From Our Readers: Wait for a Man Who's Worth It
We have had our hearts broken one too many times before. We've all had our fair share of broken trusts and broken vows. We once swore to never love again, to never open our doors for someone who will hurt us again, but every now and then we still break some rules because no matter how we think about it, being loved in return is still the most amazing thing a man can do for us. Being loved is still the best feeling and no matter how we deny the fact that in the end we'll have our hearts broken again we still choose to love again.
We've all had our restrictions and standards when it comes to a man we will love, we believe in the phase "never settle for anything less," but sometimes a perfect man doesn't drive a sports car. The perfect man is the one who respects you, who won't lie to you, and it doesn't matter what car he drives as long as he's the real deal. The perfect man won't be perfect in everything but he'll be perfect for you even with all his flaws and imperfections. He'll be perfect just the way he is.
The perfect man won't be perfect in everything but he'll be perfect for you even with all his flaws and imperfections. He'll be perfect just the way he is.
Don't wish for a flawless perfect man; wish for a man who's worth it. Wait for a man who's worth it. Save your heartbreak for the man who'll break your restrictions because if he's worth it, he'll never break your heart. He'll never let you cry. Yes, relationships are messy; it's supposed to be messy and that's the way it is. But it will be worth it if the man you're with is worth it.
Wait for a man who's worth it. Wish for a man who will do what he says. If he says he'll call, he will. He makes promises and keeps it. He won't make you worry; he'll do all the worrying for you.
Wait for a man who's worth it. If the going gets tough he won't leave you hanging; he won't give you up for a better life because he sure knows that the life with you will be better than the "better life" without you. He might not know what exactly you feel but he understands and tries to work all the issues. He'll be the bigger man to resolve a few misunderstandings and useless jealousy.
He'll be the bigger man to resolve a few misunderstandings and useless jealousy.
Wait for a man who's worth it. Wish for a man who fills your heart and soul with happiness and love. You’ll know you'll be miserable with someone else. Save your heart for the man that can't move mountains but is willing to cross it for you. Wait for a man who won't promise you the moon and the stars, but will make you his moon and stars.
Save your heart for the man that can't move mountains but is willing to cross it for you.
Wait for a man who's worth it. Wish for a man who's not perfect and flawless. He makes himself real in all aspect of his being. Don't ask a man to make you his world, but wish for a man to be full of passion not only for you but for other things that can make him happy. Wish for a man who's independent, who is man enough to cry because he's brave enough to show weakness.
Wait for a man who's worth it. Wish for a man who is ready for you, who will let you love yourself first so that when you love him, you already are the best version of yourself. Who will make you see yourself without restrictions and walls. Wait for a man who makes you feel beautiful even without make up.
When God finally gives him to you, give yourself to him and make sure that you'll also be the perfect imperfect woman for him. Be the imperfect woman who won't cheat, lie, and be the light to a dark world for him. Be the best woman you can be. Be the woman who will change his life for the better and will make him the best man he can be. Be the woman who inspires him and encourage him. Be the woman he can lean on and can depend on. Be brave enough to take a leap of faith and have the courage to take the risk with him. Be the woman he can love for the rest of his life. Live in the moment and accept that some things won't go your way, but know that God has better plans for both of you. Just enjoy the unknown and the uncertainty of the future.