From Our Readers: Do Not Love a Smart Girl
She will see your faults. She will point them out. She will see past your incapabilities and she will push you to your limit because she knows that you can be more than what you are now.
She will get in your nerves. She will constantly reprimand you for the unhealthy things that you got used to doing because she knows that it's bad for you and she only wants the good. She always wants the good—the best for you.
And in one way or another, you will crack. You will get tired of her, her telling you what you should and shouldn't do. You will scream hurtful words at her, words that you know you will regret in the morning. You will call her out for handling your life as if it were her own. She will process every word you would throw her way and in one way or another, she would decide that you were right.
You will scream hurtful words at her, words that you know you will regret in the morning.
But for the first time ever, she was wrong. She had only done what she knew was best for both of you. She only wanted you to grow into the individuals that you were both bound to be. She was right. She's always been right.
Yet by the time that you would realize this, she would have then shut you out. She opened her beautifully complicated mind to someone who was not prepared to handle such intensity.
You hurt her and although she wanted nothing but the best for you, she also wants nothing but the best for herself.
So if you're not equipped for one rollercoaster ride, do not love a smart girl. Failing to handle her beautiful mind proves that you would also fail to handle a much more beautiful part of her: her heart.