Relationships | December 2009

[Staff Writer Roch]

Every Girl's Guide To Skipping Heartbreak
Spare other girls the heartbreak! Share your love lessons here.
Flip to page 70-71 for full article.

[yniiechan]

hmm, For me... as we know we can't avoid break-ups right??
but for me, my opinion to avoid break-ups as as possible you can is, to have patience, understanding, trust.. at wag mo ipilit ang sarili mo sa isang bagay na maaring mong ikapahamak.. always give space, wag masyado maging selosa ung tipong nasa tamang lugar ka, alam mo kung ano ang dapat pagselosan pero it doesn't mean na lage ka ng ganito kung alam mo may mali, itama mo wag mo hayaan na uulit ulitin nia yun diba??... .. ahe.he...that's the way i see it, pero wag mong sisihin ang sarili mo kung magbreak man kayo at least you did what is right its not your fault its him/her... ahahaha.. san gets nio?? .. geh.!

[princessly17]

ouch !! I had my 1st boyfriend ever !! and He was  cheating on me !! This love hurts so much !! I just knew it when a friend told me that My BF had other GF!! and as I went home, I opened his Friendster profile, posted shoutout by him: " ILOVE YOU M !!!!!!!!!!!! " why would that be M if I am ''j ''!? OUCH !! I hope that M is Mary because my fist name is Mary Joyce .. OUCH !! 

[xan_0415]

i'v been to many relationships already...malalaman mo nmn yan eh if the relationship is still at its best condition...if you feel like there's something wrong already talk with each other...kayo lang kasi ang nakaka alam nyan and you have to be honest w/ your self and mostly with your feelings...you can ask advices to your frends but it doesnt mean you have to follow it..be considerate also with your partner..ask your self what are your issues with him and ask him as well kung may mga bagay ba na ginawa mo na di nya nagustohan..from there you can exam and decide what should you do...go on w/ the relationship or hindi na..when you talk w/ your different issues kasi malalman mo ang mga bagay na hindi mo pala akalain na hindi nya nagustohan. at least with that if the both of you decided to go on with the relationship you can't repeat the same mistake again..kahit gaaano kaliit ang issue you need to talk about it...habang tumatagal ang issue na hindi nabigyang linaw lalaki at lalaki yan...ang ending you break up na puro masama ang loob sa isa't - isa..and when you argue, you argue one at a time..never shout..ther's no need to shout para lang ma intindihan..the tone of our voice has a lot of meaning..not to mention mixing it up with some emotional words..lalaong lumlala...

[PrincessDoremi]

I had my first boyfriend last november and .. IT WAS TOTALLY.. I MEAN SO SO WRONG! Pinalangin ko na nga na sana di na nangyari yung mga moments namin. Darn, wish ko sana di nalang nangyari yun. Okay, here's the story guys.
He was my classmate and we don't really know each other until one day, my bestfriend is crushing on him. I'm not saying that i'm mangaagaw, well matagal na yun at dun ko siya unang napansin. Maraming crush bestfriend ko so it doesn't bother her while i'm geting closer and closer with this guy. And then I fell inlove with him because he kissed me for the first time in my life and that made me so BADLY inlove with him. But then after a few weeks, my friends noticed that my bestfriend and my BF are flirting with each other. Idk if I should hate my bestfriend but, again, I sacrificed for her. All guys that I like or I'm crushing with was turned up into crushing on her. Yeah that hurts me a lot. But, whats bestfriend for right? After knowing that, my bf don't talk to me often. The last time he talked to me when I looked at his eyes so deeply and I asked him why. He said, "wala lang masakit lang talaga tiyan ko" No, I'm not worried because, why would he still play badminton if his stomach hurts right? And then, at night, I texted him confirming that we need a break. I didn't say that because I'm inlove with someone else but because - I caught him at my friend inbox saying that "Pare, wala akong lakas ng loob makipag break eh .." That didn't make me cry, that made me SO - broken. After that day, my bestfriend told me that liniligawan siya ng ex ko. That means, nagbreak kami because he's inlove with someone else. I don't want to hate my bestfriend, but I kept pretending that it's okay - eventhough I'm not. My first question in my mind was - "Why her? Why does it have to be my bestfriend?"

[_hottie_]

super seloso ng bf ko.
there was a time na nagka - crush ako sa close friend ko,
nalaman niya ito.
he quitted!
he broke up with me. 
but it didn't end there, nakipag ayos siya sa akin and gave me another chance to prove that I love him.

[krizia.chloe]

hmm, For me... as we know we can't avoid break-ups right??
but for me, my opinion to avoid break-ups as as possible you can is, to have patience, understanding, trust.. at wag mo ipilit ang sarili mo sa isang bagay na maaring mong ikapahamak.. always give space, wag masyado maging selosa ung tipong nasa tamang lugar ka, alam mo kung ano ang dapat pagselosan pero it doesn't mean na lage ka ng ganito kung alam mo may mali, itama mo wag mo hayaan na uulit ulitin nia yun diba??... .. ahe.he...that's the way i see it, pero wag mong sisihin ang sarili mo kung magbreak man kayo at least you did what is right its not your fault its him/her... ahahaha.. san gets nio?? .. geh.!

   -- wow ! expert qa na po ba sa gnyan ?? hehe   
 well, kkadaan qo lng dyan ... haaaiisss.. sk8 !! grbe .. indeed i'm selosa, pero nsa lugar nman .. hlimbwa.. uwian na .. wow... bag ng girl na frend nia nddala nia, smantlang aqo?? wula ! tsk.. and one day ... nag end na kme .. kse nlaman qo he's courting sum1 .. ouch .. ndi qo na sya pnag explain .. cnbe qo lng na ayw qo na ... grbe nman kse .. tpos nlman qo pa, dte pa daw nia gus2 mkipagbreak!! huhu    .. 1st qo pa nman sya .. share qo lng po .. . it's been a week .. cguro nga, healing a broken heart takes time tlga ...  thnks ..   haaaiii...


       .. kya qo to .. there are many fish in the sea pa nman daw ..

[deeeth]

this is my first time to experience a relationship na hindi masyadong nagkaproblema. at times, nakakatakot din na baka one day bigla na lang kami magkasawaan. but the thing is, every day that we see each other, lalong nagiging mas intense yung feeling. and mas nagiging intimate talaga. may tampuhan at times. pero unlike my past relationships na talagang every month bago yung monthsary namin, lagi may fight na matindi. ewan ko ba. but i feel happier now. naisip ko kasi dati okay lang yung ganun na lagi kami nag-aaway nung mga naging boyfriend ko in the past, ksi that way i know we'd be stronger and i was happy about it. pero ngaun na ganito kami ng bf ko, im so much happier now. mas masaya yung lagi kayo magkasama yet hindi nyo pinagsasawaan yung isa't isa. and another thing, we still prioritize our family and studies above all.

[niknaksaycon]

hi!!candy mag..

uhmmmmmmmmmm...para hindi kayo mag break dapat you  realy trust each othr. kasi me and my boyfrnd 2 years na kami now pro hindi tlaga kmi lge nag tatalo..
but i have a problem ryt now feeling ko kasi hindi na xa swit sa akin..hindi ko talaga na fe.feel na special ako sa kanya..sometimes lang..
help..................................

[bhebhe.fhudge17]

hi!!candy mag..

uhmmmmmmmmmm...para hindi kayo mag break dapat you  realy trust each othr. kasi me and my boyfrnd 2 years na kami now pro hindi tlaga kmi lge nag tatalo..
but i have a problem ryt now feeling ko kasi hindi na xa swit sa akin..hindi ko talaga na fe.feel na special ako sa kanya..sometimes lang..
help..................................

Siguro you should approach him & ask him kung bakit siya nagkaka-ganun. Have a heart to heart talk. In that way, you will know what's the real score between you. Mahirap mang-hula kaya it's much better to ask him about his behaviour. 

[liziexxii]

bsta palagi mong tatandaan sa mga break ups,
sa una masakit. SA UNA LANG.
mawawala din yung pain pagkalipas ng mga days or months.. whatever.
hindi kayo destined para sa isa't isa (i believe in destiny. LOL!) that's why you two broke up.
u two have to break up kasi malay mo,
makikita mo yung right person for you.


 that's what you should think kapag sa break up. that's what i do. :_

[heart_babe]

cno ba namang tao ang nd nakarnas ng hartbreak? kh8 nmn ako eh at hnggang ngayon nd pa ako mkamoveon sa knya    hay!!! pero gnun tlga at tsaka nd mo nmn maiiwsan un eh mging maingat ka na lng tlga sa su2nod. kc my ibang ba2e na kpg nanligaw na sa knila go na lng ng go kc crush nila o gwapo pero dpat kila2nin mo muna ng maigi bgo mo sya sgutin pra nd ka mgsisi sa huli!

[alemaj18]

hi there candyman.........

im into a long distance relationship.... nakipagbalikan kc ex ko sken......
what are the things that i should do para tumagal relationship namen. thanks po.....

[liziexxii]

hi there candyman.........

im into a long distance relationship.... nakipagbalikan kc ex ko sken......
what are the things that i should do para tumagal relationship namen. thanks po.....

HEY! i'm into long distance relationships too. almost all of my past relationship(even present) are LDR.first ,don't forget to communicate. communication is important in long distance relationships. second, learn to trust each other. and last, but not the least, BE FAITHFUL. being faithful is one of the great things you can do in a long distance relationship. especiallt if you want to make it last.


hope this would help.

[jacobian]

hmmmp...if your experiencing a LDR you should have trust to each other..shempre dapat my communication kayo..dont skip to give each other a gift every my important events xa lyf nio...and dont worry kng hindi ito mgwork out kasi kng mahal nio talaga ang isa't isa malalampasan nio ang lahat na dinadanas nio ngayon...ung tama na ang mali at pwede na ang hindi..
hope na mgwork out un....
always think positive...(positive outlook in life is the best)