From Our Readers: Stop Waiting for Him to Come Back
Third week of March, you messaged me and told me about this guy who made you feel head over heels in love. I smiled as I read your message because finally you can move on from your past.
As a friend, you know that I will never get tired of hearing your stories about your love life. When you're happy, I'll be happy too.
So every day and every night, you never stopped saying his. You told me that you've already been talking for two days. You said that he is a friend's cousin and he really wants to meet you. I can see that he gave you butterflies in your stomach. He also made you believe that forever can still exist in this world full of bitterness and breakups. I can see the twinkle in your eyes every time you talked about him.
But your doubts didn't stop bothering you. You thought that maybe he really just can't get over his ex. You thought that he will just use you to move on from his past. I don't like that to happen to you that's why I told you to make sure that your heart is ready for whatever happens and that you make sure you're just not his rebound girl.
He told you one day that he will just fix some things and be back as soon as possible. You waited. The distance was hard for you, but you didn't give up. Days passed and you are still waiting for him to come back. Then you started to lose your hope and will to keep going. I even told you to think positively. I tried to remove all the negativity in you and helped you stay optimistic as long as you can.
Suddenly, your biggest fear came. He left a message. You should feel the euphoria but suddenly anxiety took its place. You heard that he went to another country to stay there for good, and that there's a possibility he won't come back. Your heart was shattered into pieces. I can see the sadness in your hopeless eyes.
Until now, you're still hoping that he will come back, at the right time, in God's perfect time. You believed that when everything's fine, you will find your way back to each other and accept the love you both deserve.
After what happened, I am in awe of you for being strong despite those sleepless nights and endless nights when you cried yourself to sleep. I told you that easy come, easy go. For me, he came in your life easily, but made a long-lasting impression. He really did capture your heart.
You'll get over him as time goes by and you'll be able to tell yourself that you should thank him for leaving not just a mark, but lessons as well. I trust you.
Remember that I'll be by your side through ups and downs. I'm always here to remind you that you are loved. Please do not forget to love yourself too. Thank you for showing how tough a young lady can be. There are so many things to look forward to. Greater things will happen. I hope to see those eyes full of hope again. Keep your mind full of positive thoughts. Remember, endings are just beginnings.