long distance relationships...useless daw ba?

[mharickar]

kami ng bf ko, ldr na kami ngayon..9months syang nasa abroad bec. of his work.. and mahirap talaga ang signal sa kanila..bale 3 weeks na kaming walang communication after nyang umalis..kaya un, basta may tiwala lang kayo sa isa't isa and iwasan mong mag-sip ng kung anu-anong di maganda kasi kaw din ang mag-ssuffer nun....

[pinksweetie21]

For me, useless yung long distance relationships. Cos wala kayong chance na magkasama or mag'bonding. Grabe, thru text or tawag lang. BV kaya yun. :| Na'try ko na ito eh. Hindi pa kami nag`1 month, suko na ako. :3

[shinigami08]

para sa akin, depende sa tao yan. sa'kin kasi, ayoko ng LDR. kasi alam ko sa sarili ko na i easily fall out of love kung nasa malayo yung mahal ko.

..and isa pa, madali akong magka-gusto. LOL. but i don't cheat or anything.. mahirap lang talaga para sa akin ang mapalayo sa kanya. ^_______^

[darkangel_twentyfive]

Nasa tao naman yan eh... if they will make the LDR work or not... but of course in general LDR is not useles... it is STILL a relationship...

personally LDR doesn't work for me...kasi i experience this pero weeks lang naman whenever magbakasyon either my bf or i... sobrang LQ mode talaga pag LDR. di ko kakayanin un..or ewan, depende siguro sa partner ko..

[andee_nichole]

sometimes ok siya pero sometimes its really confusing and nakaka inis... ldr kse ako now and mejo naiinis pa ako sa bf ko coz we keep on fighting and mas type ko na ma hug ko siya if we're fighting....

[siKATHako]

we're going through LDR also. 2 months na kami hindi nagkikita. 2 weeks na hindi nagkakatext and tawag. confiscated kasi ng dad nya. BV di ba? haaay. but i don't think na it's USELESS. for me, dito natetest kung meant for each other talaga. kasi kung mahal mo ang 1 tao, wala kang pakielam sa iba. di ba? gagawin nyo lahat para mag-work out ang relationship nyo kahit magkalayo kayo. i know, mahirap. nakakamiss. pero God planned this for us, to be strong, not to give up easily. you just have to trust each other. and be patient.

[chumu]

me and my bf are 23 months already.. and for the past 10 months, we have been in an LDR relationship because he already graduated college (he is 2 years older than me, so i am stuck here in college.. alone..  )

anyway, we make sure that we see each other every month,, at least once a month.. its really really hard because i got sooo dependent on him but i kinda got used to the situation.. of course there are still those times we really miss each other and wish that things would go back to what was then.. but what can we do?? break up because LDR is useless? of course not..  its true that you guys dont see each other often but i think it will be unfair for both of you to break up kasi "hindi kayo magkasama lagi". if you really love each other then you will work things out no matter how tough your situation is..

in the end.. trust is all that matters.. trust your partner.. and don't forget to communicate often.. 

[jhayne_03]

i think hindi naman useless ang LDR.. kami ning ex-bf ko LDR kami for 2years, nasa states kasi siya pero hindi nawala yung communication namin,, suportado ng parents and kapag my happenings sa relatives niya dito sa pinas, kasama pa din ako.. kaya hindi naiwasan na kainggitan ako ng relatives niya, lalo na yung pinsan at tita niya na walang ginawa kundi siraan ako sa family niya.. yun nga lang dahil LDR nga, medyo napagod ako sa ganong situation, ayoko na siyang umalis ulit, nagpromise siya pati ung parents niya na hindi na sila aalis ulit pero binreak nila yung promise nila.. which is pinaka-ayoko.. ung nagbebreak ng promise. nakipagbreak ako.. and i admit nakapagsalita ng masakit against sa parents ng bf ko.. as a result, inayawan na nila ko..

ngayon may communication ulit kami, sadly, nasa davao siya.. LDR na naman.. pero dis time wala ng tulong sa family niya..haaayy.. and pinakamaskit, sabi ng dad niya, gagawin niya lahat wag lang kami magkasama ulit..

[dieyeney]

Been there, done that. It lasted for 3 months. Puro away, laging may problema sa trust. We tried to work it out pero wala talaga. Super hirap nito. Haaaay 

[animechan]

I agree :] LDR (long distance relationship) is not useless but difficult..it's because it depends on the female and male,,if they keep the communication tight and open it will not be that difficult..napagdaanan ko na siya.. kung nararamdaman mong seryoso siya sayo it will not be useless.. did you get it? and if once in a while you'll meet, i guess your relationship will lasts longer


just keep your communications with each other :]

and people have these instincts that they can feel whether the person is telling the truth or not

[h_u_n_n_e_y]

weee.. napagdaanan ko na to.. actually my current BF and I.. are LDR.. nag meet lang kame sa chat.. but, i think naman he's serious with me.. nasa tiwala and love lang yan.. yeah mahirap talaga.. but if you both love each other.. worth it yung paghihintay nyo.. hanggang sa magkita kau 

[azzurra]

It could work if both parties are willing to give it a good try

[sjacc_01]

ako, i'm in a long distance relationship. my guy lives in makati, while i'm here at indang, cavite. i agree, it's really hard, lalo na when you miss each other soooo much. pero we make it a point na magkita kahit once a month. we're both busy kasi. mahirap pumunta sa kanila, at siya rin nahihirapan pumunta dito. nagtitiis at nagtityaga lang kami, kasi gaya nga ng sabi ng bf ko, "para naman 'to sa future natin. " cheesy pero nakakatuwa.

and, hindi naman useless and LDR. magiging useless lang siya kung wala kayong tiwala sa isa't isa. ako naniniwala naman ako na one-woman man lang ang bf ko eh, and i have trust in him at siya naman ganun din. ayun lang naman. hehe 

[kannon]

Yes 

I've been through one of these before way back. She was in Camarines and I was in Manila. Everyday when I get home from school, nagttext kami throughout the night. I have no doubt that I really enjoyed it kasi uuwi ka from school may naghihintay sayong kausapin ka 

But I should have ended it na at di ko na pinahaba, wala rin kaming napala in the end. She studied college in Cebu after that di na kami nagttext bigla na lang nawala 

[yur_lover]

LONG DiSTANCE.. meron akong boyfriend ngaun and he lives close to LA and i live here somewhere in bay area. i havent met him in person yet. call and cam lang. i know for others this sounds crazy as fucckk. but for me its real. we didnt start very well. he used to treat me bad like how he talked to me. alam ko nuon pa na i dont deserve that pero i chose to stay with him. sobrang sakit tlga magsalita at sobra din akong nssaktan pero tiniis ko lang lahat yun. wala na nga yung pride ko for myself eh. ako na lang lagi ang magssorry kahit alam kong wala akong ginagawang kasalanan. he compared me to his past girls na mga iniwan lang sya. tinanggap ko sya kung sino sya i didnnt care if he was into drugs before i didnnt care if he was arrested many times before.. madami pa pero lahat yun tinaggap ko kasi i know he is not what others think he is. wala namang perfect eh. but anyways, first time nya magka gf na malayo so sometimes he wants to give up na but he said na alam nyang pag makipag hiwalay sya sakin eh ggwin nya ang biggest mistake. hanggang ngaun complicated padin ang relationship namin. we love each other alot pero parang hindi nya kakayanin ung ganitong sitwasyon. =/ gustong gusto ko na sya makita but it aint that easy. parang ang daming nagsstop na magkita kami. but i told him i can be strong i have alot of patient. pero sya hindi nya kaya. hindi sya sanay. everynight tuwing ssbhin nyang "i just wanna hug and kiss a girl right now", nassktan ako. nasasaktan ako kasi nasasabi nya yun sakin. nassktana ko kasi wala ako dun para ako yung mayakap nya.. one night cnbi nya skin na pagod na sya na gusto nya na lang kalimutan ang lahat and just start a new life without me. alam kong pagod na pagod ns sya, pero ako lang ang nagmamakaawa sknya na wag nya kong iwan, na wag nyang sbhin na everythings over. minsan naiisip ko sobra na ba akong makasarili, bakit ayokong pakawalan ung taong mahal ko kahit alam kong nahihirapan na sya. hindi ko kakayanin na malamang may iba na sya. na iba na yung cnsbihan nya ng mga bagay na sinasabi nya sakin ngaun. KAHiT ANONG SAKiT TATANGGAPiN KO WAG NYA LANG AKONG iWAN. i was never like this to any of my ex bfs. i never beg a guy not to leave me. sknya lang ako naging ganito.