joy brought by your presence
Paralleled with the perennial ache of your absence Yearned for and offered seventh heaven
Now the heart weeps for evanescence
A mirage, to be the fair maiden The sorrow to find out I’d end up our own villain
But all’s well for you are but a distant dream Gamaliel, You are, I knew it from the very beginning .
Written by me, the one-shot story
Coffee is about a girl who used to cherish moments with someone in a cafe. Sometimes, a simple drink can leave an imprint on someone's mind. ____________________________________________
It's been a year since my boyfriend and I broke up. I love him and he loves me too but things just didn't worked the way it should be. Now I'm heading at the cafe where we started and ended. I have no choice but to go there after all it was made up of both happy and sad memories. But that's life , right? We can't be happy all the time. Challenges come and hearts can break. But it doesn't just end there.
"One signature coffee , please." I said as I ordered from the cashier.
"What size?" she asked.
"Small." I said.
Then she took my payment and I headed towards the seat near the window. A window seat.... for two. The cafe was surprisingly full tonight unlike the past few days.
Again, I have no choice but to sit on that window seat. It is where we sit often. It is our seat. Our place. There are a lot of couples at the cafe and wow I'm alone. There's a part of me which says you should be happy because he's not the only guy in this world. Another part of me says you're still hurt so don't pretend to be happy. The truth is , I am both happy and sad. I'm happy because we're both free and we can focus more in our careers. But I'm sad because I'm not the other half of his heart anymore. I'm sad because I let him go even though I still love him. I'm sad because I can't see him. I'm sad because I can't share this relaxing coffee shop where we can chill with the aromatic smell of the coffee.
"Small signature coffee?" the waitress said as she serves my coffee.
"Yes. Thank you." I said.
"Since you're a regular customer here, we would like to give you this item for free." the waitress said. She handed me a purple journal with the name of the cafe on it and a pen.
"Oh thanks." I said .
"Enjoy your coffee!" she said.
I took advantage of using the freebies from the cafe. A window seat is also a bonus in inspiring me to write something. While sipping my coffee my brain and my heart began to function smoothly.
And so I wrote: My coffee has been cold lately, I can't feel anything after taking a sip and there's no heat to leave a pain on my lips. And it was a relief. But then, I remember one thing about sipping a cold coffee instead of a hot one: cold coffee doesn't leave you any marks when you sipped it, just like a blunt feeling. But a hot coffee will leave you a remarkable pain from the heat which reminds you that you are alive to feel....
I closed the journal and stared at the window. He was the coffee. The hot coffee. No matter how our breakup hurt me, he left me a mark and a lesson to learn. A hot coffee can be a challenge too or an obstacle. They all made you feel that you are alive. That you can go on with your life. You can still stand up. Love taught me to move forward. He taught me to be stronger. He is love.
WHAT IT'S LIKE TO BE A BROKE FANGIRL/FANBOY
One of the proudest things as a fan is the feeling that you are part of their growing fandom and stardom. From streaming their songs online, watching their music videos, TV guestings, collecting photocards, albums, lightsticks, attending to their concert and fan meetings surely, you're a fan! But there's a problem, MONEY.
It's really heartbreaking when you hear that members of your favorite band are coming and their concert is just around the corner but here you are thinking of how to sell one of your kidneys just to go to their concert (kidding).That no matter how much you try to save, it will never be enough for a ticket because you are only a student who has limited resources or if you're an adult, you have bills to pay. So joining a "team bahay" livestream is your last resort, but sometimes even those links don't work!
Of course if there's team bahay there's also "team airport/ team labas", fans who waits at the airport hoping to see their idols upon their arrival. How we wish we could also attend and be part of it, something like shouting their names, fanchants then cry out of happiness while waving their lightsticks or banners. What a concept isn't?
Hey, cheer up! being broke doesn't make you any less of a fan. Know that there are other ways to support and love them. For sure our idols have the same and equal love to us no matter what "team" we belong (team concert, team airport/labas and team bahay).Maybe for some people, they might think we are being overly dramatic without knowing that for us fans, their existence itself and music saved us and made us happy once in our lives. -Gwy June 16,2020