Relationships | December 2009

[alexcatabay]

Heart breaks are truly unavoidable. There would always be that time when the two of you would get into a fight deeper than you expected. Sometimes this would lead to a heartbreak even though your not officially breaking up. All I can say is that decisions are to be made. Don't be hasty about things specially with decisions. Just be wise. Look for your friends advice but don't let this affect your true judgement of the situation. For me the Key for a good relationship is communication. Communication is quality time, a gift, form of service to the person, It's like a love language like no other. Sometimes heartbreaks are challenges to test how strong a certain relationship is. I believe all people in this world has a partner for them. All I know is. True love waits .

[mikeemousey]

People come and go

[Lycan Ann]

Hi guys! I really need help. It was almost 2 weeks ago since my boyfriend broke up with me. And that was the same day of our first month. I tried to fix things but it doesn't work out. I know it's my fault to always bring something up that he wouldn't like, but he just don't want to talk about it. We're always fighting in a little things yet he still doesn't want to talk about it. It's like he doesn't want to fix things. And the worst part is he told me that every time we fight, his love for got lesser and lesser. It hurts so much but I just can't let him go. But he really wants a break up. He said that he wanted to think things over. And now its almost 2 weeks, we haven't even have a formal break up. He just texted me to say that it's over and he doesn't want to have any commitments for a while. We often see each other at work and we really are like strangers and it hurts do bad. I'm still hoping that his mind would change and come back to me. I really want him back but I'm too afraid that if I talk to him about this, he would reject me and never come back. What should I do? (

[sabcarrillo]

Nag break kami ng EX ko because mas importante sakanya ang barkada nya and gimicks.. I think he's not yet ready to have a serious relationship

[StuckonYou]

Nag break kami ng EX ko because mas importante sakanya ang barkada nya and gimicks.. I think he's not yet ready to have a serious relationship

Aw I know it was so hard on your part sab, but don't worry i know God have plans for you. Uhmm...Just think about it. God will not allow you to be in that guy na puro sarap lang ang gusto right? Mahirap talaga maka move on lalo na KUNG matagal kayo. First step? Just cry and cry and cry let it go. panget naman kung indenial ka d ba

[lovelyladylicious]

i just want to ask some advice, coz right now, im still confuse. kc di ko alam kung kmi pa rin ng bf ko. Dec 17 nkilala ku sya sa isang site, and then nging friends kmi, later on, nging kmi, at pag spit ng Jan 31 umuwi sya d2. he stay in the PHil for 2 weeks. ung 2 weeks n un, sobrang saya ko, kla ko nga di na matatapos un. ksu dumating  n ung time n aalis n sya, i was so sad, and it hurt coz i know that it will take a few months b4 i can see him again. coz seeing him in the cam is not enough you cant touch him, kiss him, hold him, and more. 

pero nging ok p rin kmi, khit magkalayo kmi, sbi nia dit 3 or 4 months lang siya sa Australia. kso after 2 months ngka problema kmi pareho. siya dhil di sya maka alis a apartment niya. dhil nka pirma sya ng contract dun for 1 year. sbi nya ung my are ng apartment na inuupahan nia, binebenta n raw, pero kylanga nia pa ring tausin ung 1 year na un bgo sya makauwi sa pilipinas. (pwdi b un? binebenta n ung bahay pero sya p ung mgbabayad pag umalis sya? ... i know. kc parang du plang parang ginawa n nia akong tanga.  pero ok. lang kya ko p un. kc mahal ko sya) pagkatapos ng topic na un, nging maayos ulit kmi. kso dun a site kung san kmi ngkakilala sabi nia close n raw ung account nia dun. pinabayaan ko. per one time nkita ko uli n online sia sa filipinacupid, i confront him, sbi nia friend nya dw un. kc daw sayang ung account nai kung di na magagamit. (pero kung ung friend nia ung gumagamit bkit di nia pinalitan ung name. at ung iba pang personal info tungkol sa knya.) simula non, i always have doubt about him. and then a weeks later i just notice that he's been busy, and he dont even have time to text me. unlike b4, we always chat, and he always  text me and call me,.

then last April 09, i text him and i said, i miss the old Gary Ive use to know, and i will always love you no matter what.
but he didn't reply me, and when we chat he's mad, and he even said he was so disappointed with me, after he say those things  to me i said to him that im also disappointed and i never expect him to that to me.
and we had a argument for 1 hour, then i said to him ' lets talk about it tomorrow. '  and he said. 'ok, ill just text you when we can chat tomorrow.' i reply. 'ok take care, walk safe, and dont forgot to eat you lunch' and he didn't reply me anymore. i wait him everyday to text me.but he didn't. and after 1 week of waiting i decide to send him email. but there's no response. another 1 week again, i send him email. i ask him if he still love me. but no response again.  and since that day i visit the site call filipinacupid. and everyday his online there. but he dont have time to tell me that he don't love me anymore.

i don't know why his doing that to me. i didnt do anything wrong. as a matter of fact, when we are still together or even were just seeing each other thru cam, when he made  decision i  always say yes, even i don't want, and he even change me. and then one of my friend tell that, its my fault coz i always take him for granted, and my friend say that maybe he is just waiting me to say sorry. like what i always do.

but i still love him and waiting him.

should i let him go, or mag hihintay p rin ako? please give me an advice.

[arvee008]

Every Girl's Guide To Skipping Heartbreak
Spare other girls the heartbreak! Share your love lessons here.
Flip to page 70-71 for full article.

Hi po! newbie po kasi ako. Hindi ko po kasi magets yung statement na
"Flip to page 70-71 for full article". I mean san po yan?
Ahm. sorry po, hindi ko lang talaga magets and I am curious.

Thanks po!

[Nikki.]

Hi po! newbie po kasi ako. Hindi ko po kasi magets yung statement na
"Flip to page 70-71 for full article". I mean san po yan?
Ahm. sorry po, hindi ko lang talaga magets and I am curious.

Thanks po!

Hi! Meaning niya po ata yung sa December ish 2009 ng Candymag.
And anyway, I'm having a problem in my relationship as well... Pero idk. Hoping it'll get better in time.

[arvee008]

Hi! Meaning niya po ata yung sa December ish 2009 ng Candymag.
And anyway, I'm having a problem in my relationship as well... Pero idk. Hoping it'll get better in time.

 

Ganun po ba ? wii.  Sige. Salamat !

[fabulouschick]

As of my experience... I don't have heartbreaks this whole 2010 2011 because I had a Loving, understanding (not too much), caring (super), sweet (100%) BOYFRIEND... He's the kind of guy who's gonna hug you back despite of you're ugly attitude and behavior... That's me...