5 Lessons Learned from Local College Movies
"Back in college..." This is something you'll probably hear a lot at all the family gatherings you'll be going to this Holy Week. People have a tendency to look back on their college years with rose-tinted specs, focusing on the good times with friends and boy/girlfriends, and romanticizing the all-nighters and hell weeks they went through. It has something to do with the time element of college: You only have a certain number of years to spend in the glorious limbo right before the adult world, and that makes every moment that much more precious. This feeling is something that the best college movies capture, and like in the four walls of a classroom, there’s a lot to be learned from these art forms imitating life.
- There's a time and place to say goodbye.
As much as Carson wanted to stay in the friends-but-maybe-possibly-hopefully-more-than-friends zone with college buddy Dio in I'm Drunk, I Love You, reality eventually caught up with her. While she wished for five more minutes with Dio, just five more minutes, she finally came to terms with her feelings during an impromptu trip to La Union with him right before graduation.
- Relationships evolve all the time.
While puppy love was all the rage in high school, it's in college that you get your first dose of a somewhat adult relationship. This is when your hopes and dreams affect the course of a relationship. This is when conflicting desires come in. This is when lines get blurry, as shown in the movie Ang Kwento Nating Dalawa, especially in the plot twist revealed right before the credits roll.
- There will always be new ways to communicate, but the whys will remain constant.
In Vince & Kath & James, Vince is the wingman to James on his quest to win Kath's heart with sweet text messages—thing is, Vince is also falling for her. Take a second to think about how this could've totally happened in previous generations, but instead of text messages, they'd send handwritten letters or telegrams (not the app).
- You will find your people in the most unlikely places.
Though no longer as binding as before, cliques still exist in college (and beyond). But the good news is that you don't have to stick to one squad. College classes and extra curriculars give you more opportunities to hang out with different types of people, creating a wonderful rainbow of personalities like in the throwback film First Day High.
- Music will weave your memories together.
There are moments when it seems like there's an invisible, all-knowing force scoring your life, and college is one of the phases when it’ll feel most potent (see: Sugarfree's "Burnout" in I'm Drunk, I Love You). You can thank all those school fairs, nights spent catching gigs, and downtime swapping songs. Years from now, you won't remember what you studied all semester for Sociology 147, but you will remember that time you swayed to a Sugarfree song with your college love the night you broke up. (Sorry.)
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I've been investing in arts, photography, and writing. I've also got back to reading the other day and I finished reading this amazing book entitled 300 Things I Hope by Iain S. Thomas. It is all about the things the author hopes his readers to do in all aspects of life. So, I decided to make a version of it with all of the things I'm hoping for.
I hope I get to see my friends be successful in life. I hope to make a big mural someday. I hope to be a well-known artist like the artists I look up to. I hope to marry the person I am in love with today. I hope to be a little kinder to myself. I hope to see happiness even in the smallest things. I hope to travel the world. I hope to be a good mother and a wife to my future family. I hope to have my artworks displayed in a gallery or an exhibit. I hope to learn more about creative writing. I hope I won't learn how to get tired and give up my passion. I hope I won't get too hard on myself whenever I don't get the results I've been wanting to see in my works. I hope to love myself more even on the days I hate it the most. I hope to lead and empower women; to be their voice and for them to believe in themselves that they can be the woman they look up to. And when I've reached my limit of these things, I hope I won't get tired of reminding myself that my emotions don't make me weak, hence, makes me stronger. These are some of the things I always hope for. What about you? What are you hoping for?
I started fixing myself this quarantine. I mean, I started trying makeup products. As a teen, I'm on my phone almost every hour of the day, scroll on my social media accounts, especially Instagram, and also Pinterest where you get to see nice and pleasing photography by bunch of amazing and beautiful people from different parts of the world. So I started taking my own as well. I did not know that taking your own photo and try to get an Instagramable one is sooooooooo hard, it's exhausting. I do not have alot of space in my room, and I would definitely not do it outside our house because of Corona Virus, and I don't want to be seen by our neighbors HAHA so I have no choice but to make tiis inside my room.
Out of atleast 25 shots, only 2 are a nice picture. While I'm all sweaty and tired, I am proud of what I could do beyond my comfort zone. And this definitely built my self confidence, (and I secret love the compliments I received from both people I know and don't know) It's not my first time visiting in here, Candy! But I'm new to writing my thoughts and experiences, so bare with me HAHA.
Until next time!
First. Pixie dust and paper cuts – these are the first things Wendy knew about Peter Pan. Aurora first met Prince Philip when she was sixteen. Learning how to ride a bike was also a first while I was growing up, but you are probably the first of too many. The first collection of dust and stars; maybe Luna will try to ask, who was your first? I might answer and tell her that it was you.
The first of too many stars in the sky. You are the first of too many fallen leaves during fall – and you will be the most anticipated snowflake as winter comes. A dark path that you can’t see without any light, hence, you were once the moon and there are the stars that shine so bright at night. Are we too early? Or we just really want to be ahead of time? Even in a glimpse, I would like to see the two of us connect as if we can reach the sky. There are other parts of the heavens you have never saw and other oceans you haven’t laid your feet onto – but the constellations will always wait for you. Close your eyes, love, close your eyes. Start counting backward: 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. Count backward until you see the twinkling lights that will guide you to the right path. To the right satellite; to the right person. A first.
There are many firsts – first love, first heartbreak, first sport you played, the first thing you do in the morning, the first thing you remember about the person in front of you. There are a lot. It’s actually up to us how we will consider something as a first. So, Primo, you are already a first of too many.