sobrang luwag n BF isnt it good?

[funky_kayze]

i have a new boyfriend asnd i he is so luwag with me, even if i go to gimmick's every day-off's he'll not get mad even if i'll say it to him at the time that im already on my way. He is okay with everything , but he is older than me like 10 years. and i dont know if it is a good sign. can u help me guys?

[emskey]

guys who're older are normally like that, only because they know you should be responsible with your sht. just don't push it, he might go ballistic on you. 

pag mahigpit masyado may nasasabi, pag maluwag naman, meron din.

[funky_kayze]

ah ganun ba kasi dsis is the first that i had a realtionship with a older guy and it's kindaa new kasi parang sobrang luwang nia lagi nia sinsabi na kasi daw alm ko n daw gngwa ko at may tiwala daw sia na hindi ko ggwin un

[PseudoWriter]

i have a new boyfriend asnd i he is so luwag with me, even if i go to gimmick's every day-off's he'll not get mad even if i'll say it to him at the time that im already on my way. He is okay with everything , but he is older than me like 10 years. and i dont know if it is a good sign. can u help me guys?

One thing he's pointing out: He's given you his 100% trust, its all up to you on how you're going to spend it. I've been there, he's like 5 years older than me. However, I did sh*ts I regret. We're still together and we've lost our trust along the way but we're trying to make things work.

[funky_kayze]

ah ganun ba pero isnt it kasi hindi pa nia ko love or what? kasi ngaun lang ako nag ka bf na hindi ako binabawalan with anything eh? help naman

[PseudoWriter]

ah ganun ba pero isnt it kasi hindi pa nia ko love or what? kasi ngaun lang ako nag ka bf na hindi ako binabawalan with anything eh? help naman

COULD BE. I'll share naman my side. Nung first 3 months namin ni bf, sobrang luwag din ako sa kanya. Like, wala akong pake if nasan siya. Hindi ko nga din tinatanong kung nasan siya. Basta pag trip ko lang siya itext, dun ako nagtetext. And my reason naman that time, di ako sanay na naguupdate ako sa bf ko. He's my 1st real bf. Hahaha real talaga eh no. Anyway! I'm very vocal to him na hindi ko pa nararamdaman talaga yung "love" so feeling single pa din ako before. I can't say if he's just giving you that hundred percent or just not yet feeling the relationship vibe.

Pero sis, ilang months pa lang ba kayo? When this issue becomes your deal breaker... I think it's time for you to talk. Communication lang ang makakapagalis na iyong agam agam. Srsly, you have to be open to him. And since he's older than you, I think he'll understand you. Goodluck sis!

[Hanzo23]

Your BF is giving you the trust which you may not yet be too comfortable with. He knows that you are responsible for your own actions and the impact that it will cause on your relationship.

If I were in his shoes, I'd do the same. Nothing boosts maturity more than granting freedom and knowing you are responsible for any negative impact as a consequence of bad choices.

[emskey]

If it bothers you that much, you need to talk to him. Welcome to an adult relationship.

[sacred cow]

he's secure and he knows that he's the catch and if you fvck up (by cheating on him), you both know he can find someone better

[SweetMaria]

Actually okay lang na maluwag ang boyfriend. Sabi nga sa previous posts, may trust lang talaga sya sayo.
For me yung mga higpit higpit ng ibang boyfriend, for the sake of kilig factor nalang yun. Hihi.