5 TV Shows With More Accurate LGBTQ+ Representation
In an age where queerbaiting and toxic queer characterization still remain prevalent in many forms of media, it may seem hard to find that perfect TV series with good and authentic LGBTQ+ rep. Fortunately, a good number of shows have been known to go the extra mile in giving the community the representation they deserve. So sit back, relax, and get ready to binge!
You may recognize this series’ lead actress, Brianna Hildebrand, from her role in Deadpool as Negasonic Warhead. Here she plays Elodie, a grieving teen who ends up forming a close bond with two of her classmates after they end up in the same Shoplifters Anonymous group. Apart from tackling themes like loss and friendship, this show also delves into Elodie’s sexuality as a lesbian, sans the usual coming-out-storyline and instead, into her awkwardness as she interacts with the girl she likes. It’s a healthy portrayal of same-sex attraction and could pave the way for a more normalized depiction of LGBT couple storylines in television.
Sex Education (2019)
This heartwarming show centers on Otis—a teenager with a sex therapist mom—who teams up with his classmate Maeve to start a sex therapy clinic at their school. There are too many great things about this series, and one of those is how it includes characters from all over the spectrum. This show boasts inclusivity, diversity, and healthy normalization of LGBT relationships. We watch characters like Eric, Otis’ gay best friend, tackle bullying from homophobia, while living with his conservative family’s religious beliefs. Other characters are also seen discovering their bisexuality and pansexuality. A standout scene from Season 2 shows one of the characters coming to terms with being asexual, as Otis’ mom tells her, “Sex doesn’t make us whole. And so, how could you ever be broken?”
Well-known for its unique premise, Sense8 tells the story of eight strangers around the world who share a psychic and empathetic connection, using their shared consciousness to survive being hunted down. Co-created by transgender sisters Lana and Lilly Wachowski, this show features gay, lesbian, and trans characters in key roles.
Examples include Nomi, a transgender lesbian hacktivist who is also played by transgender actress Jamie Clayton, and Lito, a gay Mexican actor, a great character with many heartwarming scenes, one of which being his speech during a São Paulo LGBT Pride event. This show definitely transcends both geographical and gender boundaries, as these eight characters continuously occupy each other’s bodies, lives, and sexual identities.
Wynonna Earp (2016)
With three seasons under its belt and a fourth one already in the works, this comic-based supernatural series is definitely on a roll. Wynonna Earp tells the story of its titular character, the great, great granddaughter of legendary lawman Wyatt Earp, as she returns to her hometown to take on her role as its demon protector. Apart from its action-packed yet heartfelt depiction of family and friendship, this show has been a big hit in the queer community because of its famous “WayHaught” ship, featuring characters Waverly (Wynonna’s younger sister) and Nicole (the sheriff’s deputy). Lesbian rep on TV hasn’t always been the best, which is why fans hold this duo very closely to their hearts. It’s refreshing to see two women who are sure and open about their sexuality, and seeing the spark of their first interaction from the get-go, skipping past the usual same-sex couple tropes.
Orange is the New Black (2013)
This Emmy-winning comedy-drama follows New Yorker Piper Chapman, as she gets convicted for a past crime that lands her in a women’s prison, bringing her face to face with the reality of life behind bars. This show has been praised for its genuine and complex portrayal of queer women through its characters.
Apart from protagonist Piper who is very much open about her sexual fluidity, we have other memorable storylines as well such as that of transgender inmate Sophia Burset (played by transgender actress Laverne Cox), as she deals with the struggles of maintaining her gender identity and fighting against transphobia. Overall, this series has been a breakthrough in terms of getting good LGBT rep for television, as it sensitively tackles the diverse lives of queer women while breaking the stereotypes that come with it.
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The most thrilling and delightful moment of any school day is opening up your baon during breaks. There is always so much excitement in unveiling your homemade meal and snacks housed inside matching heat-insulating containers. Because preparing packed meals is an age-old tradition of showing parental love, loved ones pour effort into curating a nutritious meal accompanied by a selection of side dishes, desserts, and beverages daily; it reminds us that we are being taken care of, even from far away.
Baon plays a significant role in a Filipino childhood. Almost every Filipino child comes to school with baon made especially for them by their parents or household helpers. Even Filipinos in the labor force continue to bring baon for varying reasons: to save money, recycle leftovers, cater to personal taste, or attend to special needs. Nonetheless, eating your baon is a heart-warming experience that allows Filipinos to bring a piece of home along with them wherever they go.
Even other cultures practice making packed lunch. In Japan, mothers create bento--Japanese meals in partitioned boxes. Because of the popularity of bento, trends have emerged, such as the Kyaraben, or character-themed bento. Naturally, Japanese parents and students began competing for who had the cutest and tastiest bento, and this is similar to what I have witnessed in my own childhood. I remember seeing my classmates sharing their snacks and lunches. They would compare and boast about their parents' or yayas’ cooking. In my case, I never had the chance to join in the competition or indulge in homemade cooking. Up until this day, I have never brought any baon to school.
For a long time, I envied others. As trivial or petty as it may seem, not having baon became a problem for my grade school self. During that time, I had to sit in a separate cafeteria away from my friends because the kids who bought food were assigned to sit elsewhere. You could consider me spoiled, but I wanted to experience something most kids did. I had food at home, so what made it so hard to bring some with me to school?
Now that I am on my final year in high school I have come to realize the benefits of purchasing my own food. Since I spent on food everyday, I learned to budget my allowance at a young age. Over the years, I learned to practice self-control whenever I wanted to eat more greasy fries and drink sweetened beverages. I have tasted the strangest viands at the school cafeterias, and I have repeatedly satiated myself over my latest delicious discoveries. Despite the struggles, I am thankful that I have never had baon because of what I have learned. Not to mention, I never had to experience eating cold food.
Literally to begin with, I am writing with little shaky hands because this is the last time I went for a vacation like most of us must have and can’t plan any for now. The coronavirus outbreak has compelled us to stay at home for our safety and others in the vicinity.
I remember how I penned down my year 2020 to be the most remarkable year of my life in the hope of doing everything I desired for a long time and overcoming few obstacles. Whilst planning things ahead, I forgot to truly value all of things in the present.
I remember being chipper and grateful for my last summer vacation but now I feel I should’ve valued each and every moment. Considering the current gnarly situation, I want each one us to motivate ourselves to look for a positive side and to make the most of our time no matter the situation.
Make a promise to yourself that you won’t give up in these circumstances and reckon that there are a lot of good things for us in the store. We’ll have the most amazing season of our life post pandemic. Let’s accept for the change and become the change. Propagate love and only love.
Danielle Flestado @artdkf.ph | June 19, 2020
"While I was reading my devotional book yesterday, this part hit me: rejoicing together is more difficult to do than grieving with each other. And so, I thought of reminding myself that I should be happy for the success of others. After all, we are part of one family and every one of us is striving to accomplish our own goals in this world. Let us be happy for each other."
Choosing between dreams and practicality is never easy. My CETs season just ended with the release of the UPCAT results. Anxious as I logged on the website, I started to think about what would happen if I didn't pass UP. Ever since I was six years old, I fixated on the idea that I will become an iska, serving the country and studying at my dream school, which is UP. I strived and studied hard for the UPCAT, sacrificing a lot of things like hang-outs and gala weekends for reviews.
Throughout my CETs journey, I started seeing myself studying only in UP, and while there were no results yet, my friends and I already started planning our lives around the fact that we're gonna study in UP. It was a big deal for me, my friends and my family that I get the chance to study in UP since it's so far from my hometown which is Benguet, and better yet, it's a very well known university.
January 2020 came and universities started releasing CETs results. I was expecting my DCAT and ACET results that month. I passed DCAT but brushed it off because even though I liked the school, I never really saw myself studying there. Same thoughts with Ateneo, since it never really crossed my mind that I might study in ADMU. In fact, Ateneo was never really a choice for me, I only took it just to have another choice in case I failed the UPCAT. I also applied for financial aid not because I was really planning on studying there, but more of "para lang sure na may college ako". I know it's a bad thing but they were just my back-up schools because my main goal was really UP.
One Friday afternoon, ACET results came out. I passed, managed to get a scholarship, and in that moment, my plans just started to crumble.
Seeing that I got a 100% tuition and fees discount, free dorm fees, and an additional book allowance got me into considering studying to Ateneo. Suddenly, I got torn between UP, my dream school, and Ateneo, which offers so much more.
As the months passed, and after talking to my parents, my plans and decisions got more jumbled and messy. I still wanted to go to UP even if there were no results yet but Ateneo offering so much would mean a lesser burden to my parents in terms of finances.
Even though my parents told me that they'll support me no matter where I choose to go, the practicality that Ateneo offers in terms of finances was not an easy thing to waive. Sometimes I would laugh at the fact that I'd spend less on a private school than on a state university. Talking to my friends helped somehow, but they also have various opinions about the two universities. I managed to tell myself to hold off the problem until UPCAT results get released, and so I did.
UP released the UPCAT results and seeing that I passed made me scream and cry, literally. At that moment, all I was thinking was that I passed my dream school and I'm officially a QC college student.
My parents were so proud of me even though they got scared because I screamed, but ultimately, they were happy for me. The next day, I sat down, stared at my UPCAT and ACET results, and told myself that I needed to decide. This was the hardest part. I tried deciding using the pros and cons method but it didn't really work. Talking to my parents also didn't help because they'd support me either way, so their judgement was not a factor at all. I also had the same course in both schools so that wasn't a big help. I was 99% close to letting go of my dream university and decide to go to Ateneo.
I weighed options and Ateneo was the cheaper and more practical option. I also started to see myself studying as a blue eagle, roaming around the campus etc. And financially, I didn't need to worry much except for food. At that point, I started to really like the idea of going to Ateneo more than studying in UP. But then, as the weeks went by, the Ateneo Plan started to lose my interest.
I realized that studying in Ateneo would be a great opportunity, but not something that will really make me happy. The finances and all would be so much better but I wouldn't be happy and content, and I felt that Ateneo couldn't give me everything that I wanted and needed. Then a light bulb lit up.
As I was imagining myself at UP, I ultimately felt that happiness and content that I didn't feel with Ateneo. I realized that, if I didn't study in UP, I know later in my life, I would regret it. I would regret not choosing my dream university because I didn't choose what would make me happy.
In short, I chose my dream over practicality. I know that I would be successful in both tracks, but I simply chose my dream because it is where I'm happier and more content. Besides, we can make our dreams practical but not all the time can the practical choice equate to our dreams. So to those having a hard time choosing between dreams and practicality, weigh it out and always remember to put yourself and your happiness first. And of course, choose the choice that you know you'll not regret later on.