Relationships | January-February 2010

[gabby031807]

help pls.
nid lng tlga kea ko ngpost.

i have dis txtm8. last yr pa kmi ngkatxt.
gus2 ko na xa pero ntatakot ako na mgjump into a relationship wid him,
cos of his ex na kkbrek lng nila.
since auko nmn mging rebound or wat d ko mna xa cnagot,
mjo pakipot pa pero swit mnsan. mnsan d nmn ako ngre2ply.
less than 5yrs ang nging relationxip nia wid her so alam ko nhirapn xa mglet go
at bka mgulo lng icp nia at that time.

3mos dn kmi halos ngkatxt.
dhil sa nireto xa ng frend ko sakin. bnigay nia no. ko sa kanya.
dumating ang tym na prang nging cold nko sknya
na hindi ko xa mxadong tnetxt kundi gudnyt lng.
dhil dun mnsan nlan dn xa mgtxt since then.


then 1day, bday ng cm8 ko kea ngyaya ng inuman sa haus ng cm8 ko.
sakto na mjo malapit ang haus nia dun kea ngantay pa kmi hngang mguwian xa.
un ung 1st tym na mgkita kmi since nhi2ya nmn ako mkpgkita sknyang kming 2 lng,
naun nafifell ko na tlga gus2 ko ult xa mkit, ndi nmn dhil sankita ko na xa na po sa physical appearnace nia, pero dhil gus2 ko tlga xa.

dont know what to do abt the gap between us,
pra kcng d na mbblik un dti na mejo swit xa skin. prang cold na tlga, casual nlan pgnguusap.
how can i approach him na?
do i have to make the 1st move?
or should i wait for him?
dko dn alam if he has gf na kc wla nmn xa cnsabi. pero prang meron kc sa fb nia my binubuy xa den tntwag niang babe14.
hay pnu po toh.

hmm girl try mong itext xa, be friends, let him feel na u are ready to listen to his problems. kung naka get over na ba xa sa ex nya, ganun. wag mo xa biglain ng mga questions like who's the girl in his fb.. and wag mo ipakita na u really like him.you don't know na baka pag nalaman nya na my gusto ka sa knya, i-take for granted ka lng nya. hmm.. it's still ur decision on wat you are going to do., just a friendly advice!.. -gab..

[gabby031807]

Feeling ko po yung bf ko nanlalamig na sya sakin. pero kapag na oopen ko yun sinsabi nya na naiisip ko lang yun and mahal nya ko.
lagi nya pinupuri yung EX nya.. nababangit nya yung mga qualities non na wala ako.kunyare nalang ok sakin,kahit hindi. 'coz he kept on telling me wag ako masyadong mag isip ng kung anu-anu para di ako tampo ng tampo.
insecure na ko..
tapos parang friends lang kami. feeling ko kinakahiya nya ko. haay..
nagugulo na po isip ko.
what should i do?

talk to him.wag ka magkunwari. let him know kung ano nararamdman mo. ask him kung mahal pa ba nya ung ex nya, and if he says yes, then it's time to let go. i think you are gorgeous my dear.. madami pa jan.. live your life. -gab

[dan0809]

Feeling ko po yung bf ko nanlalamig na sya sakin. pero kapag na oopen ko yun sinsabi nya na naiisip ko lang yun and mahal nya ko.
lagi nya pinupuri yung EX nya.. nababangit nya yung mga qualities non na wala ako.kunyare nalang ok sakin,kahit hindi. 'coz he kept on telling me wag ako masyadong mag isip ng kung anu-anu para di ako tampo ng tampo.
insecure na ko..
tapos parang friends lang kami. feeling ko kinakahiya nya ko. haay..
nagugulo na po isip ko.
what should i do?

if u feel lyk he's cold with you... be hot with him joke, but it makes sense in a little way... ikaw ang manlambing...

and don't be insecure with other girls.. ikaw ang girlfriend diba?
nafeel ko na yan actually, at wala syang nagawang maganda sa'kin..

i feel so down, at ano? ayun. just believe on yourself..

Love your bf more!

P.S: MALI KO NG NAQUOTE KANINA. ahaha. destructed kasi sory!

[venlovesyou]

Go to Dubai and don't tell him when will you come back. Dapat siguro you should have space for each other pa whether kabebreak niyo palang or hindi. In that way, mas makakapag-isip-isip both sides niyo if may chance pa or wala. 

[mheesgee]

The What If Situation:

What if...

you believed that your bf and yourself are so meant to be and seems to be so perfect for each other. He loves you and you love him dearly. Soon both of you are thinking of getting married because your love is too tough for anyone to break.

Then one day a girl flutters her lashes unto your man and he loved it feeling masculine about it. You also found out that it was his ex whom he had also for a few years and had a almost-ringing bells relationship with. you couldn't confide it to yourself of course but he has been tactful about his past relationships in a way he doesn't wants you to feel any awkward feelings about it. he respects you alot. finally, you talked to him about the matter then after wards things became messed up for both of you.you just keep on fighting everyday eventhough you are not mentioning it to him anymore.

what if?

[iheartnikka]

 ;Dhaha! kaya natin to!

[EhLa18]

ang sakit talaga masaktan nakakairita haist yung bf ko nagpakasal sa iba tapos ngayon tumatawag tawag pa rin sya sakin at sinasabi nyang mahal nya ako... di ko na alam gagawin ko

[hukissnamme]

ang sakit talaga masaktan nakakairita haist yung bf ko nagpakasal sa iba tapos ngayon tumatawag tawag pa rin sya sakin at sinasabi nyang mahal nya ako... di ko na alam gagawin ko

sis like what you said married n xa sa iba....think of this kung mahal ka nga talaga niya bkit kailangan niyang magpakasal sa iba..d ba? Mas makakabuti sa inyong dalawa ikaw na ang unang umiwas sa kanya ...change your digits para d ka na niya matawagan pa...kalimutan mo na xa anyway kasal na siya ....di maganda kung ikaw ang maging dahilan ng d magandang pagsasama nila ng asawa niya....start another life dear..marami ka pang makikilala which is right for you...

-danna-

[venlovesyou]

my boyfriend and i have this weekly fight and ako lagi ang sisinisi niya. we've been together almost a year and when we're fighting palagi niya ko'ng  minumura. it really hurts me so much na parang gusto ko nang mamatay.  i called my self as BATTERED girlfriend also, 'cause when his really mad at me, sometimes he would pinch me or slap me ,shouting me and sometimes infront pa ng mga classmates ko. i cant even open up to my friends dahil kung malaman niya ,much pain ang aabutin ko sa kanya. i really love him so much and after naming mag argue ang sweet-sweet niya and i cant resist him. and i dont know how to talk to him in a nice way. And tell him na hindi ko na kaya panakit niya sa'kin..

girl, it's better siguro if cool-off muna kayo for a week or more than. It's not only for you but also for him...In that way makakapag-isip-isip kayo nang maayos sa isa't-isa. Iconfront mo rin siya kung ano ang main purpose ng gagawin mo.

[venlovesyou]

I have this crush in school and he's my classmate obviously lets call him mr. I can't Understand. I don't know if he really likes me but he always kisses me on the cheeks! (even though he has a girlfriend!!!!) I'm a chubby girl and one time he's friend (also a classmate) told me that if i would be slim Mr. I can't Understand would court me.....? really! it's so complicating! Help!

If he do like you, whatever your figure is he would choose you over his girlfriend and court you in his own way.

[venlovesyou]

:(ayts gurls can u help mi to my problem my bf and i weve 6 months na already peo lge ciang ngprapramis na mgbbgo na cia peo till now ndi prn cia ngbbgo .. lge ko ciang pngssbhan pero parang wla lan sknia peo kapag ibrebreak ko cia ayaw nia  ..

He, as your boyfriend, SHOULD respect whatever your decision is. And if ako rin yung girl, siguro cool-off muna. You two both need spaces for each other.

[venlovesyou]

i have this clan mate and we often text each other, until he and his girlfriend broke up, of course i gave him advice and then one day he told me that he wants me to be his girlfriend. is that possible na magkaroon ka ng feelings sa ka text mo lang?
i'm afraid kasi baka na carried away lang sya sa feelings niya kaya sya ganun.
i admit he's cute and he's really nice, and i admire him.. and honestly medyo na ffall na ko sa kanya, i don't know what to do..
i asked him why me, and he just said "masama ba? kasi gusto kitang mahalin". 
at hindi pa kami nag kikita ng personal, do you think he's really sincere with his feelings?
i need your advice..

Girl, wag muna masyadong maniwala lalo na't kakabreak palang nila. Baka kase at the end ikaw rin masaktan and hindi rin yun malabong mangyari. As you've said, baka nacarried away lang siya..

[Julengg]

The guy whose courting me said to another girl that  he loves her, after that incident , i still accept him ,then we became couples , we last for just a couple of weeks . But we still love each other until now . Just by last week , he ask me if he could court me again , and after that , when they have their swimming ,my friend told me that the guy flirt with somebody ,they was like , hugging ,holding hands under the water and the flirt girl sited at the lap of the guy , the guy was topless . And now , he`s asking for my forgiveness . I  really love him but ... should I forgive him again ?? PLS HELP ME .thank you .

[im_numb10]

it's o.k to lose your pride for someone you love; don't lose someone you love over your pride!

TRUE ((:

The guy whose courting me said to another girl that  he loves her, after that incident , i still accept him ,then we became couples , we last for just a couple of weeks . But we still love each other until now . Just by last week , he ask me if he could court me again , and after that , when they have their swimming ,my friend told me that the guy flirt with somebody ,they was like , hugging ,holding hands under the water and the flirt girl sited at the lap of the guy , the guy was topless . And now , he`s asking for my forgiveness . I  really love him but ... should I forgive him again ?? PLS HELP ME .thank you .

I think that guy is a complete flirt (: if he has the intention to court you again, dapat hindi na siya nakipag ganun sa girl, tapos ngayon hihingi siya ng sorry sayo. eh baka nga nung ginagawa nila yun hindi ka niya naisip.

I think he's not ready to be serious yet. you can forgive him pero balikan mo na lang ulit if he's ready to be honest and prioritize you (:

[natz000]

hi  guiz...  My bf  and i broke up last march 14,2011 then we became friends but whenever that we are with our friends we often talk with each other. maybe naiilang kami sav isat isa or perhaps nahihiya.. then October 31,2011, he read my sent items on my phone that it hurts me every time that he's texting his gf when he's with me. then he laugh at me, then i'm about to walk away to him when he hug me so tight and said i'm sorry then he kissed me.i cried coz or almost 6 months that we dont even sit beside each other, hold the hands with each other, he did that to me and  i dont know why he said sorry. Until now whenever that we're together he's that kinda sweet to me but then i dont to expect from him anymore coz i know that he love his gf...thats what i know...!!

i just want some advice coz i really cant move on to him.... do you think he still love me?