my dad died

[PiNK aNGeL]

Condolences sis.

Mahirap sabihin na makakayanan, at mahirap din paniwalaan ang "time will heal" dahil habang tumatagal, mas sumasakit.

I'm in your situation. Pero mom ko nga lang yung nawala. February pa nung namatay siya because of cancer. She fought with cancer for 2 years. During the last weeks of her life, I was in complete denial. Nasa isip ko nun, gagaling pa siya, kahit na imposible.

Hanggang ngayon sobrang sakit pa rin. Nawala yung kalahati ng buhay ko. Pakiramdam ko nga buong buhay ko nawala eh.

Kaya natin ito. Dapat kayanin.

[chibiporkchop]

Condolence po. Of course you're in the state of denial at first so you really won't feel anything when someone close to you dies. Pero habang tumatagal, lalo mo kasing nafefeel na wala yung presence niya kaya lalo kang nahihirapan. It's always like that when someone leaves, diba?

Just be strong and know ne he's in a better place. It would all be better. At least you know na hindi na sila naghihirap. Good luck with accepting it sis. It'll come. =)

[prettyjenna14]

ako din naranasan ko na yan
my dad died ilang months ago
pero kailangan ko din naman tanggapin
i hope na masaya na siya dun

[cams_08js]

your right sis . lalo na pag naalala mo yung mga bonding niyo or yung pangungulit and pag lambing sayo . btw . what cause ng death ng dad mo? if you dont mind .

[crashtestdummy]

Ito siguro ang pinakamalaki kong fear sa buong mundo. I cannot begin to imagine what you are feeling.

Keep going! Live your life in the way that he taught you para worth it ang naging buhay niya diba.

Virtual hug!

[kuchi]

condolence.. i would be so scared kung mangyari yan sakin.. advice ko: isipin mo nalang he's in a peaceful place and there's always a reason why things like that happen.. maybe because he has been a very good dad to you, husband to your mom and man to everyone around=)

[jurie n distress]

ei sis...first ov all..i giv u my condolences..

i know wat u'r encountering ryt now..

i've been n dat situation b4..
but as wat dey say, lyf must go on....

[snoogums]

I lost my dad too few years ago. It hurts a lot.. Be brave girl and my condolences..

Lemme share you my post.

http://araharaharah.multiply.com/journal/item/18/happy_birthday_dad.._

Hope you liked it. 

[shutupfoe]

Ako sis 1 year old lang ako when my dad died. Wala lang sakin nun pero ngayong 16 na ako, sobrang umiiyak ako kapag naiisip ko siya. Try to be strong, nandiyan mom mo and mga kapatid ko. Ganyan ginagawa ko eh, he's just beside you, guiding you all the time. Be strong sis!

[anina]

Mahirap talaga yan lalo kung close ka sa dad mo. same tayo pero lola ko. 7 years na patay lola ko pero mahirap talaga. just go out with your friends and make ur self busy. smile my dear friend.

[princessprecious27]

i was only 12 years old nung namatay papa ko.

we did not imagine he would die as early as the age of 43. who would have thought anyway? with his body so healthy plus jogging and exercise every morning.. 

biglaan kasi yung nangyari noon e..

no one expected na bigla siyang kukunin.. so sad.. really sad.. hindi kami masyado close ni papa compared sa mga kuya ko since only daughter ako.. the thing was, i never got the chance to tell him how much i love him when he was still alive.. 

so to those who still have their parent; this advice, treat them with love, show how much you value and care for them..

death is like a thief in the night.. no one can tell and predict kung kelan niya tayo kukunin..  it may be next year, next month, today, tomorrow or even now. no one knows.. only God knows..

the death of my dad was just in a blink of an eye..

i recall his statements when he was still alive.. he always reminded us not to be afraid of death because it's a part of our life.. and that, whatever happen he is always ready at any moment God gets him. true isn't it? he's a good person. if there's one thing, i would like to give thanks to him is yung pag orient niya samin spiritually.. wala man siyang naipamana na kayamanan but yung lesson and teachings ni Lord na na i'share niya sa amin e mas pa sa kung anung milyones ang meron sila.. 
he's not a pastor btw.. he's just an ordinary person who follows the will of Christ.. 

I cried a lot.. never a single day that tears didn't capture my face. what's more mortifying in my part was everytime i see my mom weeping, mourning and grieving.. as if nawala yung kalahati ng katawan niya..

and then the moment I was informed na wala na siya I began questioning God.. ba't yung papa ko pa yung kinuha niya e samantalang andami namang masasamang loob diyan..

but i was wrong for blaming God.. may purpose siya kung ba't niya ginawa yun..

ayaw na niya mag suffer si papa at the same time ayaw na din niya na gumasto pa kami.. imagine, the doctor told us we should raise 500,000 para ma operahan and kung successful man ang operation at maka survive siya, useless lang din naman kasi gulay na yung katawan niya..

november 24, 2004.

it was indeed a hilarious incident.. as if world had stopped revolving..

but it made us stronger anyway.. we have take it as a challenge.. a challenge to see how deep our faith on God was. 

it may be a lie for me to say that i have let go of the past. nobody lets go of memories be it good or bad. each tear that flowed was an unforgettable experience.  i believe that in this life there's no such thing as forgetting--only acceptance.

life must go on after all.
 
and after five years, i can't deny the fact that there are moments that I still cry..


now, i am 17 years old already, first year college. as time passes by and through God's grace i have no choice but to manage to accept the harsh cold truth that never will it happen that papa would be present during my debut, my graduation day, my wedding day and to the every days of my life . 


HEALING TAKES TIME BUT SELF-MOTIVATION AND PRAYERS MAKE IT MORE FAST.

hindi lang natin namamalayan.

-----

sis, don't hide feelings. iiyak mo lang yan coz mas mahirap yung may kinikimkim.. it might affect your health pa..

crying is part of healing.. be positive.. ayaw na ni lord maghirap papa mo.. imagine, kung buhay pa siya ngayon tapos you'll see him na may iba't ibang kumplikasyon.. ang pangit nu'n diba? at least now, you know where he is.. though masakit talaga kung sa masakit..


BE STRONG AND JUST PRAY..

[aning!]

awww. hugs.
i've never lost a parent but i know how it feels to have someone die.
be strong sis. don't forget that your dad has already shed his sick body.
pray na lang for yourself and for your family. kaya yan.
lapit ka lang sa Diyos.

[peachykeenjillybean]

i was only 12 years old nung namatay papa ko.

we did not imagine he would die as early as the age of 43. who would have thought anyway? with his body so healthy plus jogging and exercise every morning.. 

biglaan kasi yung nangyari noon e..

no one expected na bigla siyang kukunin.. so sad.. really sad.. hindi kami masyado close ni papa compared sa mga kuya ko since only daughter ako.. the thing was, i never got the chance to tell him how much i love him when he was still alive.. 

so to those who still have their parent; this advice, treat them with love, show how much you value and care for them..

death is like a thief in the night.. no one can tell and predict kung kelan niya tayo kukunin..  it may be next year, next month, today, tomorrow or even now. no one knows.. only God knows..

the death of my dad was just in a blink of an eye..

i recall his statements when he was still alive.. he always reminded us not to be afraid of death because it's a part of our life.. and that, whatever happen he is always ready at any moment God gets him. true isn't it? he's a good person. if there's one thing, i would like to give thanks to him is yung pag orient niya samin spiritually.. wala man siyang naipamana na kayamanan but yung lesson and teachings ni Lord na na i'share niya sa amin e mas pa sa kung anung milyones ang meron sila.. 
he's not a pastor btw.. he's just an ordinary person who follows the will of Christ.. 

I cried a lot.. never a single day that tears didn't capture my face. what's more mortifying in my part was everytime i see my mom weeping, mourning and grieving.. as if nawala yung kalahati ng katawan niya..

and then the moment I was informed na wala na siya I began questioning God.. ba't yung papa ko pa yung kinuha niya e samantalang andami namang masasamang loob diyan..

but i was wrong for blaming God.. may purpose siya kung ba't niya ginawa yun..

ayaw na niya mag suffer si papa at the same time ayaw na din niya na gumasto pa kami.. imagine, the doctor told us we should raise 500,000 para ma operahan and kung successful man ang operation at maka survive siya, useless lang din naman kasi gulay na yung katawan niya..

november 24, 2004.

it was indeed a hilarious incident.. as if world had stopped revolving..

but it made us stronger anyway.. we have take it as a challenge.. a challenge to see how deep our faith on God was. 

it may be a lie for me to say that i have let go of the past. nobody lets go of memories be it good or bad. each tear that flowed was an unforgettable experience.  i believe that in this life there's no such thing as forgetting--only acceptance.

life must go on after all.
 
and after five years, i can't deny the fact that there are moments that I still cry..


now, i am 17 years old already, first year college. as time passes by and through God's grace i have no choice but to manage to accept the harsh cold truth that never will it happen that papa would be present during my debut, my graduation day, my wedding day and to the every days of my life . 


HEALING TAKES TIME BUT SELF-MOTIVATION AND PRAYERS MAKE IT MORE FAST.

hindi lang natin namamalayan.

-----

sis, don't hide feelings. iiyak mo lang yan coz mas mahirap yung may kinikimkim.. it might affect your health pa..

crying is part of healing.. be positive.. ayaw na ni lord maghirap papa mo.. imagine, kung buhay pa siya ngayon tapos you'll see him na may iba't ibang kumplikasyon.. ang pangit nu'n diba? at least now, you know where he is.. though masakit talaga kung sa masakit..


BE STRONG AND JUST PRAY..

sis what a touching story. it made me cry. it did.
me and my mom had an argument. a big one. lately lng, and your post made me realise how lucky i am to still have her in my life. it gave me courage to apologise to her to everything ive done wrong.
you know how to handle things and I commend you for that.

keep up the faith.

[princessprecious27]

peachykeenjillybean:

hi sis.. thank you btw..  hehe.
uhm, yup.. we should be very much thankful na nakakasama pa natin sila. life is too short para i'spend sa mga pakikipag argue with them.. it is really so hard to regret in the end.. let's share with them our good words, love and lastly our time..

i guess my post was an instrument by God for everyone to know and realize what the true and real meaning of life is. 

God Bless you sis.. 

[lip]

Condolence. Pray ka lang. Everything is going to be fine.