Relationships | March 2010

[Staff Writer Roch]

My Favorite Mistake

What blunders do you keep making when it comes to love? Spill them here!
Flip to page 48-49 for the full article.

[katotsy]

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hmm ..
i thought kame na tlga forever .
haha ! umikot mundo ko sa kanya .
i forgot na may friends ako ..
aun we broke up last feb15 .
kaya ang hirap ulit bumangon ..
pero bute nalang may mga friends ako ..
weew . 

[venlovesyou]

Ayun, he courted me for a year then dapat mag-one year na kami so almost 2 years lahat. Naudlot ito nung nagcollege na siya. So there, he met this girl without even telling me that he already have feelings for her. Nung sigurado na siya sa nararamdaman niya, he broke up with me. Then karma 'cause niloko niya rin pala yung girl. He told the girl na wala siyang girlfriend. Ayun, parehas kaming nawala sa kanya.

[jheztin]

grabe nman ung gnun,,,um..medyo nkarelate ako ng konti,,,hehehe

[cheribum]

 :)buti ka pa nakabawi.. congratz on your speedy recovery!ako may i-share ako sa inyo
 dated a guy for 2 1/2 mos,he was from the States and we were classmates in grad school. I was skeptic of his intentions with me at first, because his upbringing in the states made me doubt his character. before i was really stern and i decided to keep "pushing" him away from me. Made him feel that i was uninterested but he kept on coming for more. But i did eventually obliged to go out on dates with him.Nothing really happened between us, no level of intimacy or whatsoever. Just having fun and narrating each other's life stories. Along the way,we had a falling out because of the pressures we encountered during grad school. We decided to have time apart. Until one day,he just stopped altogether, whatever form of communication we had. No greetings, text messages or calls.But when i confronted him he said that i was wonderful and he was just working out some issues with his family. I respected that and decided to give him time. However, one of his friends told me that he was seeing other girls. During one event in november, i confronted him about and he said that he does not at all care about the other girls.I really felt guilty about the way i treated him before, my act of pushing him away..So i swallowed my pride and i said that "i do like you" and we should give it another shot.However, he just said that its unfair to me cause his gonna move away to another grad school. I got rejected after saying the words he used to tell me that he wants to hear from me. And that was it....A week after he resumed dating the other girls, especially this 1 girl who used to desperately stalk him, when we were stilll dating. And i learned soon after that they are currently living in. We see each other in grad school because he and i still share the same schedule for our subjects. Now he avoids me like im the plague. However, i catch him staring at me a lot especially in our classes. he is excelling in are school and he doesn't seem distracted. But with the mere mention of me.He would suddenly be quiet and drop the subject altogether.Me,on the other hand, have a hard time getting over what happened. It affected my studying habits. i wanna be sooo over.But with march coming soon, and him leaving no closure still occured between us. I'll never see him again. i tried talking to him a few times but it was just hi/ hello and he avoids eye contact with me.Still,he continues to stare at me with his eyes...

should i still seek closure?why is he avoiding me? is it guilt or is he not over,like me?thank you so much

[Annika27]

:| X( ang lakas nang loob.
panu naman ako di magagalit eh....
di ko rin talaga inasahang ipagpapalit ako. HMPH.
may both of you be happy.

[mabskii]

i'm always jealous. O.o
but what can i do. he's such a handsome guy... and flirt. 

[aoi]

wow..

[`shane-]

haay ! mey share aqu ! there is disz 1 guy . as in he has everything . myaman.gwapo.mbait. ! actually he`s my ex . i love him so much . i even promised him na sxa na ung last guy na m2hln qu .. we lasted for 2 years . kea lan on & off ksxe pmpnta sxa sa london 4 der business .. haay ! it really hurts . ang dming ng`m2hal sknya . en hnd nia maiwasan na hnd mkpg`fling sknla . aun ! 1 day ng`break qme . den few mnths after . ng`tecs sxa ulet . den prng qme na hnd ? hnd qu nga maintndhn e .. den i asked him f anu ba aqu sxknya en anu ba qme . he juz simly answered . hnd qu alm kng anu aqu sknya . en ayaw nia na mgènter muna sa kht anng cmmitment .. pero prng qme . den cnsbhn nia aqu ng iloveyou . i asked him f cnsbi nia ba un sa ibng gurls . sbe nia ou daw . it hurts badly ! cnbe pa nia sxken . e anu nman . ur not even my girlfriend . awts ! sket2 nun . anu ba pwd qu gwn ? i still love him pero pnphrpan nia aqu .

[bianx1702]

akala ko basta't love niyo na ang isa't isa okey na,..
pero ba't ngayon nahihirapan ako!!
masakit na makita na di kayang
tanggapin ng parents mo yung karelasyon mu,..
sana dumating yung time na maging masaya na sila para sakin

[Julengg]

The guy whose courting me said to another girl that  he loves her, after that incident , i still accept him ,then we became couples , we last for just a couple of weeks . But we still love each other until now . Just by last week , he ask me if he could court me again , and after that , when they have their swimming ,my friend told me that the guy flirt with somebody ,they was like , hugging ,holding hands under the water and the flirt girl sited at the lap of the guy , the guy was topless . And now , he`s asking for my forgiveness . I  really love him but ... should I forgive him again ?? PLS HELP ME .thank you .

[barbiegirl_]

hi guys..niloko ako ng bf ko ng 4yrs long distance relationship ksi kame..at ang bago nyang girlfriend ay ang bestfriend ko..nakakahurt tlga..ano dapat kong gawin??..

[bhebhe.fhudge17]

hi guys..niloko ako ng bf ko ng 4yrs long distance relationship ksi kame..at ang bago nyang girlfriend ay ang bestfriend ko..nakakahurt tlga..ano dapat kong gawin??..

Obviously, you can't do nothing but to move on. Andiyan na 'yan eh. 'di na mababago 'yan. Kahit magalit ka pa o umiyak ng umiyak, everything have happened. All you need to do now is accept what happened & continue your journey. Madami pang guys diyan na siguradong mas mamahalin ka. Life goes on. Ang isipin mo na lang ngayon is 'yung studies mo. And definitely, 'yung sarili mo. Ipamukha mo na lang sa ex mo na he's not worth your tears (even though you know to yourself that he is). Maging happy ka na lang para sa sarili mo. Someday you'll gonna find the man that are destined for you. 

[bhebhe.fhudge17]

share ko naman po story ko. Ako naman, I'm with my BF for 7 m0nths. Masasabi ko namang ok ang relationship namin. Kaya lang, marami ak0ng insecurities. Iba kasi religion niya sa akin. Syempre, iba ang life nila. Nag-seselos ako kasi naiisip ko na baka hindi ako gusto ng parents niya para sa kanya or baka may makilala siyang girl sa church nila. Something like that. In short, nagigiging paranoid ako. Then kahit sino pinagseselosan ko. Kasi ewan ko ba, nasasaktan ako. Pero hindi naman as in lahat pinagseselosan ko. Hangga't sa dumating 'yung point na lagi kaming nag-aaway dahil sa pagseselos ko. Recently ko lang napag-isip-isip na mag-bago for the sake of our relationship. Hindi na ako masyad0ng nagseselos & kung ganun man, tahimik na lang ako. Kaya ngay0n, masaya pa rin kami kahit na syempre, hindi maiiwasan ang tampuhan. 

[xstylekissviax]

It's natural for us girls (well I suppose guys too) to get jealous. (pero, in my case, nasa next step na pagiging selosa q  )

Alam niyo un minsan nagseselos ka even though maliit lang na bagay.
Kasi for me, kaya ganun is because you want your bf/gf to be 'just' yours or maybe you are just protecting your partner not to find/attract to someone else.

Kasi diba, san ba nagsisimula yung mga pagkakamali, diba kasi sa minsan akala ni GIRL A is may gusto c BOY A sa kanya kasi kinakausap siya ni BOY A at parang ang sweet niya, or kasi nakakaattract c BOY A, tapos ito namang c BOY A eh nakakita ng something kay GIRL A na wala kay GIRLFRIEND kaya, aun. Dba nakakaselos un?  (pero kung magselos ka naman ang sasabihin ng BF mo sau eh 'Negative iniisip mo', which is true. Jealousy could be a negative thing.)

In my case naman long distance relationship kami ng BF q, I admit sobrang selosa aq. Kahit pagpunta sa simbahan nagseselos aq. Kasi naman nung umuwi kami jan sa pinas, nung kapag nagsisimba kami, eh para namang hinde simbahan pinupuntahan ng iba (lalo na mga girls, revealing ang damit... simbahan po un..) Xempre mga boys naman, ang mga mata.. =)) Actually, nde lang sa simbahan, halos every where na. I dont know if ganun na ba tlga pananamit? Ayun, so diba kapag ganun nakakaworry lalo na kapag long distance relationship. Then mga disco, beach/pool outings yan yan... Nagseselos ren ako jan. I hate to admit it but I think I'm being so mahigpit sa BF ko, kasi kapag nagpapaalam siya, aun magagalit naq.. then sasavhin q pa "alam mo nmn ayaw q diba? bkit magtatanong ka pa? gusto mo ba pumunta?" Am I being so 'over' na ba?