From Our Readers: We're Everybody's #RelationshipGoals, But We're Not Meant to Be
I guess that was the funniest part of our love story. I still remember when people kept telling us that we were the epitome of #RelationshipGoals. We have a lot of similarities and also differences. We had our relationship bucket list, like going to fancy coffee shops and restaurants, shopping together, talk until midnight and until we fell asleep, singing together even if we're both out of tune—just have a lot of fun together.
But the thing is, we are not meant to be.
We've been through a rough and tough relationship since the day we officially got together. A lot of judgements, criticisms, negative reactions, and also lack of support. But we survived those together, and conquered a lot of things together.
We weren't really meant to be together. From the very start.
Even though we didn't end up together, I am still thankful because you came into my life. You taught me things that I didn't know I can do. I don't have regrets because it was my decision to be with you and to love you still. I don't blame anyone, not even you. If anything, I blame myself for my own pain.
I will get over this. I will get over you, too, and most of all, I will be okay even without you. We may have been meant to spend time together, but that's everything there is to our relationship.