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http://abcnews.go.com/2020/hiv-criminal-busted-women-lied/story?id=8579258


I just watched a replayed episode on Oprah a while ago, and it was about the story of 5 among 27 women who were infected of HIV/AIDS by one Philippe Padieu in the course of over 10 years.


Let me ask you ladies a question: who would most certainly fit the profile of an HIV positive woman?

Prostitutes? Drug Addicts? Convicted Criminals?

Well, let's break that prejudice because the women we're talking about here are middle-aged professionals, some are business women, and at least one is even a grandmother!

All of them were victimized by a "cool, slick and mesmerizing Karate Instructor" named Philippe Padieu.

Even when the red flag was raised among these women, some of them still continued to ignore the warning because they thought and they TRUSTED that they were in Trustworthy and exclusive relationship. The victims said that Philippe "looked" clean, neat and confident enough, and so they took him for his word.

It would take just a little bit more time for these women to finally know the truth that all of them were positive of HIV.

Well now, this should serve a lesson to us all so that we may be reminded of the traditional virtues of Chastity and Temperance.

Of course, most of us young people are weak when the stirrings of the flesh awake our sleeping passions, and God understands that.

Suppressing the sexual urges is very unhealthy, but it does not mean that we must be promiscuous.  The message of this story is not to suppress our longing desires of intimacy and companionship, but only that we must be careful, prudent and wise.

At the very least, the most disinterested advice the story could give each and everyone of us is this:

when that 'moment' comes and if we really cannot avoid the 'moment', please, do not reach the point of penetration.


« Last Edit: December 14, 2009, 03:38:32 am by pach »
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Re: 1 HIV positive man infected more than 27 of his dates and girlfriends
« Reply #1 on: December 15, 2009, 09:17:17 pm »
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Suppressing the sexual urges is very unhealthy, but it does not mean that we must be promiscuous.  The message of this story is not to suppress our longing desires of intimacy and companionship, but only that we must be careful, prudent and wise.

whats funny is Catholicism considers masturbation as a "gravely disorder" hence the song "Every sperm is sacred"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U0kJHQpvgB8
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Re: 1 HIV positive man infected more than 27 of his dates and girlfriends
« Reply #2 on: December 15, 2009, 09:34:57 pm »
Good point, even the clergy is divided in this issue. But most of the priests I asked though say it's part of the human adolescent growing process.  Well, in that case, I'm all too happy to act immature  ;D


but I still stick to the 3 qualifications for a sin

1) intention
2) consent
3) gravity

« Last Edit: December 15, 2009, 09:36:32 pm by pach »
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Re: 1 HIV positive man infected more than 27 of his dates and girlfriends
« Reply #3 on: December 15, 2009, 10:12:21 pm »
Good point, even the clergy is divided in this issue. But most of the priests I asked though say it's part of the human adolescent growing process.  Well, in that case, I'm all too happy to act immature  ;D


but I still stick to the 3 qualifications for a sin

1) intention
2) consent
3) gravity

Just be careful and dont get blind in the process  ;D
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Re: 1 HIV positive man infected more than 27 of his dates and girlfriends
« Reply #4 on: December 19, 2009, 01:28:06 pm »
Suppressing the sexual urges is very unhealthy, but it does not mean that we must be promiscuous.  The message of this story is not to suppress our longing desires of intimacy and companionship, but only that we must be careful, prudent and wise.

I know someone who suppress it very well.
I wonder if he will later on realize na its not healthy
though i actually admire him for doing that for sooo LOOONNNGGG ;D :D 
Thought for the day :"Do not worry avoiding sexual temptations. As you grow older, they will start to avoid you ;D

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Re: 1 HIV positive man infected more than 27 of his dates and girlfriends
« Reply #5 on: January 09, 2010, 12:14:14 am »

Even though it can't 100% protect you from getting infected, condom is a must.
No rubber = No sex.

Regular check up is also advised.

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Re: 1 HIV positive man infected more than 27 of his dates and girlfriends
« Reply #6 on: January 15, 2010, 11:48:09 pm »
Just don't have sex with strangers and wear a condom(:
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Re: 1 HIV positive man infected more than 27 of his dates and girlfriends
« Reply #7 on: January 16, 2010, 01:56:32 am »
I know someone who suppress it very well.
I wonder if he will later on realize na its not healthy
though i actually admire him for doing that for sooo LOOONNNGGG ;D :D 

wow. :P
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Re: 1 HIV positive man infected more than 27 of his dates and girlfriends
« Reply #8 on: January 19, 2010, 11:13:09 am »
Abstinence is the key.

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Re: 1 HIV positive man infected more than 27 of his dates and girlfriends
« Reply #9 on: January 20, 2010, 05:44:43 pm »
^I might have to disagree with abstinence since sex is part of our physiologic needs (according to Maslow's Heirarchy of Needs). I'm not saying that you're wrong. Neither am I promoting promiscuity. I'm just saying that being in the medical field, abstinence is not an advisable solution.

Most HIV patients would look "clean and neat" as these ladies have put it since HIV has four periods: incubation, acute infection, latency and AIDS. In the incubation period up to latency, most of the symptoms could be misdiagnosed as an ordinary viral infection. The deadliest symptoms occurs when it's already AIDS (i.e. oral candidiasis, tuberculosis, Kaposi's sarcoma).

Using condoms is a must, though it only reduces the risk by 85%. It's better than nothing though, right? However, in the case of drug users, HIV can also be transmitted through needle-sharing. And the highest risk of transmission occurs in anal intercourse.
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Re: 1 HIV positive man infected more than 27 of his dates and girlfriends
« Reply #10 on: January 21, 2010, 09:09:01 pm »
huwag kasing masyadong makati.  :D

hindi ako naniniwala na abstinence yung key para makaiwas sa HIV. kasi tao lang tayo, and tama si untame77angel na hindi natin maiitanggi na part na ng needs ng tao ang sex. kailangan lang talaga ng ibayong pag-iingat.

 

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