From Our Readers: To All the Guys of This Generation
Not all of us, girls, like it when guy does all these "breezy moves," okay? Not all of us get kilig when you pull galawang hokage on us. A guy who gets too touchy is a big no-no.
We do get it that you want to flirt with someone but please, don't do it the creepy, pervy way. Instead, talk to us properly or ask us about our day and what we've been busy with. We might be interested in tellling you about ourselves, without mistaking you as one of those guys who only causes trouble.
When a girl gives you their number, it's not always because we want to date you and be with you. Take it easy, slowly. That doesn't mean that you can text us almost every hour, every day, and get mad at us for not responding to you as soon as you want. Sometimes, we just want to be friends with you first, get to know you better, and have someone to talk to.
Some girls prefer the old style of courting. We do understand that it's the modern times already, as they say, and you can ask someone out on a date over a text but that is not how we want it to be. We want something serious, not just fun. We don't deserve ending up on our beds, crying over a relationship that failed or something that could've been something more. Be a gentlemen like you're supposed to be.
We do know that we sometimes, it gets really painful to deal with us. But if you really want us to know that you're the one that we're looking for, then act like it. We don't need you to be perfect, not even close to that, or change what and who you are. We want you to be the man that's mature and respectful enough, someone we can be ourselves with.