FRIENDS WITH YOUR EX?

[maknaex3]

We`re friends.
Pero 'di kame masyadong naguusap kase mejo selosa yun girlfriend niya.. Kaya, Ayun. 

[jana_winx]

we're friends. but it took me 8 crying and bitter months to finally consider him as a friend. and it feels good. when we became friends, nawala yung bitterness ko and mas na-accept ko na hindi niya na ko love.
and mas masaya kasi at least we're ok. kahit as friends. nas nkakabitter kasi yung di kayo nagpapansinan tapos minsan nakikita mo siya.

[jaadict23]

you can be friends naman eh .. pero di naman kailangan madaliin na friends agad kayo,i thought before na madali lang na maging friends pero hindi, it takes time talga kasi ang hirap pag may feelings ka pa tas friends kayo tas may iba na sya .. it's hard. mag 1 yr.na kaming break and wala pa kong bago since nung nagbreak kami and sya naman parang may ka.MU sya. and di na ko nagpaparamdam but he always text me and telling me na may feelings pa din sya for me,i still have feelings for him din. so di pa pwedeng friends HAHA

[preppychic]

you can be friends naman eh .. pero di naman kailangan madaliin na friends agad kayo,i thought before na madali lang na maging friends pero hindi, it takes time talga kasi ang hirap pag may feelings ka pa tas friends kayo tas may iba na sya .. it's hard. mag 1 yr.na kaming break and wala pa kong bago since nung nagbreak kami and sya naman parang may ka.MU sya. and di na ko nagpaparamdam but he always text me and telling me na may feelings pa din sya for me,i still have feelings for him din. so di pa pwedeng friends HAHA

we're in the same sitch. ang pinagkaiba lang, he's pushing me away. i'm trying to be friendly enough pero parang criminal ako sa kanya at galit siya saken. siya pa me ganang magalet after all. 

[jana_winx]

I am. I broke up with him 1 year and 6 months ago. I never fell out of love. Now he's with someone else. I've got no one. He tells me stories about how pretty and how his new girl is with him. He even tells me we (me and the girl) are exact opposites. I laugh about it nalang. He'd never know how much it hurt.

haha. I can relate to this. but he doesn't tell me about the girl. he is sensitive enough to know that it still hurts me. but yeah, me too, i never fell out of love, and i've got no one to replace him. but he goes out with many girls.

[jaadict23]

we're in the same sitch. ang pinagkaiba lang, he's pushing me away. i'm trying to be friendly enough pero parang criminal ako sa kanya at galit siya saken. siya pa me ganang magalet after all. 

why is he pushing you away? wag mo na pilitin sis na makipagfriends sa kanya. in time siguro, pero not now .. mahirap ipilt.maybe he's not ready yet. like in my case, he's being super friendly sakin but i try to avoid him (pero di ko naman sya tinataboy) kasi im not yet ready na friends kami.

I am. I broke up with him 1 year and 6 months ago. I never fell out of love. Now he's with someone else. I've got no one. He tells me stories about how pretty and how his new girl is with him. He even tells me we (me and the girl) are exact opposites. I laugh about it nalang. He'd never know how much it hurt.

why do you tolerate this kind of sitch? i mean, stop doing this to yourself, you don't deserve this. don't pretend that everything's okay. maybe he thinks you're over him that's why he's telling you such things. be happy sis

[aerine]

friends kami ni Ex. bestfriends pa nga kami eh. Alam niya din na I still love him. it's been 6 months na din nung naging kami. he's with his new girl. nagk-kwento din siya sa akin about them. minsan nga sa akin pa siya umiiyak kapag nagkaka-problema sila ni girl eh. nakakaasar lang kapag minsan, bino-brought up niya pa na sana ako na lang daw yung girl niya ngayon. na he still love me daw. ayun. ang complicated nga lang. and he's always there din naman kapag nagkaka-problema kami ni bf ko ngayon.

[jmjana10]

`Im not the one who wants to be friends, he is. he's my first BF. at first na minahal ko kaya nung nagbreak kami sobrang bitter ako sa kanya. masisisi niyo ba ako? Firts Boyfriend and first love ko yun kaya ganun na lang ako.

pumayag ako to be friends with him. kasi nangungulet and im fine with it kahit mahal ko pa siya. kahit na inaasar niya ulet ako. mas caring pa siya nun kesa nung nging kami eh. then i tell him na. "PLEASE STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING, you know i'm hurting when you do that, alam mo naman na mahal pa kita pero yan ang pinapakita mo sa akin, kung ganyan lang din, di tayo pwede maging magkaibigan"

i don't know if he's still in love with me or not.
nung nalaman niya na nagkaBF ako, he always ask if im okay,
mahal ko ba daw ung guy or mas sweet daw sa kanya. which is nairita ako sa mga tanong niya. parang pinapahiwatig niya na mas matimbang pa siya sa akin kesa dun sa BF ko.

ngayon he's DEAD. awts.. heart attack.

[dosee]

I don't think there's a problem with that. I am, as well. And it's okay with me.
Just don't go to talk about your present boyfriend. HE DOESN'T CARE.

[Czaaa]

I think its okay

For me and as for my ex, we're now good friends we're both in a new relationship with no 'bitterness' for one another.


Well, for some:
After a break up they're so-called "Bestfriends" LOL. I dont believe that. Haha. I think Ex/es could be friends but Bestfriends? Err~~ I know may hidden agenda sa ganun :

[jaadict23]

friends kami ni Ex. bestfriends pa nga kami eh. Alam niya din na I still love him. it's been 6 months na din nung naging kami. he's with his new girl. nagk-kwento din siya sa akin about them. minsan nga sa akin pa siya umiiyak kapag nagkaka-problema sila ni girl eh. nakakaasar lang kapag minsan, bino-brought up niya pa na sana ako na lang daw yung girl niya ngayon. na he still love me daw. ayun. ang complicated nga lang. and he's always there din naman kapag nagkaka-problema kami ni bf ko ngayon.

parang same tayo sis.
anyways, so you're both in a new relationship na? pero you love each other pa din? parang ang complicated ata sis.

[aerine]

parang same tayo sis.
anyways, so you're both in a new relationship na? pero you love each other pa din? parang ang complicated ata sis.

aw. we're both in a new relationship, but we're still stucked in the past. haha.
complicated nga eh.
wala na kami nung bf ko after my ex na mahal ko pa.
sabi nga nung ex ko na mahal ko pa, "bakit ba ganun? pag may problema ako sa'yo parin ako lumalapit. ang sakit naman nun. sana hindi na lang kita iniwan noon. sana hindi kita pinakawalan. mahal na mahal parin kita". that was his last message to me.
naaawa ako sa girlfriend niya ngayon. parang pinaglaruan lang tuloy niya.
6 months na kaming nag-break pero ayun, mahal pa namin isa't-isa.
ano naman pala kwento nung sa'yo sis?

[cltudtud]

maybe there is a possibility na magkabalikan kayo, but for me, ako at ang ex ko and he always talk about our past, im sooooo over him pero siya he keeps on asking " gusto mo bang makipagbalikan?" but hindi ko siya sinasagot sa tanong nya and sometimes it is just ANNOYING,    .. but in some cases like that especially close friends kayo after nang break-up chuva niyo maybe there is really a possibility na magkabalikan kayo.. and who knows mas maging sweet at loving pa kayo sa isa't isa. but nasa inyong dalawa iyan, let's just wait and see nlng. haha

[emskey]

uh yung ex-gf ko, di ko pa din sya nakakausap =)) second ex, we're really really good friends, i can say that =)

[aerine]

maybe there is a possibility na magkabalikan kayo, but for me, ako at ang ex ko and he always talk about our past, im sooooo over him pero siya he keeps on asking " gusto mo bang makipagbalikan?" but hindi ko siya sinasagot sa tanong nya and sometimes it is just ANNOYING,    .. but in some cases like that especially close friends kayo after nang break-up chuva niyo maybe there is really a possibility na magkabalikan kayo.. and who knows mas maging sweet at loving pa kayo sa isa't isa. but nasa inyong dalawa iyan, let's just wait and see nlng. haha

so may possibility pa pala kami?. . lagi niya kasi binabanggit yung past namin kahit may bago na siya. weird talaga. haha