did you?

[melapotpot]

is virginity an issue in a relationship?

[~eniang]

Tinanong ko rin yan dati. In terms of acceptance sa virginity ng partner mo, I don't think it should be considered as a BIG issue dahil sa panahon ngayon, kung willing naman siyang magbago/maghintay para sa'yo hindi pa ba sapat yon?

At kung Virginity throughout your relationship. For me kailangan lumayo hangga't maaari, dahil sabi dun sa book na nabasa ko. Kung ayaw mong mahulog sa bangin hindi ka naman uupo sa edge at maglalaro pa hindi ba? Tsaka doon matetest din ang patience nio. Dahil kung doon pa nga lang hindi niyo na na-control ang sarili niyo, paano pa kaya kung sakaling magkatuluyan talaga kayo? 

Tsaka sa tingin ko mas special ang relationship kung may pine-preserve kayong isang mahalagang bagay. 

[Azumaria]

It depends on the person actually if virginity is an issue. Some people don't really care. Some people prefer non-virgins and others prefer virgins.

In my opinion though, I think virginity makes the relationship more special. It depends on what YOU think.

[pautastic]

Just like what they said, it depends. If you perceive it as an issue, then it will be definitely.

[mangaagaw]

I don't really care if he's a virgin or not, its not like I am anyway so I'd be a hypocrite.

Its all in the past so people shouldn't worry about it.

[preppychic]

^ Agree. And hello, if you consider it as a big issue, it only means na virginity lang ang habol sayo. Why would he/she ditch you just because of that? Gusto nila na sila ang makajackpot. And it doesn't make non-virgins a less person. They are still people and they deserve respect. Hindi naman porket hindi ka na virgin b*tch ka na or what.

[sweetlady]

^ Agree. And hello, if you consider it as a big issue, it only means na virginity lang ang habol sayo. Why would he/she ditch you just because of that? Gusto nila na sila ang makajackpot. And it doesn't make non-virgins a less person. They are still people and they deserve respect. Hindi naman porket hindi ka na virgin !@#$ ka na or what.

yay for you sis! ako din hindi issue sa akin ang virginity ng isang tao. lalo pa ngayon, a lot of teenagers give them not just because they love the guy, minsan delikadesa lang talaga. iba na panahon ngayon. mas mahalaga pa rin yung respect.

[XENE]

no its not an issue at all..
especially now in our time.

love is more important, and if you love your bf/gf..
you should accept if she's not virgin anymore..
and never let that issue ruin both of you.

[preppychic]

yay for you sis! ako din hindi issue sa akin ang virginity ng isang tao. lalo pa ngayon, a lot of teenagers give them not just because they love the guy, minsan delikadesa lang talaga. iba na panahon ngayon. mas mahalaga pa rin yung respect.

-- HAHA. Hindi naman porket virgin pa ang isang tao eh mas better na sila in all aspects kesa sa mga non-virgins. Sa totoo lang, I find it shallow na palakihin ang issue kung virgin ka pa or hindi na. Pero pag sobrang bata pa, mejo disturbing yun, but still, we must not judge them for doing that. Lahat naman ng tao magdadaan at maeexperince ang madevirginize. (Except yung mga pari and the likes, of course) Pana-panahon lang yan. Me nauna lang, me nahuhule.

[kuchi]

i guess it depends kung gaano ka naman kamahal ng tao... and maybe it also depends kung gano katanda or kabata kayo.. me and my bf we met when we were in highschool and pareho kami 'firsts' ng isa't isa so i really don't know if virginity is going to be an issue... coz i dunno for me if the person has already lost his or her virginity at a young age, it kinda gives me the impression that he/she is somewhat daring or playful (if you know what i mean) but then, as i have said, depende pa rin sa tao.. kung love ka talaga ng tao and kung love niyo isa't isa, i guess virginity is not gonna be such a huge issue:)

[sweetlady]

-- HAHA. Hindi naman porket virgin pa ang isang tao eh mas better na sila in all aspects kesa sa mga non-virgins. Sa totoo lang, I find it shallow na palakihin ang issue kung virgin ka pa or hindi na. Pero pag sobrang bata pa, mejo disturbing yun, but still, we must not judge them for doing that. Lahat naman ng tao magdadaan at maeexperince ang madevirginize. (Except yung mga pari and the likes, of course) Pana-panahon lang yan. Me nauna lang, me nahuhule.

TAMA!  may kanya kanyang reasons naman sila kung bakit nauna sila.

[C.]

IDC at all if he's virgin or not.

Well, I love him for who he is. I love HIM not his sexual organ.

And yeah if it was the opposite way, if the guy's only after the virginity or so sensitive about it that he'll come to the point that he'll think of me as a slut, I'll ditch him. C'mon, Love is in the HEART. And please don't turn down the shape of the heart for it will turn into a shape of a butt.

[princess alexahh]

i dont think virginity should be a big issue in a relationship.. pero i think kapag nlaman mong hindi na virgin ang isang tao., u cant help the fact that some people will really totalize your whole being.. and maybe that will include your partner.. cause malay mo., he's looking for a girl na may pagka maria clara and stuff lyk dat.. kasi yan na ngayon ang mga babaeng mahirap mahanap ryt.?? tska bka isipin ng guy sa girl na pag hindi na virgin, is parang madali nlng xa makuha or mapa oo sa kama.. hahaha.! so parang mas hindi ka na seseryosohin ng guy specially if alam na ng buong mundo na hindi ka na talga virgin.. (specially for us teenagers).. i think it still depends on your partner.. pero for me, sna hindi nmn cause wala sa virginity mo ang buong pagkatao mo... its in your heart.. 
ako i am proud to say na i am still a V and also may bf.. and im sure of that..! and we are both waiting for da right time which is after we get married para super special.. kahit inaalok xa nang friends nya na bago raw sila ikasal (yung mga boys) mag sstag party raw sila.. im proud to announce na ayaw nang bf ko ng stag party.. kasi gusto nya daw mawala ung virginity nya sa taong love nya tlga.. aww.. isnt dat sweet.? i feel so lucky.! yey.! for my bf.!!!

[monabhee_05@candymag.com]

para sa aking virginity must not be big issue in a relationship pero sa aminin natin at sa hindi ay ang virginity ay malaking issue sa isang relasyon dahil una, gusto ng isang Pilipino na ang mapapangasawa niya ay virgin pa, at pangalawa, kaya maraming nagdidivorce sa america ay dahil maraming mga mag-asawa na walang tiwala sa partner niya dahil din sa virginity na yan.....


lahat tayo ayaw na maging issue yan, pero dapat nating tanggapin na malaking issue talaga yan sa lipunan

[jessica_23]

it would be an ego booster for a guy if alam nilang siya ang first mo. but believe me,even if hindi siya ang first mo and love ka talga niya, he will accept it no matter what. paglalaban ka pa niya kung talagang mahal ka niya. it only takes maturity for a guy to know if it's the right time to love & fight for somebody. next thing u know, marriage na.