Features: End of Story | September 2010

[Staff Writer Roch]

End of Story
How do you deal a heartbreak? Tell us!
Flip to page 46-48 for the full article.

[chrxtin]

i just think n ktulad din ng past relationship. . .na drating din ung time na mkakamove on until nkamove on nga ako. . .but sometimes ndi k basta basta mkakapagmove on until you found another person na mamahalin mo. . 

[geytz]

kailangan lang idivert ang attention sa iba. make myself busy and most of the time surround myself with the people who love me on my worst (family and friends)..

[Zero.Phoenix]

Syempre hindi naman natin maiiwasang umiyak pero after that I spend more time with my family and friends. Another thing is that it always help if you thing positive about the problem

[curxxlaurice]

--+ being broken hearted is not easy, pero kung aalamin mo kung pano ma-deal ito magiging easy na lang yon. think positive.. broken hearted ka man ngayon, sa susunod magmamahal ka pa din .. 

[mashimaroo]

hi?? just standby..

[cria]

.' sometimes i cry a lot  and sometimes i hang up with my friends and have some fun para naman di ko xa maalala   being broken hearted is so hard.

[La_niccA]

.. i've been into relationships and had my heart broken couple of times already.. and there were a lot of things i did during those times to ease the pain.
well, for me, maybe the first thing to be done after crying over the very painful event is to stop, reflect and think thoroughly what really went wrong or what happened why it ended this way..whether it was your mistake or not, it's best to know the things needed to be learned in order to avoid having the same problems in the future.
 Then, if you want to be alone, then be alone for a while but don't take too long because possibilities are: you'd end up blaming yourself or the ex, or you might think of something stupid,so to avoid this,Seek for a friend's hand and even sister's or mom's listening ears and back rubs and after which don't punish yourself anymore and go out! Unwind and have fun with friends, divert your attention and be busy..find a new hobby or anything that will make you happy..make new good friends and make this your new source of strength, and in time, you'll see that you are no longer hurt as much as you were hurting before.. slowly you'll move on.. and eventually you'll surely mend your broken heart bit by bit.

[demibella]

well. honestly..it's really "ouch"..I've already been in that kind of situation and i keep on crying until there is no more tears to spill...Even until now, its still aching.

[+athena+]

i just think of it as a challenge. if nakayanan ko then congratulations sa akin coz i know yong susunod mas super grabe pa. and everything happens for a reason eh. ganun lang.

[ellagonzales]

My ex and I broke up just last August. It's been a month and almost 1 week since we broke up pero parang kahapon lang nangyari lahat. he's my first boyfriend and I really don't know how to deal with such break up. Wala kaming pinag awayan or something, he broke up with me kasi hindi daw niya ma-balance yung studies niya and me. He's in grad school, btw. So medyo complicated talaga sa schedule. I understand naman the reason kaso hindi ko matanggap lang na nag give up na siya agad without even trusting me nung sinasabi ko sa kanya na kaya ko naman mag adjust for us. Ayun. Mahal daw niya ko pero hindi niya pa kaya. I still love him. Ang hirap mag move on kasi nung kami pa, wala talaga kami pinag-awayan. Everything about us seemed to be perfect and now, we lost it.

Hay. He told me na sana daw maging friends pa din kami but I don't think mas magiging okay kami kapag ganun. Hindi na kami nag-usap since the break up, so I guess that's it. Ang hirap kapag miss na miss ko siya tapos wala ako magawa..

[jhaica mhae]

it's so hard to deal a heartbreak!!!even though you want to forget everything that happen with you and him!!!you can't do it!!bcoz that is part of life!!so face the truth!!!!

[angelinda]

for me i mend my broken heart by not actually ignore the person who hurts me but to... you know take time to enjoy life without him to appreciate what God plans for me. yes! its not realy easy to mend a broken heart easily it takes time before we can say we move on on the things that hurt us a lot ... <3

[sophiyacamille]

Well, at first, it's really okay to be not okay. It hurts. A lot. Especially, when that relationship has been for years already, but the thing is, you can never bring things back, if you are really meant for each other, you'll find your way in the end. It's not that instant, so just keep yourself busy. 

[gorgeousanney10]

endure the pain and  move on...