What to do kapag inactive ang social life?

[myunfortunatelife]

Hey gurls and guys!
What will you do ba kung inactive ang social life mo?

I have this problem recently. Hindi naman sa wala akong friends... I have a few of them kaya lang nasa malalayo na sila. Scattered. Kaya ang lonely ng buhay ko ngayon.
I just graduated from college and still unemployed. Kaya eto nasa bahay lang. Ang tagal ko na ring nagkukulong. Hindi naman ako makagala kasi nga wala akong makakasama. Ang panget naman kung ako lang mag-isa gumala, ayokong magmukhang loner.
What will I do ba?
Hindi kasi ako friendly na tao kaya iilan lang yung nagiging close friends ko.

Kung kayo ang  nasa sitwasyon ko, what will you do?
Help. And share din kayo if may experience kayo ng pagiging loner. like me.

[spacemonkey]

Went through the same thing.

I'd even invite my friends over to my house and they'll be all: but you live too far!

so I was like -- fucck it, I'm going to find new friends.

I enrolled in several classes where I met people with the same interests and had more in common with me than my usual friends. Met my best friends there.

Also, get a job, be friends with your colleagues.

I'm not close with my college friends now. No bad blood, but we all just drifted apart. You can't just base your social life with college people. Sooner or later, you're going to need to grow out of it.

[Hanzo23]

I never really was a social guy. I only kept a handful of friends both in high school and college. Since I moved here to the U.S., I really dont have any other college or high school friends here that moved within driving distance.

So what I did was go to meet-up groups who share similar interests. You'll be surprised how many people share similar passions as you do. Not only does it help to find and converse with people who have your similar personal interests, it also helps you find a job, or earn valuable skills to land yourself a good job!

[alvis]

magyaya kahit one or two friends lang.. go to your fave resto and eat. usually dyan naman nagsisimula yan. and that's what i do! whenever there are days na i feel like nagiging inactive ang social life ko, i invite a few to grab a snack at the sandwich guy or something. you don't need a lot of friends.. you just need a few real ones.

[snowylefae]

i personally dont mind having an inactive social life. since my life is mostly composed of me being in my room and watching yet again, the star wars trilogy and prequel trilogy.

but i guess it wouldn't hurt calling up a friend or two. im not the "socialite" type with loads of friends. im happy with being with the few buddies of mine, and am pretty contented with my social life.

[earthtofeii]

The best thing to do is use the extra time from not having to socialize for reevaluating your life. Sure, the world may conspire against you, but then again it might be something you brought upon yourself. So yeah. Think, repent, forgive... lather, rinse, repeat.

[myunfortunatelife]

Inactive social life up to now.

Tch.

My life is so boring...

[candygirl10795]

Kung ako maggagala ako mag-isa kasi minsan may mga nakakasalubong akong kakilala. Then konting usap-usap at  ayon minsan nakakasama ko na silang gumala. At that point narerealize ko na bakit ba di ko siya ing-friend dati.

[hollabackgirl]

Internet is your friend. You can meet new friends on social networks or forums like this