Teentalk

Author Topic: How to make a guy FALL in love with you?  (Read 1248 times)

jamerx

  • sugar drops
  • *
  • Posts: 65
  • Karma: +0/-2
  • TeenTalker
How to make a guy FALL in love with you?
« on: February 20, 2010, 10:33:19 pm »
Eto kasi ang situation namin,

he is someone who i think likes me although hindi pa on the more than friends level. We are not even that close kasi i tend to surround myself with invisible barriers tas when im in school, I'm self-assured and etc, so hindi ako desperate, but when i'm at home, at times parang gusto ko mainlove ako at gusto ko may makilala. he is my classmate and most of our talks (when there is) is all about school. Kapag kasi hindi school, nagiging awkward or wala kaming matalk about. siya nga palagi yung nagtatanong about school kasi im also "known" there for being knowledgable about things, so there were some signs which made me like him

sign 1, he read a book which i like a lot. though he doesn't know it, hilig ko yung libro na binasa niya
sign 2, he smiles and is very friendly tas thrice na yata niyang sinabi na super bait ko raw
sign 3, he cares about his studies more than the others, tas he doesn't have any vices
sign 4, we seem to be the same in attitude and he even defended me twice from people who kept teasing me, and although it was because i helped them in something, it still striked me na he is a very grateful kind of person

there were times na nagbibiro siya sa kin, pero di ko alam kung dahil lang ba yun of the circumstance, pero because of all of these things added up, i seem to like him

now what did i do so far?

- i became a little playful to him hiding his book and i said it wasn't there but he just smiled and said liar
-i cared a little kasi noong time na gusto niyang magcr, tas nag-uusap kami nun, sinabi ko agad, di ba magccr ka? sabi naman niya na ayaw ko raw na nandun cya kasi sinabi ko na dapat na siyang magcr when in fact i cared for him thats why i did that


pero still i dont think he would make a move if he doesnt know i like him,,a far greater problem is my friend likes him so,,i dont know if ill just let it go, tas i dont know how to care without showing that i care hayzz

vague_yelhsa

  • cotton candy
  • *****
  • Posts: 1602
  • Karma: +110/-13
  • Who owns my heart? Is it love or is it art?
Re: How to make a guy FALL in love with you?
« Reply #1 on: February 20, 2010, 11:02:47 pm »
Hahaha...

I can almost relate... well, yeah. ALMOST.

darkangel_twentyfive

  • bubblegum
  • ****
  • Posts: 693
  • Karma: +16/-24
    • .multiply.
Re: How to make a guy FALL in love with you?
« Reply #2 on: February 20, 2010, 11:17:38 pm »
just make sure not to expect anything... some guys are just naturally like that. ;)

with regard to your query, i don't thing there is a procedure to follow to make a guy fall in love with you.. as far as i know, you can't make or force a guy fall.. just be yourself... he will come.. whoever he is.. :)
"I still find each day too short for all the thoughts I want to think, all the walks I want to take, all the books I want to read, and all the friends I want to see." – SYDNEY J. HARRIS

Hanzo23

  • cotton candy
  • *****
  • Posts: 2430
  • Karma: +127/-43
  • Quod fuimus, estis; quod sumus, vos eritis
Re: How to make a guy FALL in love with you?
« Reply #3 on: February 21, 2010, 01:21:01 am »
Eto kasi ang situation namin,

he is someone who i think likes me although hindi pa on the more than friends level. We are not even that close kasi i tend to surround myself with invisible barriers tas when im in school, I'm self-assured and etc, so hindi ako desperate, but when i'm at home, at times parang gusto ko mainlove ako at gusto ko may makilala. he is my classmate and most of our talks (when there is) is all about school. Kapag kasi hindi school, nagiging awkward or wala kaming matalk about. siya nga palagi yung nagtatanong about school kasi im also "known" there for being knowledgable about things, so there were some signs which made me like him
Is it me or are you trying to force yourself to fall in love with a guy here?? The line that separates love and infatuation sometimes blurs itself that one cannot see where the differences lie.

Quote
sign 1, he read a book which i like a lot. though he doesn't know it, hilig ko yung libro na binasa niya
If its a bestseller, i would still assume that its a coincidence. At most, it just tells you that he has the same interest in reading material as you

Quote
sign 2, he smiles and is very friendly tas thrice na yata niyang sinabi na super bait ko raw
There are guys that are like this that are well mannered and soft spoken, its called having good quality parents and excellent brought-up

Quote
sign 3, he cares about his studies more than the others, tas he doesn't have any vices
Again, see response above for reference. I can relate to him since I focused more on my studies and no vices when I was still in my academic years. Its called being responsible.

Quote
sign 4, we seem to be the same in attitude and he even defended me twice from people who kept teasing me, and although it was because i helped them in something, it still striked me na he is a very grateful kind of person
Same response as the two above.

Quote
there were times na nagbibiro siya sa kin, pero di ko alam kung dahil lang ba yun of the circumstance, pero because of all of these things added up, i seem to like him

now what did i do so far?

- i became a little playful to him hiding his book and i said it wasn't there but he just smiled and said liar
-i cared a little kasi noong time na gusto niyang magcr, tas nag-uusap kami nun, sinabi ko agad, di ba magccr ka? sabi naman niya na ayaw ko raw na nandun cya kasi sinabi ko na dapat na siyang magcr when in fact i cared for him thats why i did that


pero still i dont think he would make a move if he doesnt know i like him,,a far greater problem is my friend likes him so,,i dont know if ill just let it go, tas i dont know how to care without showing that i care hayzz

The bottom line is, and this is a life lesson too "Never assume anything and believe it to be correct."

Assumption, even scientists, will postulate a hypothesis and do their best to test it out to prove their claim, if they were right, great! If they were wrong, big deal, at least they knew.

All signs that you have given can be explained. The only way with a degree of certainty that a guy has feelings for you is when he gets way out of his way just to accomplish something that you cannot get without your expectation. I wont discount the fact if he does have feelings for you, but I wont assume either as well.

As for making the guy fall in love with you? Now that's hard. Remember that there is no "potion" or "gayuma" to coax or force someone to fall in love with you. Its something that only a person can realize.
You shall no longer take things at second or third hand nor look through the eyes of the dead, nor feed on the spectres in books
You shall not look through my eyes either nor take things from me
You shall listen to all sides and filter them from yourself

kannon

  • Guest
Re: How to make a guy FALL in love with you?
« Reply #4 on: February 21, 2010, 08:26:09 am »
haha find a need  ;)

We all have needs, whether we are aware of them or not, and when a person fills in that need, it's almost a sure shot that you'll fall in love with that person  ;)



sweetie_friend

  • cotton candy
  • *****
  • Posts: 1932
  • Karma: +20/-11
Re: How to make a guy FALL in love with you?
« Reply #5 on: February 21, 2010, 02:05:37 pm »
haha find a need  ;)

We all have needs, whether we are aware of them or not, and when a person fills in that need, it's almost a sure shot that you'll fall in love with that person  ;)

totally agree with you.
although I think making someone fall in love with you is quite difficult, if not impossible. kasi it's a matter of a person's preference din kasi talaga, blame it on our genes, it dictates our mind whom we will be attracted to. :)

I have a very good friend, we started that way, he treats me the most special among all the girls, and sobrang gwapo nya talaga, lumabas pa sya in one of john and bea's movie.. and then turns out, he really likes my personality, we're the same in almost everything but that's about it. I'm not romantically inclined with that person anymore, hehe. but we're the closest sa group namin.

.. but nothing beats a very attractive personality talaga :) one thing that i'm sure of yan. one may be the most beatiful in the crowd but if one has no personality, wala rin.. so be unique in your own way. make yourself stand out sa world ni guy so he'll notice and see u more in a different light diba ;)
« Last Edit: February 21, 2010, 02:09:46 pm by sweetie_friend »

dieyeney

  • sugar drops
  • *
  • Posts: 28
  • Karma: +0/-1
  • TeenTalker
Re: How to make a guy FALL in love with you?
« Reply #6 on: February 22, 2010, 11:50:55 pm »
Just be yourself. :) Mahirap kasi kung nafall na siya then iyong pinakita mo lang pala sa kaniya nun ay nagprepretend ka lang para mafall siya. AND, its hard to force someone too fall inlove. Honestly, it's him who should realize that sooner or later. :) Goodluck!

elouise:)

  • bubblegum
  • ****
  • Posts: 619
  • Karma: +10/-25
  • just smile :)
Re: How to make a guy FALL in love with you?
« Reply #7 on: April 20, 2010, 08:26:34 pm »
yup, tama yung sinabi ni sis.. just be yourself. don't dress too much, don't put makeup too much....lahat ng sobra, hindi na maganda..ang pinaka maganda ay.. magpakatotoo ka ^^
Real treasures are not what the hands can grasp, but what the heart can hold.
Real peace cannot be found outside ourselves but within and with GOD.

HELLOOO! :]

unrequitedLAB

  • taffy
  • ***
  • Posts: 387
  • Karma: +8/-6
  • I pity the fool that falls in love with you ♫ ♪ ♫
    • Ask me anything! :)
Re: How to make a guy FALL in love with you?
« Reply #8 on: April 22, 2010, 09:59:47 pm »
The best way is to be yourself and do not expect. Sometimes, kung kailan pa ang pangit pangit mo na, like hagardness and all, doon ka pa mapapansin nung tao. :-)
[/font]
Cause I been there before
            And you've been there before...

                         But together we can be alright. :">

fremarie

  • chocolate rocks
  • *
  • Posts: 11
  • Karma: +0/-1
  • • kerstinscloset.com •
    • Kerstin's Closet™
Re: How to make a guy FALL in love with you?
« Reply #9 on: April 22, 2010, 10:32:38 pm »
I guess you'll just have to be urself, no pretensions or anything. Guys like girls who are simple. Mas prefer nila yun kesa sa mga girls na over dressed or over kakapal ung make-up. Haha. :)
Check out Kerstin's Closet: Your Trusted Online Fashion -&- Beauty Shop

Fashionable clothes, Beauty products, Couple Baller Bands, & more!

Online Shop: http://www.kerstinscloset.com

elouise:)

  • bubblegum
  • ****
  • Posts: 619
  • Karma: +10/-25
  • just smile :)
Re: How to make a guy FALL in love with you?
« Reply #10 on: April 23, 2010, 01:16:32 pm »
I guess you'll just have to be urself, no pretensions or anything. Guys like girls who are simple. Mas prefer nila yun kesa sa mga girls na over dressed or over kakapal ung make-up. Haha. :)
hahah..oo nga,i agree . :D
Real treasures are not what the hands can grasp, but what the heart can hold.
Real peace cannot be found outside ourselves but within and with GOD.

HELLOOO! :]

malinkelly

  • jellybean
  • **
  • Posts: 203
  • Karma: +2/-1
  • TeenTalker
Re: How to make a guy FALL in love with you?
« Reply #11 on: April 23, 2010, 02:38:49 pm »
^tama, be yourself, ang ipakita mo kung ano at kung sino ka, ang dapat mong gawin,..

kannon

  • Guest
Re: How to make a guy FALL in love with you?
« Reply #12 on: April 25, 2010, 11:04:03 am »
Just be yourself lang din.

Even if you manage to make him fall in love with you,  if you simply pretended to be some you truly aren't, lalabas din yan sa relationship niyo at di rin kayo tatagal  ;)

sweetwarrior

  • Guest
Re: How to make a guy FALL in love with you?
« Reply #13 on: May 21, 2010, 12:32:40 pm »
I guess you'll just have to be urself, no pretensions or anything. Guys like girls who are simple. Mas prefer nila yun kesa sa mga girls na over dressed or over kakapal ung make-up. Haha. :)

best example si melai.. idol ko talaga un. totoong-totoo un pinapakita! kaya naman nainlove si jayson. haha.

chamie muffin

  • sugar drops
  • *
  • Posts: 94
  • Karma: +0/-5
  • the voice of everything and anything..
    • my daily diary blog♥
Re: How to make a guy FALL in love with you?
« Reply #14 on: May 29, 2010, 11:23:23 am »
to make a guy fall in love with you, just be in yourself, don't change your self para lang magustuhan ka nya. have confidence, always remember simplicity is beauty :) ;D
simplicity is beauty ;) <A HREF="http://sugahpoplove.tumblr.com.htm">follow me on tumblr</a>

 

Candy Blog

Who We Spotted: Leighton Meester and Mario Maurer for Penshoppe
by: sam, 2012-05-27
Considering this has been one of the most star studded 7 days in Philippine Fashion Week...

Council of Cool Blog

Double Whammy
by: Janelle, 2012-05-23
Last May 8, I was given the chance to attend not one but two amazing events for Candy....
Summit Media
WOMEN'S TITLES: Cosmopolitan | Candy | Yummy | Good Housekeeping | OK! | Preview | Town & Country | Women's Health | Yes!
MEN'S TITLES: FHM | Entrepreneur | Men's Health | Techie | Topgear
WEBSITES: Female Network | Smart Parenting | Jobstreet | Style Bible | Shopcrazy

Reproduction of material from any CandyMag.com pages without written permission is strictly prohibited.
Copyright 2012 Summit Digital. All rights reserved. CandyMag.com is a property of Summit Media.

Contact information: 6F & 7F Robinsons Cybergate Center Tower 3 Robinsons Pioneer Complex Pioneer St., Mandaluyong City 1550 Philippines.
Telephone (63-2) 451-8888 | Fax (63-2) 631-7788

Our Privacy Policy | Terms of Service | Summit Media Corporate Website