Relationships | January-February 2010

[Staff Writer Roch]

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[gabby031807]

well,by next week i'll be going to Dubai for a vacation. it's a birthday treat for me and i don't know when i'll be coming back. i have a boyfriend, hmmm correction, EX- boyfriend and i love him so much. we've been together for more than 7 months and my parents doesn't like him. he doesn't want me to go to dubai because he thinks i'm leaving him for good. he also thinks that i'm not fighting for our relationship. how can i explain to him that i'll be coming back soon and i don't have any plan on leaving him?

[Harissa]

also in my part when we leave phil. and went bangkok .. i just told my boyfriend that ill be coming back soon .. but he didnt trust me .. so here is what i did, december 27 2009 i surprised him .. text him na mag meet kami at moa .. skating eat dinner blabla .. he was shock when we have dinner i gave him my teddy  bear ... it was my fave bear and he knew that if im with that ill cry .. so then he trust me .. now we are together again .. gulo ba ? haha .. sorry ..

[confusedandbroken]

I have this friend that has been in love with a girl na hindi pa niya nakikita ever since. few more months, they will celebrate their first anniversary na. imagine, theyd never seen each other before. even once. but they lasted for months and months and months.

ako, and our friends, keep telling him na better let go of that girl na kasi wala naman syang nagagawa para sa friend kong guy. he should not waste his time on that kind of relationship na parang, sa text lang nagstart. what should i tell my friend to convince him to let go of the girl na?

and besides, there is someone which my guy friend really likes. and he just can make a move on that girl because he's stuck into a relationship with that girl nga na he havent seen before.

hindi naman sa nakikialam kaming mga friends nya. wala lang nagagawang mabuti talaga yung pakikipagrelasyon nya sa girl na yun. it can make him happy. but until when? we just dont want him to get hurt or what.

what should i tell him? he's confused right now because the girl that he really likes was in our barkada na. he'll be seeing the girl almost everyday..

what should i tell him to change his mind?

[miSSa]

my boyfriend and i have this weekly fight and ako lagi ang sisinisi niya. we've been together almost a year and when we're fighting palagi niya ko'ng  minumura. it really hurts me so much na parang gusto ko nang mamatay.  i called my self as BATTERED girlfriend also, 'cause when his really mad at me, sometimes he would pinch me or slap me ,shouting me and sometimes infront pa ng mga classmates ko. i cant even open up to my friends dahil kung malaman niya ,much pain ang aabutin ko sa kanya. i really love him so much and after naming mag argue ang sweet-sweet niya and i cant resist him. and i dont know how to talk to him in a nice way. And tell him na hindi ko na kaya panakit niya sa'kin..

[mizs_zunk_09]

it's o.k to lose your pride for someone you love; don't lose someone you love over your pride!

[eloisacid]

i have a boydriend for 2 years and 5 months now but he is always telling me that i don't trust him even if i do. what should i tell him just to stop him from thinking like that? please help me with this trust issue...

[Gwenie :]]

I have this crush in school and he's my classmate obviously lets call him mr. I can't Understand. I don't know if he really likes me but he always kisses me on the cheeks! (even though he has a girlfriend!!!!) I'm a chubby girl and one time he's friend (also a classmate) told me that if i would be slim Mr. I can't Understand would court me.....? really! it's so complicating! Help!

[mizs_zunk_09]

 :(ayts gurls can u help mi to my problem my bf and i weve 6 months na already peo lge ciang ngprapramis na mgbbgo na cia peo till now ndi prn cia ngbbgo .. lge ko ciang pngssbhan pero parang wla lan sknia peo kapag ibrebreak ko cia ayaw nia  ..

[trixha]

i have this clan mate and we often text each other, until he and his girlfriend broke up, of course i gave him advice and then one day he told me that he wants me to be his girlfriend. is that possible na magkaroon ka ng feelings sa ka text mo lang?
i'm afraid kasi baka na carried away lang sya sa feelings niya kaya sya ganun.
i admit he's cute and he's really nice, and i admire him.. and honestly medyo na ffall na ko sa kanya, i don't know what to do..
i asked him why me, and he just said "masama ba? kasi gusto kitang mahalin". 
at hindi pa kami nag kikita ng personal, do you think he's really sincere with his feelings?
i need your advice..

[simplegurl18]

ei...i got this bf....and we always kinda have some little fights...and...last night he saw my previous facebook and my name was 7loves9...i was offline in yahoo then..he got a bit angry...9 was the number of my ex bf..and....what am i supposed to do? pls. reply..

[simplegurl18]

hey..i forgot..i don't love my ex anymore..and i just dont know what to od...it's just i have the attitude of keeping memories..and...i guess help? i love him so much...i don't want us to have a break up just because of this....pls . reply...

[karoleena]

what if your boyfriend two-timed you to a fat and ugly girl?we had been in a relationship for more than 2 years we just broke up last june 25 2009 and till now i cant believe he two-timed me. I once saw the text message of the girl and i asked him if its true that he has someone else and he said no and i beleived him 

[annie_rose019]

well,by next week i'll be going to Dubai for a vacation. it's a birthday treat for me and i don't know when i'll be coming back. i have a boyfriend, hmmm correction, EX- boyfriend and i love him so much. we've been together for more than 7 months and my parents doesn't like him. he doesn't want me to go to dubai because he thinks i'm leaving him for good. he also thinks that i'm not fighting for our relationship. how can i explain to him that i'll be coming back soon and i don't have any plan on leaving him?

i just want to give you this piece of an advice ..
if your parents doesn't like him ..
think of a plan (you and your boy ) on how to get your parents to like him ..
it might not be easy and it might take a long time ..
but at least you two fought together 

why don't you give him a call ? or leave him a message
or simply write a letter and ask his friends to give it to him..
inside that letter, say everything you want to say for him ..
tell him how much you've loved him, and you're fighting in the sake of your relationship..
if he really loves you, then he'll be waiting and keep on believing you ..
as long as your honest to your feelings..
i believe everything will be fine as long as you love each other
look at the bright side ..

[xyster_freak19]

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:(ayts gurls can u help mi to my problem my bf and i weve 6 months na already peo lge ciang ngprapramis na mgbbgo na cia peo till now ndi prn cia ngbbgo .. lge ko ciang pngssbhan pero parang wla lan sknia peo kapag ibrebreak ko cia ayaw nia  ..

well gurl if you do love him you can wait till he change but if your olweiz giving him a chance and nothing happens, just let go of him even if he dont want it. coz if he do loves you when he told you nah magbabago nah xia e gagawin nya tlga yun gurl:] hope nah maayoz nyo yan gurl..