How can you tell your parents that you already had a boyfriend!!?

[SportS_GaL]

umm.. maganda kapag palagi kang nagkukuwento sa mom or dad mo (kung kanino ka mas close at comfortable) kung gaano kabait, ka-sweet at yung mga positives nung bf mo. baka magustuhan ng parents mo. tapos mapapadali na lang para sayo yung pagsasabi na kayo na.
goodluck nga pala.

[hannah_nicole_23]

syota... nice term ha.. especially you used it to your mom...

nung nagkabf ako last summer... i asked my mom kung kelan ako pwede magpaligaw.. she told me to ask my dad... so i did.. parang joke joke lang ang tanong ko... ayun.. sabi ni daddy... bahala daw ako... basta kaya ko daw sarili ko.... then feeling ko ok na.... so pinapunta ko yung bf ko sa bahay para ipakilala as suitor... (bf ko na siya tat time hehehe).... ganun....

[brokenangel]

well, u have to tell them before they find out.. kundi.. patay haha.

basta, tell one of your parents first.. un mas close mo.. and then, sabihin mo lang.. hehe, tapos sabihin mo na u really like this guy, and kung nagaaral ka pa, tell them na studies mo pa rin un priority mo.. hehe.. un lang, just talk to them, dahan dahanin mo.. hehe, kc pag mataray mom mo, baka masiraan ng ulo 

[magi]

haha. i just did this kanina. kinashual ko lanmg pagsabi.. the moment i woke up. i told my mom .. "ma, boyfriend ko na!" haha. tas tuwa sila ng sishy ko kase boto sila dun eh! lagi ko kasi nakkwento. they just saw him yesterday kase nagpunta dito sa haus tas yun. la lang=)

[sweetie_friend]

The best way is to tell them BEFORE you answered "yes" to your guy. In that way, they won't feel that you are hiding something from them.. baka mawala pa tiwala nila sayo..

But since kayo na, do it gently and slowly. Give them hints. Like tell them stories na there is this one guy that is special to you.. etc.. then if they are already familiar with your guy, then tell them na he's your bf na. Kasi baka kapag binigla mo sila, magalit pa un.

[modela1013_22]

^ AGREE

Dapat makilala nila un guy even before pa sha manligaw

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Congrats KATH!

Kwento mo naman, what nangyari?

[BlissChiqÜ]

i told my parents through a letter.
i waited till they were asleep and then i slipped the letter through their slippers where they wouldn't miss it when they get up in the morning.
they woke up ahead of me and so when i woke up, we talked about it over breakfast.
there...
it was a good thing they woke up on the right side of the bed that morning or i surely might have gotten it from them!

[PRiNSESA_AURA]

Eto sana gagamitin kong conversation pag pwede na, pero sige sayo na lang.
ME: Mom, Dad.. I'm wanna get married.
MOM & DAD: Di pwede!
ME: Edi boyfriend na lang!
MOM & DAD: Sige, basta walang pakasal.

HAHA! kulet ko noh. Ganito na lang, kwento mo sa yaya mo or sa siblings mo, tapos sila na yung magsabi. OR. sa dinner.. tumalon talon ka sa harap nila MAY BOYFRIEND NA AKO!!üü tapos.. yun.

Makulit ako magbigay ng advice. HAHA!

[bEbEgUrL]

hey.. same prob here.. i've had bf's before.. my mom caught me on some of them..
but im real serious bout my bf right now..

thing is.. im also scared..
even if im 18 already.. and my mom's still negative bout me having a bf <i think..>

although i think nakakahalata na cya..
my bf's in the philippines and im here in us..

but i already want her to know bout us so that things will be easier for me and him..
sobrang kinakabahan nga ko e.. isip ako ng isip kung pano..

[jeanna_angel922]

ak0 wala pa bf..
pur0 lang MU's..
tak0t kc ako sa parents q eh..
di pa daw ak0 pede..
sana payagan na q..!!
 

[certified_kikay]

*sigh sigh* pare-pareho tau ng problem..my parents are super strict..pero clueless sila..coz they're always on business trips,.,.etc..so nppbayaan ako sa tita ko.,.na wlang pakialam sa mga lakad ko bsta daw alam ng parents ko..o kaya sa maid..na kalclose ko nmn,..they're super strict kasi npbayaan din nila yung ate ko,my ate is a teenage mom..they lectured me nga bout bfs..etc...they'll do lots of things[bad stuff,yea...] if they found out..actually, 2 months na kmi ngaun ng beh ko..eheheh..i'm in hong kong and he's in the philippines.[nice story noh..?!]wahehehehe.

[MarianneÜ]

well, i think the best thing to do is ipakilala mo na formally yung boyfriend mo, not only to your parents but also to your sibs. teka--mas maganda diba sana kung bago mo sinagot yung boyfriend mo, nagpaalam ka muna sa parents mo para wala nang problema?

[CooLiTZ]

shashare koh ung story ng isa kng friend...may super stricts parents xa pro pmyag din eventually..share koh conversation nila =p

una, umiyak xa ng MALAKAS so narinig ng parents nia and asked her why. tpos she said
"mom..dad...wag kayu mabibigla and Im really really sorry..di koh tlga akaling aabut sa ganito  pro..." sob parin...tpos "I;m pregnant"
haha..inamin nia rin afterwards na jwk lng un..it worked nman..pumyag parents nia na magka boyfriend xa..binantaan nia kxe na pag naghigpit pa daw cla, baka magkatotoo un...hehe

[candy_girl09]

^ haha.. ngwork?? wow.. try k! wahaha..

[jojo_forever]

  write a letter! maintain your grades........make a "contract" that u won't get preggy......and you won't flunk in any subj.....