All About: What if his mom doesn't like me?

[patricia_stfu]

Okay. So, alam ko yung mga girls nagwoworry kung magustuhan sila ng mom ng boyfriend nila. Kasi I'm on that situation. So mahirap talaga. Me and his mom haven't met yet. So... Na-experience nyo na ba? Or any suggestions?

[Hanzo23]

Okay. So, alam ko yung mga girls nagwoworry kung magustuhan sila ng mom ng boyfriend nila. Kasi I'm on that situation. So mahirap talaga. Me and his mom haven't met yet. So... Na-experience nyo na ba? Or any suggestions?

Ok, I do have a few questions for you.

1. Is he still in high school? College? College-grad?
2. Does he have brothers? sisters? unijo hijo? only child?
3. How does he treat his parents? particularly his mom?

[patricia_stfu]

Ok, I do have a few questions for you.

1. Is he still in high school? College? College-grad?
2. Does he have brothers? sisters? unijo hijo? only child?
3. How does he treat his parents? particularly his mom?

He's still in highschool. He has a sister. Older sister to be exact. And sobrang masunurin naman nya to his mom. He's nice and all.

[Hanzo23]

He's still in highschool. He has a sister. Older sister to be exact. And sobrang masunurin naman nya to his mom. He's nice and all.

Ok, the good news, he isnt the only child, so its not very difficult to impress the mom. The not-so-good news, he is still unico hijo, so dont think that you'll get off very easy on impressing the mom

Remember, he is now the one that will carry the family name, so expectations may be high, like you said, he is nice and all, lalo na if he is an honor student. I'm not gonna say that you have to be up to bar, parents are rarely "mahadera" like in the korean novelas that we see. They do become protective, ONLY IF they see any negative vices on you (smoking & drinking, if he doesnt do either). Otherwise just be your natural self and show that you genuinely take care of their little boy.

Never compete for attention. The mom may call his kid to either take care of something for her, just remember your place at the moment, he is her son, you are the girlfriend.

At the end of the day, open minded parents arent gonna put you through hell just to impress them, just show your genuine self (it doesnt harm to dress presentable during the first encounter!) and show your real personality. Parents can see right through you (especially moms, since they are women) if you try to pretend like something your are not.

[patricia_stfu]

Ok, the good news, he isnt the only child, so its not very difficult to impress the mom. The not-so-good news, he is still unico hijo, so dont think that you'll get off very easy on impressing the mom

Remember, he is now the one that will carry the family name, so expectations may be high, like you said, he is nice and all, lalo na if he is an honor student. I'm not gonna say that you have to be up to bar, parents are rarely "mahadera" like in the korean novelas that we see. They do become protective, ONLY IF they see any negative vices on you (smoking & drinking, if he doesnt do either). Otherwise just be your natural self and show that you genuinely take care of their little boy.

Never compete for attention. The mom may call his kid to either take care of something for her, just remember your place at the moment, he is her son, you are the girlfriend.

At the end of the day, open minded parents arent gonna put you through hell just to impress them, just show your genuine self (it doesnt harm to dress presentable during the first encounter!) and show your real personality. Parents can see right through you (especially moms, since they are women) if you try to pretend like something your are not.

Thanks a lot! You're supeeeer nice and I like people like you. Hee. :') Siguro nga, expectations ng parents sa kanya. And he is a varsity kasi. I'm the miss-good-girl and he's the bad boy. Haha. Kumbaga po, ako yung nagpapangaral sa kanya. Kasi medyo lagalag yun. Pero responsible naman. Tsaka mahilig yun gumala. Ako hindi. Pero in a way, mabait pa rin sya. About his mom, siguro dapat harapin na lang. And my friends told me to be just myself. Hindi ko raw kelangan mag-bago.

[Hanzo23]

Thanks a lot! You're supeeeer nice and I like people like you. Hee. :') Siguro nga, expectations ng parents sa kanya. And he is a varsity kasi. I'm the miss-good-girl and he's the bad boy. Haha. Kumbaga po, ako yung nagpapangaral sa kanya. Kasi medyo lagalag yun. Pero responsible naman. Tsaka mahilig yun gumala. Ako hindi. Pero in a way, mabait pa rin sya. About his mom, siguro dapat harapin na lang. And my friends told me to be just myself. Hindi ko raw kelangan mag-bago.

No problem, one good idea to impress the mom is to make sure that his boy doesnt goof off too much when he is away from home. Trust is a very valuable asset. If you can earn it from her that she will get the peace of mind when her son is away but he is with you, then he is being taken care of.

I wont suggest acting like a second mom though, some guys dont like that. So do the parents lalo na if they guy is still living under their roof. Like I said earlier, never compete for attention, never compete for roles as well. Moms will be moms, that goes even after he gets married. For now, just give her the due respect she deserves, and you will get yours in return.

[patricia_stfu]

No problem, one good idea to impress the mom is to make sure that his boy doesnt goof off too much when he is away from home. Trust is a very valuable asset. If you can earn it from her that she will get the peace of mind when her son is away but he is with you, then he is being taken care of.

I wont suggest acting like a second mom though, some guys dont like that. So do the parents lalo na if they guy is still living under their roof. Like I said earlier, never compete for attention, never compete for roles as well. Moms will be moms, that goes even after he gets married. For now, just give her the due respect she deserves, and you will get yours in return.

Oo nga po eh. Thanks po ulit. Hee.

[nicole45]

  ako din..ganyan din iniisip ko..
what if kung hindi ako magustuhan ng mom niya..
pwede pa advice??
ano mga dapat gawin pag ma meet na yung parents??kabado kasi ako pag ganun...
yung bf ko graduate na siya,panganay,,, one younger sister and 1 younger brother,,,
masunurin din siya sa mom niya.hahaha

[patricia_stfu]

ako din..ganyan din iniisip ko..
what if kung hindi ako magustuhan ng mom niya..
pwede pa advice??
ano mga dapat gawin pag ma meet na yung parents??kabado kasi ako pag ganun...
yung bf ko graduate na siya,panganay,,, one younger sister and 1 younger brother,,,
masunurin din siya sa mom niya.hahaha

Hay. Ewan ko din kung anong gagawin. Feeling ko ayaw ng mom nya sakin eh. :O

[nicole45]

Hay. Ewan ko din kung anong gagawin. Feeling ko ayaw ng mom nya sakin eh. :O

  bakit naman? na meet mo na siya sis??..
natatakot ako sa mom niya,syempre first time ko ma meet.

[patricia_stfu]

bakit naman? na meet mo na siya sis??..
natatakot ako sa mom niya,syempre first time ko ma meet.

Hindi pa. Actually. Long story. Hehe. Ayoko ibulgar dito eh. Strict kasi ata parents nya eh. :O

[mangaagaw]

I don't think his Mom likes me anymore after I broke up with him :p

[patricia_stfu]

I don't think his Mom likes me anymore after I broke up with him :p

Harsh. Haha. Pero nung nakilala ka ng mom nya, gusto ka? :-/

[mangaagaw]

^ Yeah I guess so coz she was nice to me... His Dad for sure likes me tho.

But eh, doesn't matter anymore coz we're not together anymore so ehh whatevs I guess.

[patricia_stfu]

^ Yeah I guess so coz she was nice to me... His Dad for sure likes me tho.

But eh, doesn't matter anymore coz we're not together anymore so ehh whatevs I guess.

yeah. haha. pero some couples parted off as friends eh. kayo?