From Our Readers: Should You Give Your Ex Another Chance?
I'm pretty sure most of us Candy Girls have already experienced heartbreak once or twice in our lives, and sometimes we can't help but get way too emotional. There are also instances that some couples get a chance to continue the love story they started.
There is nothing wrong if you decide to give your ex-boyfriend a second chance, as long as you think that he really deserves it. In some instances, the same couple that broke up end up giving more than a second chance; they tend to give things a million chances, an unlimited supply. Most times, us girls give the relationship a second chance. But I'm warning you, a second chance doesn't mean that you won't go through the same problems you had in your past relationship.
An argument or misunderstanding is inevitable, but the best thing we can do to make the relationship stronger is to talk about it with our partner. Communication is key, trust me. Also, it doesn't mean that just because you're the girl means that you're always right. Learn to accept and apologize for the mistakes you've committed.
An argument or misunderstanding is inevitable, but the best thing we can do to make the relationship stronger is to talk about it with our partner.
People may think that you're too stupid and foolish to give your ex a second chance. But would you let them control your mind and heart? I think it's a bit of a sin to love someone else if you don't really feel something for them, so if you're still sure that you love your ex, then go and give things another chance.
But what if your ex is already seeing someone new and you're still stuck in wanting to give your feelings another chance? You don't have a choice anymore but to accept the fact that maybe you're not meant to be together for now.
Just don't be scared to give yourself the second chance to love again—whether it's with your ex or with someone new. As they say, love is about giving chances and taking risks no matter how mysterious and dangerous your love story can be.