Heart-To-Heart: Advice thread.

[angelica :D]

hello po. hingi lang po ako ng advice, kasi meron po akong bf ngayon okay naman masaya kahit papano. pero ang problem lang is super love nya ako kasi first gf nya ako pero para sakin parang hindi enough yung love ko para sakanya. kasi miss na miss nya ako pero ako hindi ko sya ganun ka-miss, laging naga-i love you pero ako hindi. basta yung para pong hindi ko kaya maisukli yung love na dapat sknya. pero love ko naman tlga cya kaso parang kulang. ano po ggwin ko? mkkipag-break po ba ako o iccontinue ko po? help pleae! thanks po.

[candygurl_khaye]

hello po. hingi lang po ako ng advice kasi meron po akong bf ngayon, okay naman masaya kahit hindi masyado nagkikita dahil bakasyon pero ang problem lang di po enough ung love ko for him kasi parang hindi ko cya ganun namimiss hindi tulad sknya na miss na miss na nya ako, lagi xang nag-a-i love you pero ako hindi. ano po ba kelangan kung gawin? mkkipag-break po ba ako or iccontinue ko pa. kasi ang alam ko po sa sarili ko love ko naman xa pero parang hindi enough. help please! thanks  po.

hi sis  bago lng ba kayo ng bf mo ??.. hmmz.. i just want to share lng nmn alam mo at first gnyan din ako sa bf ko ni di ko nga tinatawag madlas sa pinagusapan nmn na tawagan e.. i dont know why.. peo una kasi feel ko di kami para sa isa"t isa at parang hindi kami magtatagal.. pero ngayon ? hello ?? 1 yr and 5 months na kami.. at first lng siguro lang yan.. may mga some changes lang siguro in your relationship andyan ung nangangapa ka pa sa mga likes and dislikes ng guy mo.. you can't say he is your DESTINY na pala .. we hope so sana nakahelp ako sis..
keep rock ! 

[angelica :D]

hi po.
yes, bago lng po kami nagfirst monthsary pa lng kami ngayong month. hehe, hindi po tlga kasi ako ganung ka-"showy" lng love ko skanya kaya nafefeel ko bka ndi enough yung love ko for him. pero anyways, thank you po sa advice. bka nga lng po naninibago lng tlga ako. hehe! maraming salamat po.

[baby_loislane04]

hi sis.. ako din hingi advice.. Im yella btw..

Problem #1 : here's the sitch.. yung barkada kasi ng BF ko na ex naman ng bestfriend ko, bigla na lang nagiiba yung pakikitungo sa akin.. nung umpisa, he likes me daw, nung katagalan mahal na daw niya ako.. ako naman hindi ko masyado pinapansin kasi taken na ako saka barkada namin yun.. at ex pa ng bestfriend ko diba.. so hindi ko talaga papatulan.. kaya lang lumalala, tawag niya sa akin bhe.. minsan iintayin niya ako umuwi para sabay daw kami.. sabi niya matagal na daw to, nung nililigawan pa lang daw ako ng BF ko ngayon, type na niya ako.. naunahan lang daw siya.. mga ganon.. hindi ko alam kung pinagttripan lang niya ako or what.. hindi ko din alam kung dapat ko na ba siyang iwasan.. at lalo na, hindi ko alam kung sasabihin ko ba kay boyfie.. kasi baka magaway sila.. ayoko naman mangyari yun

Problem # 2: hindi ko alam kung bakit all of a sudden nagiging cold ako sa BF ko.. mahal ko naman siya.. walang pinagbago.. wala rin namang other guy na naka caught ng attention ko.. kahit yung barkada ko na nagpaparamdam.. basta parang, idk.. may nagbago? like kanina, ang tagal niya gumising, e ayokong nagaantay ng text.. tapos ayun bigla na lang akong naging masungit.. para bang mga simpleng bagay pinapalaki ko.. hindi na ako understanding.. lahat ng gusto ko dapat nasusunod.. ang selfish ko na.. ayoko naman dumating sa point na magsawa na din siya sa ugali ko.. naguguluhan ako.. ano ba dapat ko gawin? malapit na din kami mag dalawang taon..

[sweetwarrior]

hi sis Fria. thanks sa thread na 'to ah. 

confused lang po ako sa ngayon.
kasi i have a BF now. crush ko siya dati. nanligaw siya then syempre sinagot ko. (crush ko un eh!) and yon, kami na..habang tumatagal, nawawala na un feeling s ko sa kanya at parang mas naeenjoy ko pa un dati na crush-crush pa namin un isat'isa kasi super kilig pa non pag nanjan siya. ung time na kasi na kami, wala na ung kilig and nawawala na din un feelings..so its clear na infatuation lang un. now my problem and confusion is, ayoko na at pagod na ako magpretend na mahal ko pa siya. mahal na mahal niya ako eh. tapos 2x na kaming nagbreak then nakikipagbalikan talaga siya kasi di daw niya kaya. coz of AWA, ayun pumayag naman ako na maging kami uli. now im pretending na mahal ko  siya kasi ayoko makasakit talaga. di ko siya kaya prangkahin kahit sa text lang. ang weak ko talaga. (another thing is, super shy type of guy talaga siya. napakatahimik pa. naboboring ako minsan pagkasama siya. di ko na talaga na-eenjoy ung relationship. )

ano na po gagawin ko?..anung linya sasaulohin ko? 

[animefreak_rocker4evah18]

hi ate fria..i posted my problem pero wala pong ngrereply..haha 
eto po yung link.. http://www.candymag.com/teentalk/index.php/topic,194671.0.html
and ate advice po on LDR ang hirap kasi..kahit gano na kayo katagal tapos LDR parang everything seems impossible.. thanks po..

[sweetwarrior]

hello po. hingi lang po ako ng advice kasi meron po akong bf ngayon, okay naman masaya kahit hindi masyado nagkikita dahil bakasyon pero ang problem lang di po enough ung love ko for him kasi parang hindi ko cya ganun namimiss hindi tulad sknya na miss na miss na nya ako, lagi xang nag-a-i love you pero ako hindi. ano po ba kelangan kung gawin? mkkipag-break po ba ako or iccontinue ko pa. kasi ang alam ko po sa sarili ko love ko naman xa pero parang hindi enough. help please! thanks  po.

same here sis..prang gusto ko na nga makipagbreak kaso naisip ko, baka pg may pasok na, mafall na rin ako ulit sakanya..depende na lang siguro kung ano mangyari saken pagpasukan na..kung wala na ako feeling sa kanya kahit everyday ko siya nakikita. un na talaga.. confused.. confused..

[mhey13]

hi ^^.enge rin po aq ng advice. ksi i really miss this guy ksi ndi na kme ktuld ng dati na txt txt plge at ngchachat. pero ndi mag on. anung pdeng gwn pra makausp ko ulit sya? balak ko po sana imessage sya sa fb ng "miss na miss na kta.." pero bka sbhn nmn nya nega thing un po thx in advance 

[bianx1702]

uy pano ba to? yung parents ko ayaw sa bf ko dahil sa status ng life niya, di kasi siya nakatapos ng study niya kasi hindi na nila kaya. nagyon ginagawa ng parents ko pinaghihiwalay kami na kahit magkita ayaw.?? 

[ejlaine]

balak ko po sana imessage sya sa fb ng "miss na miss na kta.." pero bka sbhn nmn nya nega thing un po thx in advance 

i sugest u shouldn't do that! never ever! based on my experience, ayaw  lalaki ng hinahabol  sila. wag kang mag papakita ng weakness unless you're truly sure of  our partner.

[PurpleMoonDust]

Here's my problem:

I like this guy in a summer workshop I'm taking. We've known each other for two years now and we're good friends. I only started developing feelings for him this summer. He always teases me and does things to get my attention. Most of my classmates say that he doesn't often do that to other girls. How am I supposed to know if he really likes me more than a friend or not? Sometimes, I find it hard to believe that he might like me, since he's four years older and I don't think those classmates who say that he likes me have enough proof anyway and sometimes, he suddenly goes offline in Facebook while we're chatting. So how do I know if it's real? Help me please. 

[mhey13]

i sugest u shouldn't do that! never ever! based on my experience, ayaw  lalaki ng hinahabol  sila. wag kang mag papakita ng weakness unless you're truly sure of  our partner.

oo nga nu . haha. thx alot!. bute d ko pa ngwa.woo.cguro kulitin ko nlng po nu?

[ejlaine]

oo nga nu . haha. thx alot!. bute d ko pa ngwa.woo.cguro kulitin ko nlng po nu?

nasa sayo yan.. pero kung ako yan, di ko sya kukulitin. kung talagang close kayo nuon, taz bigla syang nagbago, magbago ka din. sigurado ko mag tataka siya bakit ka nagbago.

SIS FRIA - you're gone na.. i need your help?

[mhey13]

nasa sayo yan.. pero kung ako yan, di ko sya kukulitin. kung talagang close kayo nuon, taz bigla syang nagbago, magbago ka din. sigurado ko mag tataka siya bakit ka nagbago.

SIS FRIA - you're gone na.. i need your help?

Thx ate ejlaine!that's a big help really! 

[that.random.kid]

Okay so here's my problem.


I like this guy since I first came to a new school last school year. I was a Junior and he was a Senior. I was like, in love with him at first sight. He's really nice but a lot of people say he's.. well, he's hot-headed. Okay, so I've never talked to him before, but only during CAT. Months have passed and the Commandant of CAT is looking for future officers. Since my crush was an officer, I joined CAT for the sake of seeing him. One day, he trained me. I got so kilig, but during trainings, you should NEVER laugh or smile. I didn't. He borrowed my sword, taught me how to handle the sword. He was so gentle! And officers should NOT be gentle with their cadets/cadettes.


He then told me to join another rank. When he saw me handling the sword wrong (the tip of the sword should be touching the right upper arm, not the neck bone), he immediately went up to me and moved the tip of the sword to my upper right arm. He told me gently, "Don't put the tip of the sword on your neck bone next time, okay? You'll get a fever when you do that." I was so kilig and touched! Usually when you handle the sword wrong, an officer would just pretty much shout at you and tell you to move the tip of the sword yourself.



So yeah. He trained me again and I was feeling lazy/lousy because I was trained under the heat of the sun (who wouldn't feel lazy). My voice, when shouting, was weak. Finally, my crush shouted at me. "Please. Being an aspirant is not a joke, okay?" I felt like crying at that time! Then when I finally shouted with all my might, he TAPPED MY BACK and he said gently and smiled, "Ganun! Lakas pala boses mo, eh." I was kilig-ed, again.



One time, he trained me again. Then accidentally, I hit his arm with my sword. I said sorry in a military way. He LAUGHED AND HE SAID, "It's okay!". Wow. An officer should NOT laugh! He's the only officer who calls me by my name, not by my last name! And I knew how to walk in a military manner through him, because he walked WITH me and BESIDE me!




So my question is, do you think he likes me? Or is he testing me if I like him? OR maybe, he knows that I like him? I'm an incoming senior now, and he's an incoming Freshman in a local college. Guess what? He's taking up Nursing there, which I will be taking too when I'll be in college! BTW, He added me up in Facebook. But everytime I see him online, we don't talk. Or sometimes he goes offline. I don't know why. But yeah. Please answer my problem. Thanks!