BF nag yo-yosi?

[jha20]

my boyfriend smokes a lot nung una pa lang kami magkakilala
pero habang tumatagal, sinasabihan ko talaga siya na ayoko na nagssmoke siya kasi bawal sakin yun.
hanggang sa sinabihan ko na din siya na kapag magkikita kami pag nalaman ko na nag smoke siya, no-kiss siya. so todo iwas siya sa smoke
now, nagssmoke na lang siya kapag nayayaya siya and kapag boys' night

girls, mahirap talaga tanggalin sa kanila yun lalo na kapag nakasanayan.
kaya siya ginagawa ko, pag na-tetempt siya bibigyan ko agad siya ng candy, ng lollipop or juice na may straw or kahit yung stick-o haha. 

[superjeanelle]

My boyfriend's smoking. Hm. Before I met him nagsosmoke na siya.

And pinapaalam naman niya sakin pag nagsosmoke siya. Open kasi kami sa isa't isa.

Ayokong patigilin siya sa pagsosmoke, well hm. Di naman sa ayoko. Gusto ko din kaso I know it would be very hard for him kahit sabihin nating mahal niya ako, so dapat kayanin niya. Para sakin kasi, okay lang na wag niya itigil basta bawasan niya yung pagsosmoke tsaka dapat occasional na.

Mahirap kasi pag pinapatigil. Pero pinagbabawalan ko siya pag nakakadami na siya, pag sinasabi niyang natetempt siya magsmoke, lagi akong bumibili ng candy or chewing gum. HAHAHA

[Ultimate_Dreamer]

I don't mind. Better for me actually kase nagyoyosi rin ako haha (:

[rishrishlove]

3rd year hs si bf nung nagstart mag-smoke. DI pa kami magkakilala nun. Haha. We only met 1st year, 2nd semester in college. And nagssmoke pa sya nun plus ang lakas uminom.

Nung naging kami, I told him na i-avoid, or i-lessen nya pagyosi and inom nya. Di ko kasi talaga gusto yung may bisyo. Hindi naman sa di ko sya tanggap pero, gusto ko kasi ipakilala ko sya sa magulang ko na okay sya. We're already in 3rd year college, and since December 2011, di na sya nagyoyosi. Na-stop na nya. Yup, na-stop na talaga nya pagyoyosi nya. And na-lessen na pag-inom nya. Occasionally na lang.

Nag-aaway kami pag nagyoyosi sya. Haha. Ayoko kasi talaga e. Pero good thing is, na-stop na nya.

[mRs_sPoNgEbOb_sQuArEpAnTs]

smoking is a big turn -off for me. good thing, my boyfriend doesn't smoke.

mahirap tanggalin ang yosi sa katawan lalo na at nasanay na. why don't you ask him na i-lessen ang pagssmoke or wag sya magsmoke kung magkasama kayo? ok din yun.

[mheii]

I used to stop my bf from smoking, but apparently, he can't. Okay lang sakin as long as nililimitahan niya.

[spacemonkey]

when my boyfriend and i met, he was a smoker. i don't smoke or like the smell of cigarettes.

when we got together, he was mindful about smoking around me. he'd move away or leave the room when he has to.

i asked him to quit, not demand, asked. never had to fight him about it or nag him to quit, because that would never work. guys don't like being told what they can or cannot do. he just knew i was uncomfortable with it, and he just told me that he would quit -- for himself, and i just needed patience because its a hard habit to kick.

he eventually stopped. he hasn't smoked in about two years now.

[MinYeon21]

Mahirap na kasi baka makahawa siya ng sakit. Secondary smoker. Mas malala yun kesa sa smoker talaga. Tapos kung siya talaga mamahalin mo, syempre magiging asawa mo rin, baka maaga siyang mawala sayo dahil sa pagiging smoker. ;(

[annie_chris27]

I can relate to you!  i don't know what to do also . .

[PseudoWriter]

Coming from my perspective, you cannot asked a smoker to quits his/her smoking habits abruptly. Kasi first of all, this habit is already attached to his/her routine. Cause sometimes smoking is also related to psyche/behavior of a person. Second, you met him/her like that, asked him/her not. Nainlove ka sa kanya, you have to accept the good and the worst things he/she does before you met him/her. Third, if you strongly enforce the NO-SMOKING Rules you have, he himself will learn to lie. You don't want that, right?

Finally, we know smoking is bad but all smokers need is a moral support if you are really determined him/her to quit. Talk, it is the greatest answer for this. Compromise what should be done for all sake. Slowly but surely, he/she'll quit soon.




Bf asked me to quit, I really can't. But he controlled me. I cannot give up a pack so he asked me to do 2-5 pieces a day to slow down.